Parent Like An Athlete

In this heartwarming, engaging, and sometimes challenging journey, we delve into the highs and lows of impending fatherhood and parenthood in general. We begin with a unique tale of a father who shares his intriguing Freudian theory on why his daughter prefers him over her mother. Then, we transition to an intimate discussion about the things parents wish they had done one last time before their first child was born – a blend of nostalgia and practical advice that soon-to-be parents may find particularly useful. The next story presents the struggles faced by a parent whose partner is unintentionally complicating the parenting process, turning simple outings into a nightmare. This is followed by a dad's personal and initially shocking revelation of discovering his girlfriend's pregnancy and the surprising joy that emerged from it. As we move further, we explore marital challenges that can crop up during this transitional phase, offering perspectives and advice for couples who may find themselves in a similar situation. Lastly, we delve into the concerns of a spouse whose partner's hobby might be taking up too much time. Join us as we share these tales of joy, struggle, anticipation, and real-life relationship dynamics from the front lines of parenthood. Don't forget to hit like, share, and subscribe if you enjoy the video!

00:00:00 Introduction
00:00:37 - My Daughter Prefers My Husband. He has a very Freudian Reason as to Why.
00:11:12 - What do you wish you would've done one last time before your first was born?
00:24:17 - Partner is making it harder to parent and outings are HELL
00:41:10 - Found out my girlfriend is pregnant
00:52:36 - Troubles with my wife
01:01:25 - Spouse's hobby too much?

https://youtu.be/9fEQLF_JY7AIn Episode 5 of our Parent Like An Athlete podcast, we dive deep into the world of #parenting as we react to three intriguing stories from Reddit that have stirred some heated discussions online.

🔸 The first story brings to the forefront the contentious debate surrounding disciplining children - with a mother grappling with her husband's approach to handling their young son's biting phase. A method she does not agree with. This story uncovers the challenges of co-parenting and the importance of aligning parenting methods.

🔸 Our second story is a funny but not funny account of a mother whose feelings were deeply hurt when a close friend compared her baby's appearance to an actor not conventionally deemed attractive. The story emphasizes the sensitivity surrounding our children's appearances and how people's comments, even in jest, can deeply impact a parent's emotions.

🔸 The final story comes straight from a new dad, sharing a piece of advice that many new fathers may find invaluable. This humorous yet essential account provides an inside look at managing extended family's expectations, especially when it comes to old-school parenting beliefs.

Join us as we unpack these stories, offer our insights, and share our personal experiences related to each topic. Whether you're a parent or soon-to-be, there's something in this episode for everyone. Don't forget to hit that 'Like' button, share your thoughts in the comments, and subscribe for more episodes of Parent Like An Athlete on YouTube! 🍼👟🎙️

Chapters:
00:00 #1: Husband spanks 2-year-old & I don't agree
16:20 #2: Friends jokingly compare baby to ugly actor
27:47 #3: A dad's advice for new dads

https://youtu.be/jz3W7R_6PxMWelcome to Episode 2 of Parents Like an Athlete! Join Otis and Gemma as they react to a collection of hilarious and thought-provoking Reddit stories on parenting.

In this episode, they delve into six intriguing tales shared by Reddit parents:

1. "Any of You Parents Take Solo Time Off?"
2. "When Did You Stop Hating Your Dog Post Pregnancy?"
3. "My Wife Doesn't Let Me Comfort Our Baby"
4. "My Husband and My Son Have Grown Apart, and My Husband Is Taking It Really Hard"
5. "Tips for Staying in a Hotel for Four Nights"
6. "Can We Stop with the 'However Months Old After a Year'?"

Get ready for a delightful and insightful discussion that covers a wide range of parenting experiences and challenges. From funny anecdotes to heartfelt moments, this episode has it all!

Hit that play button to enjoy the conversation and gain valuable insights from these relatable Reddit stories. If you find this episode engaging, don't forget to give it a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel, and share it with other parents who would love to be part of the discussion.

Thanks for joining us, and we'll see you in the next episode of Parents Like an Athlete! 👋😄

Introduction: The hosts, Gemma and Otis, introduce themselves and explain the purpose of their podcast: to explore parenting issues by discussing other people's experiences, sourced from Reddit (00:00:00 - 00:01:03)

Host Introduction: Gemma, a first-time podcaster and mom to one-year-old Jude, and Otis, a former NFL player, lawyer, and "problem-solving" parent, introduce themselves (00:01:03 - 00:01:56)

Approach to Parenting: Otis shares his approach to parenting challenges - find solutions, experiment, and learn from the process (00:01:56 - 00:02:49)

Community Engagement: Gemma and Otis encourage listeners to comment on their episodes, sharing their own parenting experiences and thoughts. (00:02:49 - 00:03:46)

Broke up 3 year relationship over him disciplining my kids. Am I wrong?: The hosts read and discuss a Reddit post about a mother ending her relationship over her partner's disciplining approach with her children (00:03:46 - 00:10:12)

Discussion & Advice: The hosts discuss the situation and share their perspective. They empathize with the mother, encourage her decision, and offer advice to single parents navigating relationships (00:10:12 - 00:12:14)

Husband Sleeps All Day: Gemma and Otis delve into a new Reddit story in which a mother expresses frustration with her partner sleeping in on weekends, leaving her to manage their children's morning routines alone (00:12:14 - 00:18:45)

Discussion & Advice: The hosts unpack the mother's frustration, empathize with her situation, and provide suggestions for communicating expectations and sharing responsibilities between partners (00:18:45 - 00:20:49)

Closing Thoughts: Gemma and Otis share their final thoughts on the day's topics and offer a glimpse of the themes for the upcoming episode (00:20:49 - 00:22:30)

Call to Action: The hosts invite listeners to continue the conversation by sharing their experiences and perspectives on the discussed topics, as well as posing any questions they may have (00:22:30 - 00:23:28)

Sign-Off: Grateful for the support and engagement of their listeners, Gemma and Otis sign off, eagerly anticipating the next episode's thoughtful discussions (00:23:28 - 00:24:00)

Is it fair or is it rude to ask your partner to do things right when they wake up?: The hosts discuss a Reddit post where a mother is exasperated with her partner's behavior. Upon waking, he tends to his personal interests, while she is busy with the kids and the household. She also grapples with his extended napping during the day, and his reluctance to contribute immediately after waking (00:38:14:02 - 00:39:33:22).

Hosts' Discussion: Otis reflects on societal perceptions of early fatherhood and criticizes the notion that fathers should play a minor role in a child's initial years. He emphasizes the importance of shared responsibility in parenting (00:39:33:22 - 00:41:39:07).

Advice Segment: Otis provides advice on the importance of personal boundaries and encourages the mother to assert herself. He recommends she confront her partner about his contribution to their parenting team, using a sports analogy to emphasize the importance of shared responsibilities (00:41:39:09 - 00:44:46:05).

Gemma's Perspective: Gemma shares her initial misunderstanding of the Reddit post's title and offers a contrasting viewpoint. While agreeing on the need for the partner to contribute more, she emphasizes the importance of gentle communication, particularly first thing in the morning (00:44:46:07 - 00:45:51:07).

You really learn which friends are true and not after having a baby: The hosts express their excitement for the upcoming discussion and acknowledge their eagerness to read the next Reddit post (00:46:48:04 - 00:47:17:23).

Reddit Comments: The hosts discover that the original post was deleted but find valuable comments discussing the changes in friendships after having a baby. They reflect on the acquisition of new friends, ghosting experiences, and the challenges of maintaining relationships (00:47:18:01 - 00:49:42:06).

Personal Experiences: The hosts share their own perspectives on friendships and how having children has impacted their social circles. They discuss the realization of who their true friends are and the changes in dynamics when friends without children re-engage after becoming parents (00:49:42:06 - 00:56:49:08).

Advice Segment: The hosts emphasize the importance of supportive friends, paying attention to responses to good news, and making an effort to maintain relationships during the early stages of parenthood (00:56:49:10 - 00:59:23:21).

Discipline, a Dirty Word...

https://youtu.be/iEEY_xs7WmgWe're here to guide you toward becoming remarkable parents by telling #trueparentingstories of success, failure, and everything in between. This week, we delve into a gripping tale of a parent navigating through their worst nightmare. Then, we tackle the juggling act of maintaining an active lifestyle while raising a newborn. And to wrap it up, we discuss the delicate balance of involving grandparents in our children's lives. So, strap in, folks. It's going to be an enlightening ride!