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On Attachment

On Attachment

Stephanie Rigg

Join relationship coach Stephanie Rigg in On Attachment, where she delves deep into all things attachment theory, love, relationships & intimacy - sharing her wisdom and experience to help you start making real changes in your life & relationships.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best On Attachment episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to On Attachment for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite On Attachment episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

In today's episode, I'm answering a listener's question of "How do I know if my relationship is worth fighting for?" This is a big question, and unfortunately it's one of those messy ones that no one can tell you the answer to. What's worth fighting for according to one person, might be simply too hard and too much for another.
We'll cover:

  • fear of regret no matter what we choose
  • focusing on what you can control
  • how to do things differently rather than staying stuck in the same loops

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On Attachment - 5 Things to Normalise in Long-Term Relationships
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10/24/23 β€’ 22 min

In today's episode, we're talking all about things that we need to normalise in long-term relationships. So much of the time, our expectations about our relationships - that they should be harmonious 100% of the time, that we should love everything about our partner, that we should never doubt or question our choices - leave us feeling confused and anxious.
When really, the problem is not with our relationship - it's with the pressure we've placed on our relationship to meet an unrealistic standard of perfection.

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On Attachment - 5 Things Secure Couples Do Well
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10/17/23 β€’ 23 min

In today's episode, we're talking about 5 things that secure couples do really well to build safety, intimacy and connection in their relationships. We'll cover:

  • raising important issues and knowing when to let things go
  • prioritising connection, play and intimacy
  • validating each other's experience rather than needing to be right
  • balancing togetherness and separateness
  • engaging in meaningful repair when things go awry

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In today's episode, I'm joined by my partner Joel and we're answering your questions about how we've navigated aspects of the anxious-avoidant dynamic in our relationship.
We talk about:

  • doing "the work" individually and as a couple
  • how we've built trust and safety over time
  • how we manage conflict and have hard conversations

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On Attachment - The Pillars of Trust & Trustworthiness
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09/21/23 β€’ 16 min

In today's episode, we're talking all about trust & trustworthiness. Trust is something that many people struggle with, oftentimes as a direct result of past experiences where trust has been breached. And as we'll discuss in today's conversation, trust is about so much more than honesty. My hope is that you'll walk away from today's episode with greater clarity about why you might struggle with trust, and the steps you can take to remediate this in your relationships.
We'll cover:

  • the interplay between trust and trustworthiness
  • the five pillars of trust
  • how self-trust and relational trust are connected
  • building trust through small acts over time

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In today's episode, we're exploring healthy interdependency. Interdependency is often cited as a key trait of secure functioning relationships, and yet many of us lack a clear picture of what healthy interdependency actually looks and feels like - especially if you have a history of insecure attachment patterns.
We'll cover:

  • the spectrum from codependency to hyper-independence
  • interdependency as a healthy middle ground
  • how different attachment styles relate to codependency, independence and interdependence
  • signs of healthy interdependency in a relationship

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On Attachment - Anxious Attachment & Open Relationships
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09/14/23 β€’ 12 min

In today's episode, I'm sharing some thoughts around anxious attachment & open relationships. While not being my personal experience, this is an area I receive a lot of requests and questions around, as various non-monogamous relationship structures grow in popularity.
We'll cover:

  • common struggles of anxious attachment and how they might show up in an open relationship structure
  • the importance of having a strong relationship to self when exploring open relationships
  • communication, boundaries and self-advocacy
  • why you should never agree to open a relationship just to hold onto someone

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On Attachment - How to Navigate Different Love Languages
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09/12/23 β€’ 16 min

You've probably heard about the 5 Love Languages as pioneered by Gary Chapman. In this episode, I’ll share how to navigate the very common situation of having different love languages to your partner. We'll also cover how love languages interface with anxious-avoidant dynamics, and offer insights and practical tools on how you can share your love language with your partner so they can understand how to love you the way you want to be loved (and vice versa)!

We’ll cover:

  • The 5 love languages: words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, gift giving, and quality time
  • The benefits of knowing your love language, and your partner's
  • How love languages play out in anxious-avoidant dynamics

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With societal pressures and a ticking clock, being newly single in your mid-30s can be challenging. In today’s episode, I want to share advice on navigating being newly single and the mindset for dating, and honouring the desires you have without feeling hopeless or overwhelmed.

We'll cover:

  • Grieving a future you thought you would have
  • The opportunity for reframe
  • Comparisons to other people’s lives
  • Creating a full and vibrant life for yourself

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On Attachment - Why Anxious & Avoidant People Are Drawn to Each Other
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11/08/23 β€’ 20 min

In today's episode, I'm sharing some thoughts on the common question of why those with anxious attachment patterns are typically attracted to those with avoidant attachment patterns (and vice versa). As we know, this is a very common relationship pairing - which can be confusing when you feel like the challenges of that dynamic are at odds with your preferences and desires.
As we'll cover, oftentimes this is driven by subconscious patterns that propel us to recreate the familiar in a way that reinforces our core beliefs about ourselves and others.

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FAQ

How many episodes does On Attachment have?

On Attachment currently has 162 episodes available.

What topics does On Attachment cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on On Attachment?

The episode title '"How do I know if my relationship is worth fighting for?"' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on On Attachment?

The average episode length on On Attachment is 22 minutes.

How often are episodes of On Attachment released?

Episodes of On Attachment are typically released every 5 days, 5 hours.

When was the first episode of On Attachment?

The first episode of On Attachment was released on Apr 21, 2022.

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