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Not As We Planned

Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield,Carly Harris

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and everything in between. We love hearing from you about your stories, dilemmas, dating disasters, happy endings (both kinds) so email us on [email protected] NEW EPISODE EVERY THURSDAY PATREON EPISODE EVERY MONDAY https://linktr.ee/Notasweplanned Producer: Tristan Hehir

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Not As We Planned - 51. The Micro Penis Debate...
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07/11/24 • 53 min

Learning that sometimes the news we dread is a blessing in disguise, finding love again but losing the naivety of forever, the coparenting dilemma and the micro penis scenario

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Not As We Planned - 56. I Met HER

56. I Met HER

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09/19/24 • 42 min

The first encounter meeting the new woman in your children’s’ life, an update about fuck buddy situation, a woman at rock bottom struggling with the worries of custody and divorce and a man who got two women pregnant...at the same time.

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Not As We Planned - 47. The Hunky Hot Fireman

47. The Hunky Hot Fireman

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06/13/24 • 43 min

Our theory on being ghosted, whether a rape fantasy is a red flag and a major breakthrough from a previous story.

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Not As We Planned - 68. And People Say Men Can’t Multitask
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12/12/24 • 40 min

When you find a new partner but you’re missing the bad boy, a segment of women in male fields, struggling to let go of your abusive ex and we finish with a gorgeous happy ending after a narcissistic relationship.

Producer: @TristanHehir

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Not As We Planned - 10. Dating in your 30s

10. Dating in your 30s

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09/07/23 • 53 min

Let’s delve deeper into dating in your 30s, talking about those first date rules and sharing your good and bad experiences as well as ours.

Producer: Tristan Hehir

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Not As We Planned - 49. Can Women Really Have Casual Sex?
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06/27/24 • 45 min

We discuss the coparenting holiday, the fuck buddy dilemma when dating a walking red flag, how many chances you should give before it’s time to leave and we talk about having a partner with an addiction problem Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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Not As We Planned - 69. He’s Unstable

69. He’s Unstable

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12/19/24 • 51 min

Our last episode of 2024, we discuss our 2025 goals, we get a final update from the fuck buddy situationship, knowing you should run a mile but can’t seem to stop and finding out your husband is gay.

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Not As We Planned - 46. He Left because I Got Too Fat
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06/06/24 • 49 min

When you are to blame for your partner cheating, the 29 year old barmaid, and a dog shit blowj*b

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Not As We Planned - 45. Gaslighting 101

45. Gaslighting 101

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05/30/24 • 41 min

Talking about getting the snip, when your partner cheats on you with his ex, working out if money can really buy you happiness and phone full of prostitutes.

Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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Not As We Planned - 60. I’m One Of Those Men Who Cheated
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10/17/24 • 42 min

We hear from the cheating man himself, we share the ultimate instagram hack, finding naked AI pictures of your friends on your partners phone and deciding whether to stay after he cheated or if it’s time to finally let go.

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How many episodes does Not As We Planned have?

Not As We Planned currently has 70 episodes available.

What topics does Not As We Planned cover?

The podcast is about Parenting, Kids & Family and Podcasts.

What is the most popular episode on Not As We Planned?

The episode title '51. The Micro Penis Debate...' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Not As We Planned?

The average episode length on Not As We Planned is 49 minutes.

How often are episodes of Not As We Planned released?

Episodes of Not As We Planned are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Not As We Planned?

The first episode of Not As We Planned was released on Jul 13, 2023.

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