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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse - Rerelease: The Early Warning Signs of an Abuser & Is This Abuse?

Rerelease: The Early Warning Signs of an Abuser & Is This Abuse?

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02/28/25 • 47 min

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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon discusses Lundy Bancroft's early warning signs of an abuser and is the way you’re being treated abuse. Plus he discusses the cycle of abuse, patterns of abuse, gaslighting, triangulation, jealousy, intimidation, control, sexual coercion, hypocrisy, blame shifting, devaluation, and much more.

*** CONTENT WARNING - Physical Abuse, Sexual Coercion, & Sexual Assault is mentioned in this episode. ***

To buy Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do That?' Click Here.

If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected]

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PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:

Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here

The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here

Something Was Wrong | Click Here

When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here

If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.

If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon discusses Lundy Bancroft's early warning signs of an abuser and is the way you’re being treated abuse. Plus he discusses the cycle of abuse, patterns of abuse, gaslighting, triangulation, jealousy, intimidation, control, sexual coercion, hypocrisy, blame shifting, devaluation, and much more.

*** CONTENT WARNING - Physical Abuse, Sexual Coercion, & Sexual Assault is mentioned in this episode. ***

To buy Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do That?' Click Here.

If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected]

To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here.

PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:

Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here

The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here

Something Was Wrong | Click Here

When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here

If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.

If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.

Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/

Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse

Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected]

To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here.

PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:

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The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here

Something Was Wrong | Click Here

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If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.

If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.

Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/

Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse

Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected]

To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here.

PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:

Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here

The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here

Something Was Wrong | Click Here

When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here

If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.

If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.

Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/

Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse

Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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