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Myth of Motherhood

Myth of Motherhood

Alissa Alter

A podcast by, for, and about moms and those who love them. This is a show devoted to calling out the idealism and perfection that our society places on mothers, while also discussing the often taboo topics that come with transitioning into motherhood. It’s time for us to stop beating around the bush or hiding our struggles so that we can be seen, heard, and way less alone. There’s no one right way to be a mother, there is only YOUR right way. Join me, Alissa Alter | women’s health expert & motherhood advocate to share our stories, let go of mythical expectations, and write our own rules. Also-- can we all agree that showering, going to the bathroom, and being by yourself are NOT luxuries, but basic needs for us to not only survive, but thrive? I think it’s time.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Myth of Motherhood episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Myth of Motherhood for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Myth of Motherhood episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Myth of Motherhood - Finding Alignment

Finding Alignment

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05/16/22 • 29 min

Today’s episode is about alignment. Alignment inside our bodies, but also alignment in terms of what’s happening outside our bodies. In the world. This is also a big episode because I have some news that I share at the end of the episode. In my 35+ years of dance, yoga, Pilates training and 20+ years of teaching in the world’s most elite gyms and boutique studios. Working with thousands of other smart, motivated, disciplined women like yourself, hearing your feedback and feeling my own shifts as I practice what I preach, I’ve developed a method that shows you how to move forward one step at a time. We KNOW that the answer is not in a restrictive diet, a punishing workout schedule, or endless meditation. We’ve tried them all and these dramatic upheavals aren’t sustainable.It’s time to stop looking outside for some one size fits all answer, because it will never be the right fit for you. I believe that if we put as much time, energy, and discipline into our insides as we do our outsides, if we connect our physical and emotional bodies, we are all unstoppable. Learn more about Alissa at www.alissa-alter.com and subscribe to the newsletter here because there are some exciting alterations coming up and I don’t want you to miss out! You can also follow me on IG @alissaalter. And if this resonated with you, share with a friend! Sharing is caring after all :)

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Myth of Motherhood - Children Are Catalysts For Change
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04/04/22 • 33 min

Change is...hard. Change is also literally my last name. And as often as I say I hate change, I don’t really. I am made for it. And if we are living a full, vibrant life we are changing all the time. Each experience, lesson, day brings new information that we can use to grow and change or ignore and stay the same. Taryn Lagonigro is a wife and mom of four daughters, the youngest of whom was born with Down syndrome in 2020. Taryn is a passionate advocate and business owner through Extra Lucky Moms and Iris Yoga. She also dedicates time to The Down Syndrome Diagnosis Network and 321 Sunshine as a board member. Taryn’s first book, Ups, Downs and Silver Linings, will be published in Spring 2022. Resources: Learn more about Taryn at www.tarynlagonigro.com Follow her on Instagram @mindfullytaryn Stay up to date on what’s going on with Extra Lucky Moms here and follow on IG here Read Taryn’s article for pstprtm.com Read my article on extraluckymoms.com about not neglecting yourself in motherhood Follow me on Instagram @alissaalter Join my weekly newsletter for more tips and tricks to alter your motherhood experience. Loved this episode? Remember to follow or subscribe for free so you don’t miss an episode of Myth of Motherhood.

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Myth of Motherhood - Your Voice Is A Muscle

Your Voice Is A Muscle

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02/20/23 • 36 min

Did you know your vocal cords look like labia?

Or that your voice is a muscle you can strengthen like your bi’s and tri’s?

Or that I started voice lessons when I was 11?

We cover all that and more in today’s episode! So buckle up and get ready to strengthen and tone...your voice.

If you’re picking up what I’m laying down...

Follow, subscribe, rate, review, and SHARE this episode! If you prefer watching episodes, you can now do that on YouTube!

And don’t forget to check out my Blog where we talk about all the things we’re not supposed to talk about.

Learn more about at www.alissaalter.com

Follow along on IG @alissaalter

As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage.

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Myth of Motherhood - 44 - Soft vs Hard

44 - Soft vs Hard

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01/31/22 • 22 min

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Myth of Motherhood - Marriage After Baby: I'm A Mom, But I'm Not YOUR Mom
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02/28/22 • 15 min

There’s this assumption that after we give birth, we spontaneously download a complete, updated guide on everything motherhood/parenting/baby. Suddenly everyone asks us to feel our foreheads, what type of jacket we need, and what’s for dinner. I don't know about you, but this made me furious. The automatic status of lead or default parent. Like I suddenly knew everything even though we were both new parents. This episode is based on my interpretation of these events. My experiences as a new, hormonal mom. Objectively speaking, my husband was incredible. That doesn’t change the societal pressure, standards, or expectations put on women when they give birth. Learn more about Alissa, what she does, and why she does it at www.alissaalter.com and follow her on IG: @alissaalter

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Myth of Motherhood - Taking Up Space Postpartum

Taking Up Space Postpartum

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03/14/22 • 20 min

There’s so much pressure after having a baby to look like you didn’t have a baby. Even though you definitely just had a baby. We are supposed to bounce, snap, fit right back into our old jeans and our old lives when everything about us is new. In this week’s episode Alissa shares about how we can reframe our experience of taking up more space, being held more fiercely by gravity, and owning our mom bods can change our experience. And hopefully influence societal expectations, pressures, and ideals placed on women’s postpartum bodies. To learn more about Alissa, what she does, and why she does it, visit www.alissaalter.com and follow her on IG: @alissaalter

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Myth of Motherhood - All Children Are Hard and Easy with Jess Quarello
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02/21/22 • 35 min

Neurodivergent or neurotypical, all children present their own unique challenges. This week’s guest Jess Quarello, born in Sweden and raised in North Carolina, talks about the differences and similarities in her two daughters. Her second daughter was born with Down’s Syndrome propelled her into a life of advocacy and community. Because we talk about everything here, we discuss social assumptions and ignorance around children with disabilities and their parents, gory childbirth, and hemorrhoids. Jess began her career in Musical Theater before transitioning to modeling and fashion. She now lives in Hoboken, NJ with her husband and two daughters. You can learn more about Jess at www.jessquarello.com and www.extraluckymoms.com and follow her and her community on IG and Tik Tok. Stay in touch with Alissa and all things taboo topics and staying the course in this crazy marathon of life by joining her newsletter at www.alissaalter.com Oh! And please note if you hear any heavy panting or outbursts in the background, they are courtesy of Walter Alter. Alissa's deliciously cranky French Bulldog. Check out the shownotes here
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Myth of Motherhood - 41: Finding Your Worth with Ryanne Tanae Glasper
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01/10/22 • 30 min

This keeps coming up and we can’t talk about it enough; why do we so often wait until motherhood to find and own our worth? I mean, we know why (hint: all of the systems in place to keep women small and quiet) and still, it is our work now to create new systems for the next generation. And what does that require? It required us to opt out of garbage, reparent ourselves, and own our f*cking worth. Warning: I say at least TWO very smart things in this episode. Ryanne, our guest, says more than two smart things. Today’s guest Ryanne Glasper is very special to me. I first met Ryanne when I hurt back in 2013. She then treated me for whatever injuries I got from whatever show I was in and she was the first person I told out loud that I was going to be filing for divorce. She’s since moved out of NYC which breaks my heart, but I worked with her virtually to recover from my birth injury physically and emotionally. Learn more about Ryanne at Ryannetanae.com and check out the show notes to learn more about her and her amazing work. Want to learn more about me , what I do, and why I do it? Go to www.alissa-alter.com and follow me on IG @alissaalter Alright, let’s do this!

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Myth of Motherhood - 42: WTF Do We Do Next?

42: WTF Do We Do Next?

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01/17/22 • 26 min

We’ve been playing this pandemic game of life for a while now. And I feel numb inside. I’m hungover and I’m pissed. I’m tired of having the same conversations on repeat. I’m tired of assessing risk. I’m numb from numbing and wondering WTf do we do next? Where do we go from here? In this episode I talk about how all of this relates to my relationship with alcohol and how we are on a break right now and what I’m doing to counteract feeling dead inside. Hint: It has something to do with things that make me feel ALIVE! It’s rough out there so let’s get together and feel alright. Click here to check out the shownotes and follow Alissa on IG @alissaalter. Want to learn more about Alissa, what she does, and why she does it? Visit www.alissa-alter.com

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Pleasure doesn’t just show up. You need to invite her to the party. And if your party sucks, she’s gonna be a hard no. See what I did there? Let’s figure out what we need to let go of or leave behind in order to create a hospital environment for pleasure. Let’s plan a panty dropping party she can’t wait to get to.

CLICK HERE to download your FREE workout to find out where your vagina is pointing and get started on your path to confidence, continence, and connection to your body!

In this episode:

  • How Danielle recovered from being so ill she was bedridden through healing her deep, inner emotional trauma to live the life she’s meant to live.
  • Using movement to connect to physical sensations and how that translates to emotional sensations to cultivate safety in your body.
  • Why we need to unwire learned experiences in order to rebuild with intention, safety, and pleasure.

Danielle Savory is a Master-Certified coach and pleasure expert helping women use their largest sex organ—their brain—for better sex and a more pleasure-filled life. The host of the “It’s My Pleasure” podcast, Danielle weaves together her background in neuroscience, her expertise in mindfulness and skills as a coach to help women rewire their brains and connect with their bodies for an empowering approach to their sexuality. Learn more about Danielle here and her online membership Turned On Woman here. For more follow her on IG @danielle.savory.

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CLICK HERE to download your FREE workout to find out where your vagina is pointing and get started on your path to confidence, continence, and connection to your body!

As always I’ve got your back, I’ve got your front, and I’ve got your undercarriage. Follow along on IG @alissaalter

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FAQ

How many episodes does Myth of Motherhood have?

Myth of Motherhood currently has 114 episodes available.

What topics does Myth of Motherhood cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Myth of Motherhood?

The episode title 'The Symbiotic Relationship Between Different, Change, and Growth' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Myth of Motherhood?

The average episode length on Myth of Motherhood is 32 minutes.

How often are episodes of Myth of Motherhood released?

Episodes of Myth of Motherhood are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Myth of Motherhood?

The first episode of Myth of Motherhood was released on Mar 18, 2021.

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