My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

Cheating is NOT a black and white subject. So I wanted to explain that there are different types of people who cheat - sometimes good people do bad things, and sometimes we need to leave bad people behind. Learn the difference so you know how to proceed if you've been cheated on

Listen in as we discuss the possibility of a zero-fight relationship in this episode. We explore personal responsibility for thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, drawing insights from my book Fix That Shit. Discover practical strategies for healthier relationships.

Hey everyone! In this episode, I'm hanging out with Derek Gerard, the guy behind the popular YouTube channel 'That Library Show.' We're getting into some real talk about dating for both men and women. I shared my 'No Kissing for 3 Months' dating rule, a way to assess if someone's right for you before you commit.

We also tackled that big question: does size matter when it comes to intimacy? It's a candid discussion about myths, truths, and what really makes a difference in making connections and keeping things interesting.

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of relationships, nervous system dynamics, and the impact of societal structures with the insightful Melissa Petlichkov. Melissa, a registered social worker and practicing psychotherapist, brings her extensive knowledge and compassionate approach to our discussion, offering a unique perspective on how we form and maintain relationships.

Key Points Discussed:

1. Understanding Polyvagal Theory: Melissa breaks down the complex concepts of Polyvagal Theory, explaining how our nervous system plays a crucial role in how we connect with others and perceive safety in our relationships.
2. Impact of Patriarchy on Relationship Choices: We explore the profound effects of patriarchal influences on women's ability to choose partners. Melissa provides an in-depth analysis of how societal norms and expectations can skew our natural mate selection processes.
3. Recognizing Nervous System Responses in Mate Selection: Learn how to identify the subtle cues our bodies give us during the process of choosing a partner. Melissa shares her insights on how being in tune with our nervous system can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
4. Empowerment Through Self-Witnessing: Melissa emphasizes the importance of self-witnessing and capacity building from the inside out. She discusses how this approach can empower individuals in their journey towards self-discovery and better relationship choices.
5. Collaborative Therapeutic Process: Discover Melissa's collaborative approach in therapy, which focuses on unlocking each individual's potential and guiding them through their unique healing path.

Melissa's Background: With a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work from Ryerson University and a Master’s of Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University, Melissa's approach is grounded in academic knowledge and enriched by her empathetic and compassionate understanding of the human experience.

Connect with Melissa: For those interested in exploring these topics further or seeking guidance, you can connect with Melissa through her website https://soulwarriors.ca/

Closing Thoughts: This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of how our internal processes influence our relationships and how we can navigate these complexities for more meaningful connections. Join us as we uncover the secrets to healthier relationships through the lens of Polyvagal Theory and beyond.

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Ever wondered how to build a healthy, conflict-free relationship where understanding overcomes resentment? In my latest podcast episode, I dive into this topic with Steven, a guest from my live session, who shares his insights on dealing with a partner's insecurities. Don't miss out - subscribe for new episodes and join me live on TikTok, Monday to Friday, 10 AM to 12 noon.