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Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater - Be My Mommy and My Martyr

Be My Mommy and My Martyr

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04/07/25 • 59 min

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Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater
In today's episode, Regan and Chesko dive into the uneven expectations placed on women in relationships. From religious advice about opposite-sex friendships to shocking stories about exes demanding care after betrayal, they explore why women are expected to be martyrs while men face minimal accountability. They discuss the painful double standards in caregiving (with women 624% less likely to leave sick partners than men), why "putting boundaries" around a partner is problematic, and the unfair blame women receive when relationships fail.
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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper
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In today's episode, Regan and Chesko dive into the uneven expectations placed on women in relationships. From religious advice about opposite-sex friendships to shocking stories about exes demanding care after betrayal, they explore why women are expected to be martyrs while men face minimal accountability. They discuss the painful double standards in caregiving (with women 624% less likely to leave sick partners than men), why "putting boundaries" around a partner is problematic, and the unfair blame women receive when relationships fail.
Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):
https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Merch Store:
https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/
Follow Us on Social Media:
https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater
https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

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Chesko and Regan discuss the intersection of politics and dating and dive into an article titled "Are femcels the new incels?"
Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):
https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Merch Store:
https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/
Follow Us on Social Media:
https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater
https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

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Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):
https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Merch Store:
https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/
Follow Us on Social Media:
https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater
https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater
Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/
Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf
Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

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