Aella - Shameless Future of Female Sexuality, Kinks, Sex Parties, Religion, and Artificial Wombs
03/13/24 • 50 min
Are we entering a new dawn of sexual liberation?
Aella is a model, camgirl, escort and internet personality. She has been one of the highest-earning models on OnlyFans, making up to $100,000/month. But what makes her a truly fascinating human is her highly analytical, curious and creative mind. Aella realised that no one was asking questions about sexual preferences in a systemic way. So she taught herself data science and created The Big Kink Survey which went viral online and has been filled out by over 1 Million people. The survey is now the most comprehensive dataset on fetishes, kinks, and sexual preferences.
Naturally, I was curious: What are women into according to the survey results? Turns out, there are fascinating patterns!
In this episode, Aella explained that fetishes are actually on a spectrum, just like sexual preferences. She talked about her "How to Be Good in Bed" blog series for men, her view on the future of the sex profession, the pros and cons of OnlyFans, her hot take on feminism, artificial wombs, psychedelics and much much more.
(00:00) Intro
(01:12) The Big Kink Survey
(01:28) Understanding fetishes
(03:48) Women's fetishes
(12:08) Women's preference for violent porn
(16;51) Aella's sex parties
(18:51) Sexuality and creativity
(19:53) Aella's experience with social shame
(25:30) Spirituality
(30:32) OnlyFans trends
(32:20) Non-nude cam girls
(33:02) Male group psychology on OnlyFans
(34:04) Sex work and safety
(34:54) Escorting
(36:36) Aella's "Date Me" application form
(42:46) How Aella got into sex research
(43;59) New exciting survey Aella is working on
(48:03) Artificial Wombs and Feminism
Links:
Aella's Website - www.knowingless.com
Blog & Research - https://aella.substack.com/
To take the The Big Kink Survey - https://www.guidedtrack.com/programs/u4m797m/run
Twitter - www.twitter.com/aellagirl
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Are we entering a new dawn of sexual liberation?
Aella is a model, camgirl, escort and internet personality. She has been one of the highest-earning models on OnlyFans, making up to $100,000/month. But what makes her a truly fascinating human is her highly analytical, curious and creative mind. Aella realised that no one was asking questions about sexual preferences in a systemic way. So she taught herself data science and created The Big Kink Survey which went viral online and has been filled out by over 1 Million people. The survey is now the most comprehensive dataset on fetishes, kinks, and sexual preferences.
Naturally, I was curious: What are women into according to the survey results? Turns out, there are fascinating patterns!
In this episode, Aella explained that fetishes are actually on a spectrum, just like sexual preferences. She talked about her "How to Be Good in Bed" blog series for men, her view on the future of the sex profession, the pros and cons of OnlyFans, her hot take on feminism, artificial wombs, psychedelics and much much more.
(00:00) Intro
(01:12) The Big Kink Survey
(01:28) Understanding fetishes
(03:48) Women's fetishes
(12:08) Women's preference for violent porn
(16;51) Aella's sex parties
(18:51) Sexuality and creativity
(19:53) Aella's experience with social shame
(25:30) Spirituality
(30:32) OnlyFans trends
(32:20) Non-nude cam girls
(33:02) Male group psychology on OnlyFans
(34:04) Sex work and safety
(34:54) Escorting
(36:36) Aella's "Date Me" application form
(42:46) How Aella got into sex research
(43;59) New exciting survey Aella is working on
(48:03) Artificial Wombs and Feminism
Links:
Aella's Website - www.knowingless.com
Blog & Research - https://aella.substack.com/
To take the The Big Kink Survey - https://www.guidedtrack.com/programs/u4m797m/run
Twitter - www.twitter.com/aellagirl
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nina Patrick, PhD - Could Psychedelic Therapy Be a Game Changer for Women's Health?
Could psychedelics be a game changer for women's health?
Nina Patrick, PhD - Head of Innovation at the Champalimaud Foundation Center of the Unknown in Lisbon, a state-of-the-art research facility working on cutting-edge technology in oncology and neuroscience. Her popular newsletter, Nina's Notes, is a bite-sized editorial on science & health topics like longevity, psychedelics, web3, space travel, and the future of medicine.
In this episode, we discussed the latest research and the legality of psychedelic therapy (which is different from taking psychedelics recreationally). Nina explained how psychedelics work on the receptors in the brain, and we discussed how psychedelics can have a huge impact on women’s health - from postpartum depression to eating disorders, to menopause.
If you are interested in this topic and are looking for a credible overview - this episode is for you.
(0:00) - Intro
(1:14) - What is a psychedelic?
(2:30) - Psychedelics and the brain barrier
(3:50) - Examples of psychedelic therapy & ketamine clinics
(07:50) - Legality of Psychedelics
(12:36) - MDMA for treatment of PTSD
(16:53) - Psychedelics v. Antidepressants
(20:25) - MDMA v. Psylocibin
(20:36) - What happens in the brain on psychedelics?
(25:01) - Micro v. Macro-dosing
(28:35) - Women's Health and Psychedelics
(34:32) - Female Hormones
(36:56) - Menopause
(38:22) - Eating disorders
(41:32) - Post-partum depression & Moms Who Mushroom
(47:04) - Words of caution
(52:11) - Other research Nina is interested in
(57:06) - The Future of Medicine
Links:
Nina's Notes - https://www.notes.ninapatrick.xyz
Edition about Psychedelics and Women's Health - https://www.notes.ninapatrick.xyz/p/48-what-we-know-about-the-effect
Edition about the Future of Medicine (Med3) - https://www.notes.ninapatrick.xyz/p/46-med3
Champalimaud Center of the Unknown - https://www.fchampalimaud.org/champalimaud-foundation/champalimaud-centre
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Staša Stanković, PhD - Delaying Menopause, Reproductive Ageing and Genomics
What if we could delay the age of menopause?
Staša Stanković, PhD is a geneticist and bioinformatician with a PhD in Reproductive Genomics from the University of Cambridge. She focuses on deciphering genetic architecture of reproductive ageing and fertility, and their link to health outcomes in women. This work led to the discovery of genetic signals that influence the age women begin menopause and the first evidence of the ability to, through gene manipulation, extend reproductive lifespan and improve fertility in mice, thus paving the path towards first genetic test for the prediction of menopause time and next-generation therapeutics for ovary-centric disorders in humans.
(00:00) Stasa's early experiences with womanhood
(03:32) Intro to genomics in women's health
(05:33) Historical neglect in women's health research
(07:51) Delaying motherhood vs. female biology
(09:39) Redefining menopause as "reproductive ageing"
(13:54) The difference between reproductive ageing in men v. women
(14:39) Menopausal timing variation and early menopause
(16:54) How the age of menopause can help fertility planning
(19:30) How reproductive age relates to our longevity and health
(23:02) Epigenetic factors that influence menopause timing
(24:49) Mother's diet during pregnancy can influence the menopause timing of the baby
(26:46) How genomic medicine is revolutionizing reproductive ageing
(30:08) Insights from DNA analysis of 200,000 women
(39:45) How ancestry can influence menopausal timing
(42:52) Can we delay menopause today?
(46:15) Using CRISPR technology to delay menopause in mice
(48:49) The goal of delaying menopause
(59:23) Why should we "mess" with our biology?
Links:
Staša's Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/stasa-stankovic-93723a137
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