The Purpose Code - A Conversation with Dr. Jordan Grumet about Purpose, Meaning, and Happiness

12/31/24 • 37 min

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.
Today we welcome Dr. Jordan Grumet, author of The Purpose Code and host of the Earn and Invest Podcast.
Dr. Grumet was an internal medicine physician in private practice when he discovered the personal finance community. Since then, he left his clinical practice to pursue his passion for deep conversations about purpose, money, and life – which is the topic of today’s show.
00:00 Introduction
01:25 Today, we are going to be talking about your book, The Purpose Code. Can you share with our listeners a broad overview of what the book is about?
03:26 Dr. Grumet, you open your book discussing the importance of purpose for happiness and fulfillment. Could you share a personal story about how discovering your own purpose changed your life and career trajectory?
06:11 What are some practical first steps our listeners can take to start aligning their daily actions with their true purpose, especially when both partners in a relationship are career-oriented?
12:35: Was there a conversation you had in all of your times visiting dying patients in hospice that jolted you into the understanding of why it’s so important to live your life with intention and purpose?
16:50 Can you discuss the role of shared purpose in strengthening a relationship, and how couples can work together to discover and support each other’s purposes?
19:12 How does social media influence our perception of purpose, and what strategies would you recommend for individuals to use social media in a way that supports rather than detracts from their sense of purpose?
28:49 In your book, you talk about leaving a lasting legacy as a component of purpose. How should someone think about their legacy when they are in the thick of managing both a career and a family?
35:17 Where can people purchase your book, The Purpose Code? Where can people turn to listen to your podcast?
35:57 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave our listeners with today?
Learn more about Dr. Grumet and purchase his book: https://jordangrumet.com/

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Show Notes
00:00 Introduction
01:21 How do you define high quality parenting?
02:30 This is our 60 second challenge, which means you are going to try to answer this question in 60 seconds or less.

What is one example activity of high quality parenting?
What is a second example activity of high quality parenting?
What is a third example activity of high quality parenting?

10:38 What is maternal gatekeeping?
13:02 Can you explain how maternal gatekeeping can get in the way of a father's involvement?
17:22 Are parents who are gatekeeping aware of what they are doing?
18:12 What is the origin of maternal gatekeeping?
28:26 How can couples work through the problems that arise as a result of maternal gatekeeping?
32:06 Why do mothers want to exclude a parent from responsibilities?
35:30 What is one simple piece of actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.
Today we welcome Adam Kol, known as The Couples Financial Coach. Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist - Level ITM, Certified Mediator, and Attorney with degrees from Duke and NYU Law (Tax).
In today’s episode, we explore the concept of financial intimacy in relationships, emphasizing its importance for couples managing finances together. Adam discusses his book, 'Financial Intimacy for Couples', which serves as a guide for couples to achieve clarity and teamwork in their financial lives.
The discussion covers the role of personal money stories, the dynamics between savers and spenders, and the necessity of open communication to foster empathy and understanding in financial discussions. Adam provides actionable advice for couples to improve their financial conversations and strengthen their relationships.
Show Notes
00:00 Introduction
02:28 What is the name of your book, and what is it about?
04:32 What is financial intimacy?
06:05 What role does financial intimacy play in how couples talk about money?
09:09 How do you create financial intimacy in your marriage?
14:48 How do you sustain financial intimacy in your marriage?
21:55 How can savers and spenders get on the same page?
26:22 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want our listeners to walk away with?
Learn more about Adam: https://www.couplesfinancialcoach.com/

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