Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dexter Kendrick, affectionately known as Dr. Dex by his clients. Dexter has been a practicing psychic/medium and astrologer since 2001. He has written horoscopes for newspaper, magazine copy, and been a regular guest on NuSpirit talk radio out of NYC since 2011. He has taught and published articles on psychic self-development and astrological understanding of our psychology. He has done research into personality studies at the University of Hartford, and offered astrological, tarot, and spiritual conversations on love and relationships for the public via private practice. He also does weekly LIVE Facebook psychic readings on his show “Love 911 Tarot” on Facebook and Instagram, coaching clients on love, sex, relationships, family, money, and career. As a medium, he also reconnects clients with loved ones who are dearly departed should they wish it.

Over the last 11 years as a doctor of spiritual 5 element acupuncture, Dexter has brought this evidence-based transformative healing technique to the Meditteranean and Northern Europe, the Middle East, South and Central America, Mexico, Canada, and the Carribean. Using a results based philosophy, along with educational self-care techniques, Dexter enlightens and demonstrates to patients the powerful ability of their bodies and minds to change. He is currently lead supervising doctor of clinical acupuncture interns at the Maryland University of Integrative Health, where he also serves as adjunct faculty and senate member.

Dexter and I talk about his work with men as an acupuncturist and practitioner of Natural Medicine. We discuss men’s health and share some advice about how to improve your own wellbeing. We also explore some of Dexter’s journey with mediumship.

Key Points:

• Dexter introduces himself
  
• Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine
  
• Penis heath
  
• Fertility and conception
  
• Changing your diet for sexual health
  
• Prostate health
  
• Mediumship and sexuality
  
• Telling people about their future
  
• Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man
  

Relevant Links:

Dexter’s Facebook: @love911tarot

Dexter’s Instagram: @love911tarot

On episode 20 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Josh Fairleigh. Josh grew up on the east coast of Australia, surfing, skating, boxing, fishing, loving all the outdoor active lifestyle this environment allows. School was very low on the list; this resulted in a early school drop out and the introduction of his first job in the surfboard industry. Surfing being Josh’s life passion; he shaped custom surfboards for about 15 years until his Saturn return when he began to see the environmental impact of the industry and pictured his own health in another 15 years. This was the time when Josh became very interested in health and natural medicines. After an awakening during a yoga course in Thailand with some influential teachers Josh began studying Ayurveda, Yoga, Reiki, Pranic Healing and Shamanic Crystal work and finally found the passion for academic education that he could not find in the earlier school years. Josh now teaches Breath workshops and does energy and Shamanic Healing’s. Josh became interested in Feng Shui as he spent many years traveling the world and Australia, through this travelling from town to town, country to country he was aware of his own moods, perception and reality changing; which made him curious as to how much our environment has an effect on our reality, from the weather, the land forms, water quality, different beliefs, colours, shapes and the spiritual energy. Josh has studied Feng Shui and Environmental studies with the Australian College of Environmental Studies. He now emphasises Breathwork as a tool to facilitate spiritual, mental, physical and emotional health. This approach and training touches all of these aspects of life; from physical fitness, to harmonising our internal and external energy bodies.

We spoke about Josh's Lyme Disease and how it has affected his relationship with himself, his wife and his daughter, particularly with regards to how he perceives his masculinity. We also spoke about conscious conception and what men can do to contribute to the conceiving process.

Key Points:

Josh story

Contracting Lyme Disease

Trusting teachers and cultivating discernment

Physical health and relationships

Shifting perceptions about masculinity

Can you look yourself in the eye?

Unpacking conscious conception

A man's role in the conceiving process

Bringing consciousness into the conceiving process

Relevant Links:

Cam's Instagram: @thecamfraser

Cam's website: www.cam-fraser.com

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Forrest Andrews. Forrest is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2000 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since. This started when he was a customer and purchased their very first device. The impact on him was life-changing, turning around a decades-old health condition while revealing a powerful new orgasmic experience he would later call the “Super O”. After a series of productive conversations with the owners of the company, Forrest became their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Soon after he helped them launch the Aneros forum where he chronicled his own personal journey into the multi-orgasmic realm. In later years he compiled the Aneros WIKI comprised of terms drawn from his several thousand posts and threads. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored men from all over the world helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. During the same period, he attended public and industry trade expos in the U.S. and Europe, as the company’s expert on the use of their devices. In 2016, Forrest became Aneros’ manager of Product and Business development where he’s supervised the creation and launch of the awarding winning Trident Series, the Trident Syn Series, the VICE 2 and the Helix Syn V. The two of us talk about the ins and outs of prostate stimulation, from massage to play to manual to vibration to health benefits to pleasure enhancement. If you’re interested in prostate pleasure, this is the episode for you.

Key points:

• Forrest introduces himself
• Forrest’s journey with prostate health
• The beginnings of Aneros
• Prostate pleasure
• Stimulation: Massage vs play
• To use vibration or not?
• Different types of prostate massagers
• Advice for men wanting to explore their prostate

Relevant links:

The Aneros website: www.aneros.com

Forrest’s email: [email protected]

On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Nick Perry. Nick is a Holistic Lifestyle Coach, Corrective Exercise Specialist and Men’s Work Facilitator who is passionate and driven by authentic relating and inspired living. Nick’s education in Holistic Lifestyle Coaching draws from personal mentoring and learning from some of the world’s leading healers, facilitators and physical therapists. For the last decade he has immersed himself in study and experimentation, acquiring qualifications across a broad range of modalities. Over the last few years his reach in the world has spread far, as he shares his knowledge, experience and personal story through podcasts, workshops and teachings in his mentorship program. Known for his deep presence, relatability and down-to-earth nature, Nick’s goal when working with clients is to leave them feeling empowered and aligned in themselves - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

Key points:

• Nick shares about his work
• Fatherhood and processing emotions
• “I’m not enough”: Self-worth stories
• Relearning about sex and pleasure
• Pleasure is weakness?
• Catalysts for transformation
• Listening to your body
• Supporting other men
• Role models

Relevant links:

Nick’s Instagram: @rhythmhealth

Nick’s website: https://www.rhythmhealth.com.au/about

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Kashira Whiteley. Kashira is a life coach. In her work she supports her clients on their path toward personal alignment and healing through unlearning old trauma responses and patterned behaviour that no longer serves them, as well as holding space for their self exploration and integration, so that they’re able to unlock the codes to rewiring their inner narrative and self-talk through developing new tools for their emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual health. Her methods are holistic in nature, integrating science, the study of human psychology and behaviour, ancient practices such as astrology and her own intuition and clairsentience. Kashira believes in honouring the human experience at every level; mind, emotion, body and spirit with awareness of how these facets are all intimately interconnected and intersected. The two of us talk about slut shaming, narcissism, codependent relationships, experimenting with sexuality, creating erotic content, and the similiarities between personal training and pro domming.

Key points:

• Kashira introduces herself
• Slut shaming
• Narcissism and codependency
• Rupture and repair
• Weaponising sex
• Celibacy vs promiscuity
• Feigning hypersexuality
• Creating erotic content
• Personal training and domming
• Advice for young women

Relevant links:

Kashira’s Instagram: @Consciouslykash

Kashira’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Kashy92

Work with Kashira: https://consciouslykash.as.me/schedule.php