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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

Cam Fraser

The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #95 A Woman’s Perspective: Sex, Shame, & Shibari (with Skye Stevenson)
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01/13/22 • 63 min

On today’s episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Skye Stevenson. Skye is the founder and creative director of Evolved Lovers, Skye works with women and couples and is an approved Awakening Within Relationship & Sexuality Educator, Trauma informed, Internationally certified Holistic Life Coach, Reiki Master with a Diploma in Swedish and Lomi Lomi massage. She has trained with the Wheel of Consent School and calls herself a student for life. Skye specialises in sexual trauma using a wide range of tools from talking sessions, body de-armouring, touch work including yoni massage healing. Skye is well known in teaching Shibari and tantric massage to couples in person and is known to re-awaken one's desire. The two of us talk about sexual exploration, resistance, dominance, boundaries, safety. I ask Skye for a woman’s perspective on these things. We also talk about Skye’s work with erotic bondage and Shibari.

Key Points:

Skye shares some of her story

Curiosity and experimentation

Resistance to sexual exploration

Dominance and limiting beliefs

Asserting boundaries

Creating sexual safety for women

Erotic bondage

Pleasure and pain

Connecting with your partner through Shibari

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Skye’s website: https://evolvedlovers.com/

Skye’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolved_lovers/

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #96 Overcoming Vaginismus and Educating Teens (with Grace Alice O’Shea)
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01/20/22 • 61 min

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Grace Alice. Grace has been a Sex and Relationships Educator for 6 years, and is the author of 'Sex Educated'. She is from Kerry (Ireland), and originally trained as an Occupational Therapist before completing her Masters in Health Promotion, with a focus on sexual health and body image. She is super passionate about playing her part in creating a more sex-positive Ireland, free from shame, stigma and secrecy. Grace is training with the Somatica Institute to become a Sex and Relationships Coach. In 2022, she will be registering as the first Occupational Therpist in Ireland to specialise in sex, intimacy and relationships! The two of us talk about her experience with vaginismus as well as her work as a sex educator. We also discuss body shaming and masculinity and how these relate to teenagers.

Key points:

Grace share about her life and work

Vaginismus and sex education

Talk therapy and bodywork

Sexuality in Ireland

Masculinity and teenage boys

“Gay chicken”: Homophobia and homoeroticism

The lack of nuance in male sexuality

Advertising sexuality work to men

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Grace’s website: gracealice.com

Grace’s Instagram: @grace_alice_oshea

Grace’s book: https://sexualhealthwest.ie/product/sex-educated-by-grace-alice-oshea/

Cam’s Patreon: www.patreon.com/thecamfraser

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #99 Erotic Blueprints (with Dr. Jae West)

#99 Erotic Blueprints (with Dr. Jae West)

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02/10/22 • 60 min

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Jae West, PhD. Jae is the first WA certified Blueprint Coach with Jaiya, has a PhD in Health Psychology & Exercise Physiology, is an established dancer and choreographer, and actress with The Hairy Godmothers. She draws from her smorgasbord of interests to provide fun, interesting and unique ways of exploring pleasure, play and intimacy. The two of talk about embodiment and how we can explore this in both erotic and non-erotic ways. We also dive deep into Erotic Blueprints and how this framework can be applied to sex, relationships, and communication in general.

Key Points:

  • Jae shares about her work
  • Embodiment practices
  • Simple embodiment tools
  • Introduction to Erotic Blueprints
  • Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, Shapeshifter
  • Exploring the Erotic Blueprints
  • Practical advice for couples

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Jae’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jae-West-110301157803098/

Jae’s website: www.jaewest.com

Jae’s website: www.aussieblueprintcoaches.com

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #16 Getting Men To Open Up About Sex (with Dr. Juliana Hauser)
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08/06/20 • 61 min

On the first episode of season 2 (episode 16 overall) of the Men, Sex & Pleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Juliana, the “girl next door” (with a PhD). Dr. Juliana is always up for a down and dirty conversation about sexuality and intimacy. As a credentialed therapist, academic, and a bonafide (S)expert, Dr. Juliana has spent decades counseling and supporting thousands of individuals on their paths to discover and own their sexual agency. Having traversed her own journey through love, loss, motherhood, and the world of academics, Dr. Julianahas come to understand that ownership over one’s own sexuality is the at the foundation of every fulfilled and confident person. She has developed a clear, action-driven method to help people of all backgrounds discover their own path to authenticity through holistic sexuality. Dr. Juliana is a certified by Betty Dodson as a BodySex Workshop facilitator and offers tons of tips, insight and support through coaching, therapy, online courses and in person retreats for becoming your own (s)expert over at dr-juliana.com. We chat about working with men, the differences between being a man and woman in this space, and how we can get men to open up to talk about sex.

Key Points:

Dr. Juliana shares some of her history working with men

Getting comfortable talking about sex

Men working with men vs men working with women

Private vs public work

Specialising and collaborating

Celebrating sexual wins

Educating and problem solving

Healthy sexuality impacting our lives

How can women make men feel safe to be vulnerable

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Dr. Juliana's Instagram: @drjulianahauser

Dr. Juliana's Facebook: Dr. Juliana

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #15 What Do Men Fantasize About? (with Dr. Justin Lehmiller)
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07/30/20 • 53 min

On episode 15 of the podcast, I chat with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He is author of the blog Sex and Psychology and the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller is a much sought-after voice in the media on sexuality research and education. He has been interviewed by The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and CNN, and he has appeared on dozens of international radio, podcast, and television programs. We discuss his research about fantasies and particularly about what men fantasize about, as well as how to healthy explore your desires.

Key Points:

Dr. Lehmiller introduces his research

The most common fantasies

Differences between men's and women's fantasies

Men's fantasies and pressure to be a certain way

Shame about our fantasies

The origin of sexual fantasies

Underlying emotional needs

Dr. Lehmiller's dial analogy

Advice for exploring sexual fantasies

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Dr. Lehmiller's website: www.lehmiller.com

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #57 Men’s Sexual Health and Mediumship (with Dexter Kendrick)
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06/03/21 • 71 min

On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dexter Kendrick, affectionately known as Dr. Dex by his clients. Dexter has been a practicing psychic/medium and astrologer since 2001. He has written horoscopes for newspaper, magazine copy, and been a regular guest on NuSpirit talk radio out of NYC since 2011. He has taught and published articles on psychic self-development and astrological understanding of our psychology. He has done research into personality studies at the University of Hartford, and offered astrological, tarot, and spiritual conversations on love and relationships for the public via private practice. He also does weekly LIVE Facebook psychic readings on his show “Love 911 Tarot” on Facebook and Instagram, coaching clients on love, sex, relationships, family, money, and career. As a medium, he also reconnects clients with loved ones who are dearly departed should they wish it.

Over the last 11 years as a doctor of spiritual 5 element acupuncture, Dexter has brought this evidence-based transformative healing technique to the Meditteranean and Northern Europe, the Middle East, South and Central America, Mexico, Canada, and the Carribean. Using a results based philosophy, along with educational self-care techniques, Dexter enlightens and demonstrates to patients the powerful ability of their bodies and minds to change. He is currently lead supervising doctor of clinical acupuncture interns at the Maryland University of Integrative Health, where he also serves as adjunct faculty and senate member.

Dexter and I talk about his work with men as an acupuncturist and practitioner of Natural Medicine. We discuss men’s health and share some advice about how to improve your own wellbeing. We also explore some of Dexter’s journey with mediumship.

Key Points:

  • Dexter introduces himself
  • Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine
  • Penis heath
  • Fertility and conception
  • Changing your diet for sexual health
  • Prostate health
  • Mediumship and sexuality
  • Telling people about their future
  • Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man

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Dexter’s Facebook: @love911tarot

Dexter’s Instagram: @love911tarot

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #20 The Seed Bearer: Conscious Conception for Men (with Josh Fairleigh)
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09/03/20 • 64 min

On episode 20 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Josh Fairleigh. Josh grew up on the east coast of Australia, surfing, skating, boxing, fishing, loving all the outdoor active lifestyle this environment allows. School was very low on the list; this resulted in a early school drop out and the introduction of his first job in the surfboard industry. Surfing being Josh’s life passion; he shaped custom surfboards for about 15 years until his Saturn return when he began to see the environmental impact of the industry and pictured his own health in another 15 years. This was the time when Josh became very interested in health and natural medicines. After an awakening during a yoga course in Thailand with some influential teachers Josh began studying Ayurveda, Yoga, Reiki, Pranic Healing and Shamanic Crystal work and finally found the passion for academic education that he could not find in the earlier school years. Josh now teaches Breath workshops and does energy and Shamanic Healing’s. Josh became interested in Feng Shui as he spent many years traveling the world and Australia, through this travelling from town to town, country to country he was aware of his own moods, perception and reality changing; which made him curious as to how much our environment has an effect on our reality, from the weather, the land forms, water quality, different beliefs, colours, shapes and the spiritual energy. Josh has studied Feng Shui and Environmental studies with the Australian College of Environmental Studies. He now emphasises Breathwork as a tool to facilitate spiritual, mental, physical and emotional health. This approach and training touches all of these aspects of life; from physical fitness, to harmonising our internal and external energy bodies.

We spoke about Josh's Lyme Disease and how it has affected his relationship with himself, his wife and his daughter, particularly with regards to how he perceives his masculinity. We also spoke about conscious conception and what men can do to contribute to the conceiving process.

Key Points:

Josh story

Contracting Lyme Disease

Trusting teachers and cultivating discernment

Physical health and relationships

Shifting perceptions about masculinity

Can you look yourself in the eye?

Unpacking conscious conception

A man's role in the conceiving process

Bringing consciousness into the conceiving process

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Cam's Instagram: @thecamfraser

Cam's website: www.cam-fraser.com

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #104 Prostate Play: From Massage to Orgasms (with Forrest Andrews)
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03/17/22 • 72 min

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Forrest Andrews. Forrest is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2000 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since. This started when he was a customer and purchased their very first device. The impact on him was life-changing, turning around a decades-old health condition while revealing a powerful new orgasmic experience he would later call the “Super O”. After a series of productive conversations with the owners of the company, Forrest became their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Soon after he helped them launch the Aneros forum where he chronicled his own personal journey into the multi-orgasmic realm. In later years he compiled the Aneros WIKI comprised of terms drawn from his several thousand posts and threads. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored men from all over the world helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. During the same period, he attended public and industry trade expos in the U.S. and Europe, as the company’s expert on the use of their devices. In 2016, Forrest became Aneros’ manager of Product and Business development where he’s supervised the creation and launch of the awarding winning Trident Series, the Trident Syn Series, the VICE 2 and the Helix Syn V. The two of us talk about the ins and outs of prostate stimulation, from massage to play to manual to vibration to health benefits to pleasure enhancement. If you’re interested in prostate pleasure, this is the episode for you.

Key points:

  • Forrest introduces himself
  • Forrest’s journey with prostate health
  • The beginnings of Aneros
  • Prostate pleasure
  • Stimulation: Massage vs play
  • To use vibration or not?
  • Different types of prostate massagers
  • Advice for men wanting to explore their prostate

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The Aneros website: www.aneros.com

Forrest’s email: [email protected]

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #105 Men’s Self-Worth Struggles and Stories (with Nick Perry)
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03/24/22 • 67 min

On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Nick Perry. Nick is a Holistic Lifestyle Coach, Corrective Exercise Specialist and Men’s Work Facilitator who is passionate and driven by authentic relating and inspired living. Nick’s education in Holistic Lifestyle Coaching draws from personal mentoring and learning from some of the world’s leading healers, facilitators and physical therapists. For the last decade he has immersed himself in study and experimentation, acquiring qualifications across a broad range of modalities. Over the last few years his reach in the world has spread far, as he shares his knowledge, experience and personal story through podcasts, workshops and teachings in his mentorship program. Known for his deep presence, relatability and down-to-earth nature, Nick’s goal when working with clients is to leave them feeling empowered and aligned in themselves - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

Key points:

  • Nick shares about his work
  • Fatherhood and processing emotions
  • “I’m not enough”: Self-worth stories
  • Relearning about sex and pleasure
  • Pleasure is weakness?
  • Catalysts for transformation
  • Listening to your body
  • Supporting other men
  • Role models

Relevant links:

Nick’s Instagram: @rhythmhealth

Nick’s website: https://www.rhythmhealth.com.au/about

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser - #102 From Slut-Shaming to OnlyFans (with Kashira Whiteley)
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03/03/22 • 79 min

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Kashira Whiteley. Kashira is a life coach. In her work she supports her clients on their path toward personal alignment and healing through unlearning old trauma responses and patterned behaviour that no longer serves them, as well as holding space for their self exploration and integration, so that they’re able to unlock the codes to rewiring their inner narrative and self-talk through developing new tools for their emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual health. Her methods are holistic in nature, integrating science, the study of human psychology and behaviour, ancient practices such as astrology and her own intuition and clairsentience. Kashira believes in honouring the human experience at every level; mind, emotion, body and spirit with awareness of how these facets are all intimately interconnected and intersected. The two of us talk about slut shaming, narcissism, codependent relationships, experimenting with sexuality, creating erotic content, and the similiarities between personal training and pro domming.

Key points:

  • Kashira introduces herself
  • Slut shaming
  • Narcissism and codependency
  • Rupture and repair
  • Weaponising sex
  • Celibacy vs promiscuity
  • Feigning hypersexuality
  • Creating erotic content
  • Personal training and domming
  • Advice for young women

Relevant links:

Kashira’s Instagram: @Consciouslykash

Kashira’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Kashy92

Work with Kashira: https://consciouslykash.as.me/schedule.php

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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser currently has 313 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Podcasts and Sexuality.

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The episode title '#95 A Woman’s Perspective: Sex, Shame, & Shibari (with Skye Stevenson)' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser is 48 minutes.

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Episodes of Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser are typically released every 5 days.

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The first episode of Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser was released on May 5, 2020.

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