Love Works

We discuss a survey we took on peoples personal definition of love. We also discuss 3 foundational elements of true love.

Imagine a world where dirty socks on the floor don't escalate into full-blown arguments. In this episode, we unravel the art of seamless communication and divvying up household duties. By recounting our own tales of chore charts and laundry schedules, we aim to equip couples with the strategies to combat the build-up of resentment. It's not about keeping score; it's about playing the game together and rewriting the rulebook when life tosses a wildcard your way. Whether it's managing a budget or ensuring both partners can handle the car maintenance, we're all about fostering a partnership where both feel valued and heard. So, as you listen in, we invite you to join us in this ongoing conversation about love, dedication, and the heartfelt work that makes a marriage not just work, but thrive.

Have you ever wondered how to keep the fire of love burning in your marriage amidst the chaos of daily life? Join us on the Love Works podcast, as we discuss one area we've found to be vital in keeping our bond strong is the institution of regular date nights. Not just a frivolous luxury, these dedicated times of connection have been proven to significantly improve happiness, commitment, and satisfaction in relationships. We'll be discussing how to make these special nights (or days) happen, even with a busy schedule, limited budget, or lack of childcare.
We can't wait to share with you the benefits of dating within marriage, and how it can reignite the romantic spark between you and your spouse. We'll explore why it's crucial to make your spouse a priority and create dedicated time for one another. Remember, your love story is not finished writing itself, and we're eager to help you add some beautiful chapters to it. So, join us, and let’s get to work on love.

What if you could turn the tide in your marriage with just a simple shift in mindset?
Appreciation is a powerful tool, often underestimated in its ability to transform relationships. We delve into the critical role of appreciation in marriage, discussing the "magic ratio" of positive versus negative interactions and the tell-tale signs of a lack of appreciation. We'll guide you through the steps to make appreciating your spouse a daily habit, improving communication and paving the way to a more fulfilling marriage.
Shifting our focus from our partner's faults to their positive qualities can have a profound impact on our relationships. We highlight the importance of using phrases like "I appreciate" and going the extra mile with politeness. By referencing Philippians 4:8, we aim to encourage listeners to fill their minds with positive thoughts. As we wrap up our conversation, we hope to inspire you to infuse more love, gratitude, and positivity into your relationships. Join us, and let's transform our marriages together!

If you've ever found yourself drained by the constant demands of extended family, then you know the importance of boundaries in relationships. In a lively and insightful discussion, my wife Jennifer and I delve into the humorous side of parenting our six children and the serious side of setting boundaries in our relationships. We share our funny stories, experiences and lessons learned to guide you in setting your own emotional and time boundaries with family members, so you never have to feel emotionally drained or unable to fulfill your God-given responsibilities to your own family.
Have you ever wondered how to maintain spiritual boundaries in your marriage? As we navigate through the complex waters of boundary setting, we lay emphasis on the crucial role of open communication with your spouse, and the importance of constant re-evaluation of these boundaries as your marriage evolves. This candid conversation is not just about setting boundaries with family and friends, but also about ensuring that prayer time and reading scripture remain a top priority in your marriage.
In the final stage of our discussion, we tackle the intricate web of setting boundaries with extended family and friends. We stress the vital need for agreement with your spouse before venturing into these tricky conversations, and the indispensable role of communication in a healthy marriage. As part of our commitment to your relational success, we wrap up the episode with prayers for those in relationships and marriages, encouraging you to have the strength to set and reaffirm boundaries. Join us on this boundary-setting journey, and witness firsthand how love truly works.