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Love, Evolved with Leigh-Anne LoPinto: Conscious Relationships - Real World Couples with Laura Matsue + Bernhard Guenther:  Evolutionary Relationships

Real World Couples with Laura Matsue + Bernhard Guenther: Evolutionary Relationships

09/27/22 • 73 min

Love, Evolved with Leigh-Anne LoPinto: Conscious Relationships

I invited Laura Matsue and Bernhard Guenther onto the podcast as part of my Real World Couples series, where I feature couples in incredible relationships who serve as models for others.
This was one of my favorite episodes so far, with so much rich discussion - can't wait for you listen!
We start out with an overview of evolutionary relationships (and discuss our upcoming masterclass on this topic on Oct 6, 2022, see link below) and how we are seeing that people are ready for a new level of spiritual partnership.
From there, we get into:

The story of how they met (on Facebook!)
- Some incredible signs Laura received before they even met
- Why this relationship felt different to them this time around
- How they define evolutionary relationships (or conscious relationships) and how most relationships are unconscious
- How everything comes up in relationships - attachment wounding, trauma, shadow stuff - and how these are opportunities to heal and evolve
- Getting into the evolutionary astrology angle where some people are more open to growth + evolution, based on their birth charts
- Navigating conflict (addressing both conflict avoidance and the conflict volatility)
- A fascinating discussion of the current state of affairs with love, sex, and relationships - where are we collectively?
- The agenda behind the war on love, sx and relationships
- How social media has replaced healthy human connection
- Why now, more than ever, we need healthy + secure relationships
- How the world of therapy has been overtaken by the 'woke cult'
- The rupture of the family unit and the counterbalance happening
- Laura and Bernhard end with their biggest keys that shifted how they do relationships
It was such an honor to speak with them, and we hope you find this episode helpful.
Please contact any of us below with any comments or questions, we'd love to hear.
Evolutionary Relationships Masterclass:
https://www.evolutionaryrelationshipsnow.com/

Bernhard's Website (check out his incredible essays):
https://veilofreality.com/
Laura's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/lauramatsue/
Cosmic Matrix podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cosmic-matrix/id1452122496
Leigh-Anne's website:
https://www.love-evolved.us/
Leigh-Anne's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

Connect with Leigh-Anne below:

I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram

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I invited Laura Matsue and Bernhard Guenther onto the podcast as part of my Real World Couples series, where I feature couples in incredible relationships who serve as models for others.
This was one of my favorite episodes so far, with so much rich discussion - can't wait for you listen!
We start out with an overview of evolutionary relationships (and discuss our upcoming masterclass on this topic on Oct 6, 2022, see link below) and how we are seeing that people are ready for a new level of spiritual partnership.
From there, we get into:

The story of how they met (on Facebook!)
- Some incredible signs Laura received before they even met
- Why this relationship felt different to them this time around
- How they define evolutionary relationships (or conscious relationships) and how most relationships are unconscious
- How everything comes up in relationships - attachment wounding, trauma, shadow stuff - and how these are opportunities to heal and evolve
- Getting into the evolutionary astrology angle where some people are more open to growth + evolution, based on their birth charts
- Navigating conflict (addressing both conflict avoidance and the conflict volatility)
- A fascinating discussion of the current state of affairs with love, sex, and relationships - where are we collectively?
- The agenda behind the war on love, sx and relationships
- How social media has replaced healthy human connection
- Why now, more than ever, we need healthy + secure relationships
- How the world of therapy has been overtaken by the 'woke cult'
- The rupture of the family unit and the counterbalance happening
- Laura and Bernhard end with their biggest keys that shifted how they do relationships
It was such an honor to speak with them, and we hope you find this episode helpful.
Please contact any of us below with any comments or questions, we'd love to hear.
Evolutionary Relationships Masterclass:
https://www.evolutionaryrelationshipsnow.com/

Bernhard's Website (check out his incredible essays):
https://veilofreality.com/
Laura's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/lauramatsue/
Cosmic Matrix podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-cosmic-matrix/id1452122496
Leigh-Anne's website:
https://www.love-evolved.us/
Leigh-Anne's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/love.evolv.ed/

Connect with Leigh-Anne below:

I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram

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undefined - Real World Couples with Perri + Kellen Chase

Real World Couples with Perri + Kellen Chase

I was so honored to talk with Kellen + Perri Chase, who openly share about their beautiful relationship - the story of how they met, how they handle conflict, keeping each other a priority during parenting, and so much more.
The video is incredible to watch and I highly suggest that you do - they have such a powerful dynamic between them. Here's the link to the video:
https://www.love-evolved.us/podcast.html

Perri Chase is an incredible spiritual teacher for thousands of people, sharing her knowledge and embodied wisdom around working with energetic mastery of the feminine + masculine in business and life. Kellen is a shaman and tantric practitioner, and the support system holding it all together in the background. Kellen works with men in Perri's community as a brilliant Holder, and guides men into depths few men can.
These two together are such a joy to witness, and their love and adoration for each other is so strong. They are incredible models of conscious relationships, and I was so grateful to have them on.
Note: I confused them at the beginning when I said I was excited to talk about how they practice masculine/feminine polarity - I should be more clear when using that phrase, I'm not talking about the popular way it's being taught, but rather the true meaning of that phrase which is the union of the masculine + feminine, specifically inner union and how that is facilitated in partnership through outer union.
Perri actually speaks beautifully about this when she introduces herself and the work that she does, and this was a big reason I was drawn to her, because I could see clearly that she works with both the feminine + masculine in this way. I'll record an episode soon where I clarify what I mean about 'true' polarity - which is inner alchemical union, or the balance of masculine/feminine within, not what popular teachers are talking about.

Other areas we touched upon:

What their relationship and attraction look like

Kellen's story of how his body was pulled to Perri despite having a different 'type' in the past

The whole purpose of relationships - mirroring in order to help heal each others' wounds

When people act out of desperation in unnatural ways in order to cling to relationships that may have reached completion

How Perri decided to stop acting like a chameleon to please partners and just be truly herself, take it or leave it

Kellen's tips for men on how to avoid taking on your partner's mood and turning into the rescuer

The ego death process that happens in conscious relationships
- The misconception in the masculine/feminine polarity spaces that 'the male leads' - nobody's ego should be leading a relationship
- Inner union as the most important aspect of the spiritual path of divine union

Parenting and how Kellen + Perri play untraditional roles that work perfectly for them

How Kellen really stepped up to the plate as a model father

How they do conflict

Final words of wisdom/advice for men, women + couples and how

Connect with Leigh-Anne below:

I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with everyone who may need to listen.
I'd also LOVE if you could rate, review and subscribe to the podcast if you find it useful. Thanks so much, I appreciate you all.

Next Episode

undefined - Command Your Power with Quentin Hick

Command Your Power with Quentin Hick

In this episode, Quentin Hick is back on the podcast to talk about his path of empowerment through men's work, emotional regulation, abstinence, and inner union. While he speaks through the lens of his path as a man, this episode has many principles that can apply to both men + women.
(To listen to our first conversation from Episode 15 about Masculine/Feminine polarity, click here.)
Episode outline:
- Q shares about men's work and how it's empowered him to be a better man
- We speak about the Seven Pillars of Existence
- Q shares about his choice of abstinence post-breakup and why
- We speak about how to master sexual energy and the benefits it has for us all
- We talk about the power of breathwork to transform your life, especially for emotional processing and activating intuition
- Q talks about healing his inner feminine as a man and we get into inner union, or as Jung calls it, anima/animus integration)
- We speak a lot about the payoffs from this work and how stepping into your power and taking ownership of your life is essential.
Book Recommendations:
Conscious Loving - Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks
From the Core - John Wineland
Masculine + Feminine Polarity Work - Elliott Saxby
Othership App
Breathwork Audios from Leigh-Anne's teacher David Elliott
Sacred Sons
Connect with Quentin here:
Quentin’s Instagram
About Me:
My name is Leigh-Anne, and I'm a holistic psychologist specializing in love, sex, and relationships. I'm particularly passionate about conscious relationships and spiritual partnership through divine union, which includes masculine/feminine polarity. I'm an advocate of both women's work and men's work happening side by side to heal the relationship between men + women.
My one-on-one work with clients includes a powerful comb

Connect with Leigh-Anne below:

I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram

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