
How to Stop People Pleasing + Create Authentic Relationships
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07/02/23 • 21 min
This episode is short and sweet, and is for you if you've ever shape shifted or molded yourself into someone you're not in order to get love (whether consciously or unconsciously, and especially during dating or the beginning stages of a relationship.)
We've all done this, so there's no shame. But there is a way out, especially because this usually comes back to bite us in the end.
In this episode, I speak all about the importance of authenticity and how to create relationships from the true self. The payoff is worth everything.
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- Love, Evolved - Leigh-Anne's website
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
I hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- The Wayshowers: Mentorship
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
- Leigh-Anne's Website
- Leigh-Anne's Substack
- The Trap of Codependency (free teaching video)
- Private Telegram Group
I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram
This episode is short and sweet, and is for you if you've ever shape shifted or molded yourself into someone you're not in order to get love (whether consciously or unconsciously, and especially during dating or the beginning stages of a relationship.)
We've all done this, so there's no shame. But there is a way out, especially because this usually comes back to bite us in the end.
In this episode, I speak all about the importance of authenticity and how to create relationships from the true self. The payoff is worth everything.
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- Love, Evolved - Leigh-Anne's website
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
I hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast.
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- The Wayshowers: Mentorship
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
- Leigh-Anne's Website
- Leigh-Anne's Substack
- The Trap of Codependency (free teaching video)
- Private Telegram Group
I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram
Previous Episode

Men, Women + Power with Roy Wang
On this episode, Roy Wang and I speak about the theme of men, women, and power.
What is true power vs. false power, and how can the journey towards empowerment sometimes look different for men and women?
How can power be a healthy goal for all of us, a spiritual journey, and an essential part of becoming integrated men and women?
We speak about so many different expressions of power: physical strength, beauty, authenticity, knowing your true self, and women as oracles.
Ultimately, we believe that both men and women can both claim their unique gifts of power in order to help lift each other up vs. compete with each other.
This is an essential episode to listen to in order to understand how empowerment is our birthright, how returning to traditional gender roles may not be the way, and what the path forward can look like for collaborative relationships between men + women.
Roy Wang is a coach with a mission to help men end cycles of shame, discover their inner strength, awaken to their true self, and be of service to the world.
Please reach out to Roy or myself with any comments or questions - we would love to hear your thoughts on this discussion.
Connect with Roy below:
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- Love, Evolved - Leigh-Anne's website
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
I hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the work.
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- The Wayshowers: Mentorship
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
- Leigh-Anne's Website
- Leigh-Anne's Substack
- The Trap of Codependency (free teaching video)
- Private Telegram Group
I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram
Next Episode

The Rise of Narcissism and How to Avoid the Trap of Empath-Narcissist Relationships - with Dr. George Simon
In Episode #30 of the Love, Evolved podcast, I welcome on a very special guest: Dr. George Simon. Dr. Simon is the leading expert on manipulators, narcissists and other disturbed characters, and has studied this phenomenon for over 42 years.
This episode is for you if you are a kind-hearted, compassionate individual who finds yourself getting taken advantage of in relationships.
Dr. Simon and I speak about the rise of narcissism and what has contributed to this problem, what some of the common tactics that people with narcissism and other character disorders use to manipulate others, and how to protect yourself if you find that you get tangled up with these types of people. Is the phrase, "Hurt people hurt people" always true? And where are we with treating narcissism and character disorders today?
This episode is one of the most important ones I have recorded to date. Please keep in touch with Dr. Simon's work below, and contact me with any comments or questions.
Connect with Dr. George Simon:
- Website + Blog
- In Sheep's Clothing
- Character Disturbance
- The Judas Syndrome
- How Did We End Up Here?
- Essentials for the Journey
Connect with Leigh-Anne:
I hope you enjoy this episode - please rate, review and subscribe to support the podcast. And please share this episode with others who need to know this information. Thanks for listening!
Connect with Leigh-Anne below:
- The Wayshowers: Mentorship
- Leigh-Anne's Instagram
- Leigh-Anne's Website
- Leigh-Anne's Substack
- The Trap of Codependency (free teaching video)
- Private Telegram Group
I hope you enjoy this episode - please share this with anyone who may need to listen.
Please rate, review, and subscribe if you find this podcast useful. It really helps this content get out to more people.
Thanks so much, I appreciate you all!
Intro + Outro music: "Medicine" by HOL + Layv
Holly's Instagram
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