EP36: From Doubts to Discovery, A Narrative of Kit's Autistic Self-Identification

05/20/24 • 25 min

Have you ever felt like a puzzle, piecing together your own truth, only to discover that the image wasn't quite what you expected? Join me, Kit, as I recount the intimate and transformative journey of self-diagnosing as autistic, a path paved with struggles, breakthroughs, and an unexpected neighbor's song that turned my world upside down. My odyssey was not just a pursuit of self-knowledge, but a battle against the internalized ableism that often silenced my doubts and questions. This exploration is an honest reflection on my past diagnoses and a heartfelt dialogue with my mother, unveiling the stigmas that once shrouded our understanding of autism.
But this episode isn't solely about introspection; it's also a celebration of the quirks and joys that make life so incredibly rich. I'll guide you through the process of embracing personal comfort, even when it means defying societal judgments, especially when it comes to the autistic experience of stimming. Alongside these personal revelations, you'll find amusing tidbits about bees' pollen pockets and Disney's Tiki Room, proving that our passions, no matter how eclectic, are worth indulging. Plus, learn how the iconic Chucky doll became a puppeteering marvel, and let's discuss the importance of community support as we approach Pride month, highlighting the vibrant solidarity within the LGBTQ+ community.

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Life Through a Queer Lens - EP36: From Doubts to Discovery, A Narrative of Kit's Autistic Self-Identification

Transcript

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I'm anxious all the fucking time letting myself use stim toys . Really difficult to pretend that the things they say don't devastate you . My journey into discovering that I am autistic .

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Hey y'all , welcome back to Life Through a Queer Lens . Today it is just me , co-host Kit vibing by myself , and I am going to be talking to you guy