Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity" with me, your host, Todd Creager. Today's episode is a special one where we dive into the often-overlooked yet vital aspect of adult relationships: the power of play and leisure. In our busy lives, we sometimes forget the joy and rejuvenation that playfulness can bring into our relationships. Join me as we explore the incredible benefits of incorporating more leisure and play into our adult lives, and how it can transform our connections with our loved ones.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• 🌟 The Science of Play: Understand the neurobiological underpinnings of play and how our nervous system is hardwired for both engagement and relaxation.
• 💖 Reviving Romance: Discover practical strategies to reintegrate play into your romantic life, rekindling passion and deepening your connection.
• 🎉 Individual vs. Shared Play: Explore the importance of balancing personal leisure activities with shared experiences in your relationships.
• 🔄 Breaking the Monotony: Learn how consistent playful interactions can prevent relationships from becoming stale, keeping the spark alive.
• 🧘 Play for Better Decisions: Gain insights into how playfulness not only enhances personal well-being but also leads to healthier, more compassionate decision-making in all aspects of life.

In this episode, I share personal anecdotes and professional insights into why play isn't just a childish whim – it's a cornerstone of healthy, vibrant adult relationships. Whether you're navigating the early days of a new relationship, keeping the flame alive in a long-term partnership, or simply looking to enhance your personal well-being, this episode is packed with valuable wisdom for you.

Remember, in the world of love, sex, and infidelity, play is not just an escape – it's a path to deeper connection and fulfillment. Let's rediscover the joy of play together!

Listen to the episode now and let's transform the way we think about play in our adult lives!

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT
Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples virtually and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.
You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com
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Join infidelity healing expert Todd Creager as he delves into the depths of trust, betrayal, and the path to healing. Infidelity can shake the very foundation of our relationships, leaving us questioning everything we believed about love and trust. But there's hope, and it lies within the science of healing.
Why you should tune in and listen:
🟢 Discover the Role of Oxytocin: Learn how the "cuddle hormone" influences trust and how its levels are affected by betrayal, offering insights into the biological underpinnings of our relationships.
🟢 Understand Polyvagal Theory: Gain a deeper understanding of how our bodies respond to stress and threats, and how this knowledge can help us navigate the emotional aftermath of infidelity.
🟢 Strategies for Rebuilding Trust: I'll share effective strategies for healing and rebuilding trust, drawing on the latest research and my extensive experience as a therapist.
🟢 The Power of Forgiveness: Explore how forgiveness can be a pivotal step in the healing process, leading to a deeper, more resilient connection with your partner.
🟢 Healing Together: Learn how couples can work together to overcome the challenges posed by infidelity, fostering a stronger, more trusting relationship.
Infidelity doesn't have to be the end of your story. With the right understanding and tools, healing is possible. This episode is a must-watch for anyone looking to navigate the complex emotions and challenges that arise in the wake of betrayal. Join me as we explore the science of healing from infidelity, and take the first step towards a brighter, more loving future.
Why listen to this episode: Because understanding the science behind our emotions and reactions can empower us to make informed, compassionate choices towards healing and rebuilding. Whether you're directly affected by infidelity or a professional seeking to support others, Todd Creager offers valuable insights and hope for recovery.
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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT
Todd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.
You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com
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In this episode, Todd Creager explores a deeply personal and vital topic - rebuilding physical intimacy after infidelity.

Infidelity can leave us feeling utterly devastated and disconnected, wondering if we can ever mend our intimate bond again. That's precisely why I created this episode - to provide guidance, insights, and hope for those who have endured the pain of betrayal and seek to rediscover a fulfilling and passionate connection with their partner.
As a therapist and relationship coach, I've had the privilege of working with numerous couples who have navigated this challenging path. Through their experiences and transformations, I've learned valuable lessons about how open communication, vulnerability, and mutual understanding can reignite the flame of physical intimacy, even in the darkest of times.
If you or someone you know is grappling with the aftermath of infidelity, this episode is a must-listen. Join me as we explore the intricacies of healing, the power of rebuilding trust, and the potential for growth and intimacy that lies ahead. Remember, you're not alone on this journey; together, we can create a world safe for love.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The Impact of Infidelity on Physical Intimacy: Gain insights into how infidelity can affect sexual intimacy between partners and how understanding this impact can aid in the healing process.
• The Power of Open Communication and Vulnerability: Learn how open communication and vulnerability play pivotal roles in reigniting the spark and rebuilding trust after infidelity.
• Navigating the Journey of Rediscovery: Uncover the transformative process couples experience as they rebuild their relationship on a deeper level, ultimately leading to a more profound physical connection.
• Celebrating the Journey of Healing: Embrace the idea of celebrating moments of reconnection and repair, finding joy in the journey of rediscovery, and forging a stronger bond with your partner.

If you or someone you know is struggling to reignite the flame of physical intimacy after infidelity, don't miss this insightful episode. Hit that play button, and let's embark on this healing journey together.
Be sure to subscribe to the podcast, and remember to share this episode with others who may find it valuable on their paths to love and trust. 💕

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT
Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.
You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com
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• Discover 7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM
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In this episode, relationship expert and couples therapist Todd Creager explains how he's discovered the power of using EMDR which stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy to help couples stop fight or flight and start communicating better with each other.
Listen in and hear Todd:

1. Explain what EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy) is.
2. How couples tend to trigger each other and how that affects their ability to communicate with each other.
3. Why emotional conversations are so difficult and how EMDR can make them easier to have with your partner.
4. How EMDR can help you activate your adult self so that your relationship can thrive.

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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT

Todd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

• Secrets to a Sexy Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets

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In this powerful episode, I dive deep into how couples can experience post-traumatic growth after infidelity - yes, you read that right!
While infidelity often leads to PTSD, I've witnessed countless couples in my practice who've not only healed but emerged stronger through this challenging journey.
I'll share my expertise on how to transform trauma into an opportunity for profound relationship growth and renewal.

Key takeaways from this episode:

• Discover the 5 essential questions that help determine if you're ready to take your relationship to the next level after infidelity
• Learn practical techniques for healthy emotional regulation as a couple, including my proven "catch and throw" exercise for better communication
• Understand how to maintain growth while facing challenges, and why romance plays a crucial role in the healing process
• Get actionable steps to create a new, stronger vision for your relationship, even with the scars of infidelity

Whether you're currently healing from infidelity or working with couples who are, this episode offers hope and practical guidance for turning crisis into opportunity. As I always say, you can have a beautiful relationship despite the scars - sometimes even because of them. Join me as we explore how to make real, lasting change from the inside out.
Tune in now to learn how to transform your relationship's deepest wounds into catalysts for growth and deeper connection. Together, we're making the world safe for love.
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Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFT
Todd is an infidelity expert with a 90% success rate and therapist in Huntington Beach. He provides relationship counseling to couples online and throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach. (714) 848-2288.

• You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at: https://toddcreager.com

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity