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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

Amy Lang, MA

Are you dragging your feet about having the sex talks? Do you wish someone would just tell you what to say to your kid about this important part of life? You are in the right place. Whether your kid is neurotypical or neurodivergent, I've got ya. I’m Amy Lang, a sex and parent educator, and in my frank (really frank), opinionated, and full-of-swears-advice-column style parenting podcast, I answer real questions from real parents about the talks. I also provide topic-specific scripts so you can sound like a pro. Most episodes are a potluck of questions that run the gamut from abortion to porn and everything in between. They need to know about all of these things by the time they start middle school.* When you have no idea about the best age to start the birds and bees talks; what’s age appropriate; and what to actually SAY to them about sex, it makes the sex talks daunting (to say the least)! When it comes to the sex talks, keeping it sex-positive, light, and fact-based is key to getting them to listen to you and see you as their go-to birds and bees source. Just Say This can help you make this happen. To record a question for me to answer in a later show (even if you think it’s a stupid one) call 206-926-1522.* I love funny sex talk stories, too. So feel free to call those in, too. + IG @BirdsBeesKids + FB @BirdsBeesKids + BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com *In middle school they talk about everything so it’s better (and safer) for your kid to be super-well informed so that they feel confident and smart as things get so real. Do you remember middle school? Wouldn’t it have been so much better if you had known everything? Or anything? **Not a thing.
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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - Sugar dating with Casey O'Roarty and Christy Keating -- Episode 193

Sugar dating with Casey O'Roarty and Christy Keating -- Episode 193

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

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01/17/24 • 42 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

This episode’s notes! Joyful Courage with Casey O'Roarty The Heartful Parent with Christy Keating

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - A fetus isn't a baby and gay marriage doesn't mean people will marry their pets, idiot! -- Episode 186
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11/15/23 • 8 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

This episode’s notes!

Fetal Development Stages of Fetal Development Illustration

Other resources BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

This episode’s notes!

If your kid is neurodiverse and you’d like to be part of my focus group and get on my special newsletter list, send me an email. [email protected]

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - 4-year-old obsessed with private parts and a funny story about getting caught in the act -- Episode 188
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11/29/23 • 13 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

This episode’s notes! RAINN.org - To find a child advocacy center in your area Consent Parenting for support for surviors. Consent Parenting for support for surviors. Savvy Parents Safe Kids for general info to keep kids safe.

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - How to talk about kink -- Episode 183

How to talk about kink -- Episode 183

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

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10/25/23 • 5 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

This episode’s notes!

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

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GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 In this episode, Amy answers questions about how a mom should handle a kid who bought a tubular masturbation assistant. Also, how to explain teen sister's pregnancy to her 8-year-old sibling

Resources: Babeland has great sex toys! Feminist and birthed in Seattle

Catamenial epilepsy

Other resources: BBK Bookstore is here

My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Even more resources:

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

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Website

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - Personal baggage but still needing to do the sex talks. And comments about kids' bodies -- Episode 161
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05/03/23 • 20 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

BBK Bookstore is here

In this episode, Amy talks to a parent who is worried about their past experiences with their own sex education creeping into their talks with their kids. Amy also gives advice to a parent who is worried that her partner, through his conversations with their kids, could be introducing body issues for their children.

Book: Fat Talk

Other resources

My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook

Instagram

Website

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - Guest Star! Emily Cherkin talks about how to get a grip on screen time -- Episode 153
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02/01/23 • 39 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522

In this episode, Amy talks with The Screen Time Consultant, Emily Cherkin, about ways to help your kids manage their screen time. Screen Time Consultant - check out Emily's freebies: Top 3 Tech-Intentional Tips Webinar and her eBook "7 Ingredients for Screentime Balance" on the top of her website.

Which Parental Controls Do I Recommend? None. I'm 43. I Made a Fake Snapchat Account Pretending to Be 15.

Seattle lawsuit against social media and Emily's interview about it.

BBK Bookstore is here

Other resources

My new book! Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees TalksBirds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, special topic webinars and a massive library of resources

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram Website

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! - Explaining STIs to kids under 10 -- Episode 197

Explaining STIs to kids under 10 -- Episode 197

Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex!

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04/03/24 • 5 min

GOT A QUESTION? Anything goes! Just leave a quick voice mail and I’ll answer it on the show! 206-926-1522 This episode's notes!

Health officials recommend more syphilis testing after U.S. newborn cases skyrocketed in 2022

What are STDs?

BBK Bookstore is here

Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It is all scripts and some tips!

Other resources

My YouTube channel is full of videos for you to watch! Get the details on the sex talks, sexual abuse prevention and even some vids you can watch with your kids.

Sign up for my news letter and get helpful 7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talks – Birds & Bees & Kids

The podcast can only get you so far...The Birds & Bees Solutions Center can help you become the trustworthy adult you didn’t have and your kid's go-to person. Includes group coaching, a massive library of resources AND one Quickie Consultation is included!

Use coupon code PODCAST for $10 off.

Need more help? Schedule a Quickie Consult!

Work with kids? Visit my site for professionals BBKpros.com

Other resources

  • Stop It Now – Sexual Abuse Prevention info and support
  • RAINN – National Sexual Assault Hotline. Free. Confidential.
  • BARK – Monitoring and filtering (US only)
  • Qustodio – Monitoring and filtering (outside US)

Facebook Instagram YouTube Website

Join the postcarding movement! Center for Common Ground - you can send postcards to BIPOC people in conservative fucked up states and encourage them to vote!

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Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! currently has 123 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Parents, Health & Fitness, Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts and Sexuality.

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The episode title 'Chirp: How to find your child a therapist if they have been porn exposed -- Episode 177' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! is 15 minutes.

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Episodes of Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of Just Say This! How to talk with ALL kids about sex! was released on Aug 18, 2021.

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