
Valentine's Day and Running Away From Love
02/07/23 • 25 min
Bob explains to X the alien what Valentine’s Day is and why do humans celebrate the day of love...which brings them to explore what love is. How do you know you are actually feeling love and not something else? They get into a discussion about why we use hearts to represent love and what are the main love associations and why/if they make sense. Is love something good? Do they have love in Curio? These and many more questions are waiting for you, so join Bob and X in this lovely discovery episode.
X is an alien that has chosen to do its PhD on "Habits and Behaviors of Multicellular Neural Pre-Enlightenment Organisms'', which includes humans. Bob is helping X with its PhD by answering its questions about human behavior, social norms, and culture.
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Sources:
List of International Days: https://www.un.org/en/observances/list-days-weeks
Asteroid Day: https://www.un.org/en/observances/asteroid-day
Saint Valentine: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saint_Valentine
Valentine’s Day: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine%27s_Day
Life and Death of a Planet: https://exoplanets.nasa.gov/life-and-death/chapter-6/#:~:text=When%20our%20Sun%20approaches%20its,once%20again%20begins%20to%20contract.
Love, Actually: The science behind lust, attraction, and companionship: https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship
Misattribution of arousal: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misattribution_of_arousal
Yes, Love Can Be Measured and This is How: https://medium.com/brainchronicles/yes-love-can-be-measured-and-this-is-how-34d359224161
Scientists Try to Measure Love: https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2010-feb-08-la-he-love8-2010feb08-story.html
The Top 10 Causes of Death: https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/the-top-10-causes-of-death
I know that I know Nothing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_know_that_I_know_nothing
Bob explains to X the alien what Valentine’s Day is and why do humans celebrate the day of love...which brings them to explore what love is. How do you know you are actually feeling love and not something else? They get into a discussion about why we use hearts to represent love and what are the main love associations and why/if they make sense. Is love something good? Do they have love in Curio? These and many more questions are waiting for you, so join Bob and X in this lovely discovery episode.
X is an alien that has chosen to do its PhD on "Habits and Behaviors of Multicellular Neural Pre-Enlightenment Organisms'', which includes humans. Bob is helping X with its PhD by answering its questions about human behavior, social norms, and culture.
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Sources:
List of International Days: https://www.un.org/en/observances/list-days-weeks
Asteroid Day: https://www.un.org/en/observances/asteroid-day
Saint Valentine: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saint_Valentine
Valentine’s Day: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine%27s_Day
Life and Death of a Planet: https://exoplanets.nasa.gov/life-and-death/chapter-6/#:~:text=When%20our%20Sun%20approaches%20its,once%20again%20begins%20to%20contract.
Love, Actually: The science behind lust, attraction, and companionship: https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship
Misattribution of arousal: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misattribution_of_arousal
Yes, Love Can Be Measured and This is How: https://medium.com/brainchronicles/yes-love-can-be-measured-and-this-is-how-34d359224161
Scientists Try to Measure Love: https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2010-feb-08-la-he-love8-2010feb08-story.html
The Top 10 Causes of Death: https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/the-top-10-causes-of-death
I know that I know Nothing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_know_that_I_know_nothing
Previous Episode

Mathematical Beauty and Darwin's Paradox
Bob explains to X the alien what beauty is and how it’s measured (is it?). They get into a discussion about what is considered beautiful and what is the usefulness of beauty (if any). Is there math behind beauty? What is considered beautiful in Curio? These and many more questions are waiting for you, so join Bob and X in this beautiful discovery episode.
X is an alien that has chosen to do its PhD on "Habits and Behaviors of Multicellular Neural Pre-Enlightenment Organisms'', which includes humans. Bob is helping X with its PhD by answering its questions about human behavior, social norms, and culture.
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Sources:
History of Cosmetics: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_cosmetics#:~:text=The%20first%20cosmetics%20appeared%205%2C000,antimony%2Dbased%20paint%20as%20eyeliner.
Eyeliners and Egyptian cosmetics: https://recipes.hypotheses.org/12837#:~:text=Religious%20Importance&text=Egyptians%20also%20exaggerated%20their%20eyes,Evil%20Eye%20(Tapsoba%20et%20al., https://www.cosmeticsinfo.org/get-the-facts/a-history-of-cosmetics-from-ancient-times/
Skin Color and Beauty Standards: https://thesciencesurvey.com/spotlight/2022/04/24/skin-color-and-beauty-standards-a-history/
Japanese White Teeth: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/did-you-know-medieval-japan-white-teeth-were-ugly-women-campagna/
Darwin and Wallace: https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/guides/zwvpsg8/revision/1
Beauty in the Animal Kingdom: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/09/magazine/beauty-evolution-animal.html, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mate_choice
Major Histocompatibility Complex: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Major_histocompatibility_complex
The Golden Ratio: https://plus.maths.org/content/myths-maths-golden-ratio
Facial Symmetry and the Perception of Beauty: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225775645_Facial_Symmetry_and_the_Perception_of_Beauty
Next Episode

Artificial Intelligence (AI): ChatGPT IQ vs Turing EQ
Bob explains to X the alien what Artificial Intelligence (AI) is, along with what is intelligence and emotional intelligence. They discuss the definition and development of artificial intelligence as well as the new advancements like ChapGPT. How do you know what can be considered artificial intelligence? How would X rate in an IQ test? Have they created artificial intelligence in Curio?
X is an alien that has chosen to do its PhD on "Habits and Behaviors of Multicellular Neural Pre-Enlightenment Organisms'', which includes humans. Bob is helping X with its PhD by answering its questions about human behavior, social norms, and culture.
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Anchor: https://anchor.fm/itscomplicatedbobx
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/bobandxpodcast
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscomplicatedbobx/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Its-Complicated-Podcast-105244915647686
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscomplicateditshuman
Sources:
Intelligence Quotient (IQ): https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligence_quotient
Emotional Intelligence (EQ): https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence
Google’s AI Passed the Turing Test: https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/06/17/google-ai-lamda-turing-test/
Interchange by William de Kooning: https://timespek.com/interchange-by-william-de-kooning-critical-analysis/
AI for Social Good Guide: https://ai.google/education/social-good-guide/?category=examples
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