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Intrinsically Ordered - Coming Out in the Catholic Church: Discerning the Priesthood, Same-Sex Attraction, and Why I Left

Coming Out in the Catholic Church: Discerning the Priesthood, Same-Sex Attraction, and Why I Left

Intrinsically Ordered

12/17/24 • 50 min

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I left the Catholic Church after spending years as a zealous apologist and having discerned the priesthood. I now live an openly gay life, have a wonderful boyfriend, and have never been happier. This is my story told in detail. I'll have a future video on my philosophical/theological reasons I left after pursuing a degree in theology.
To join our discord community for $1, check out my patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/gayextrad
To be a guest on the episode, visit my YT channel and send me an email.
Chapters
00:00 - intro
02:00 - realizing I was gay at a young age
06:15 - coming out the first time
10:00 - becoming religious
16:50 - applying to be a monk
19:18 - going to a Catholic college
21:18 - deconstructing
24:29 - first date & leaving religion
28:45 - coming out the second time
30:33 - backlash for coming out
34:08 - how I’ve matured
37:00 - my coming out advice
41:20 - people’s reaction aren’t your responsibility
43:46 - this is a HUGE decision
46:48 - if you’re scared to leave
[This is the audio-only version of my existing YouTube video]

To join our discord community for $1 or to support my work/get early access to content, check out my patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/gayextrad
To be a guest on the episode, visit my YT channel and send me an email.

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12/17/24 • 50 min

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