I Know It When I See It

Topics Discussed:
Answering a listener question about IRL cruising
The importance of being confident
Carta speaks for all trans women
Piss drinking and Skye's feelings around scat play
Links:
Carta's twitter clip with Derek Racks
Skye's Playboy Centerfold page
Sophie Ladder's content restrictions spreadsheet

Our crushes:
Ravyn Alexa
Pandora aka luxusinleather
Podcast Music
KING by ESPer 99
Wishlists:

• Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!
• Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now!

If you love our podcast and want to hear it more frequently and with better sound quality, please contribute towards our goal of raising $1500 so that we can hire a Trans audio engineer to edit our next ten episodes! Send to $studionovaya via Cashapp with "Podcast," in the note. Or, email for alternative payment options [email protected]

This episode is half of a discussion which is being split into two because we ran out of time.

In this episode we go into detail about the experience of the performance which was the culmination of Carta's residency at the Tom of Finland Foundation in Los Angeles. It is, as usual, a raw and frank account of our queer sex lives and queer sex work hustles.

Topics Discussed:

-Performance vs Private BDSM

-Safety, fear, Carta passing out from both perspectives

-Intention & planning BTS of the performance

-*All* porn is queer

-Honoring and respecting elders without worshipping them

-New friends

Podcast Music

KING by ESPer 99

Carta Monir:

www.onlyfans.com/carta

www.cartamonir.com

Skye Novaya:

www.playboy.com/skyenovaya

www.studio-novaya.com

Topics Discussed:
Carta has trouble getting hard when she's bottoming
How do we plan for porn shoots?
Skye has a big military fetish, and Carta really doesn't
We want more listener questions!
Links:
North Korean Traffic Police
Libya's Amazonian Guard
Our crushes:
Boarlord
Greyhound
Podcast Music
KING by ESPer 99
Wishlists:

• Skye needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!
• Carta needs someone to pay for a new laptop, as well as debt incurred by legal fees fro setting up her new websites. Send money through venmo, cashapp, or paypal! She also has a wishlist now! Buy her a dashcam to make her car safer?? Is that sexy??

There's a little cutout at the beginning of the audio for some reason! Not sure why!
Topics Discussed:
Grieving trans friends lost to suicide
Novaya's trans lawyer friend and former lover who is helping them through their grieving process
Teenage Novaya had the same forwardness as adult Novaya does now
Remembering Novaya's friend, Lee
The importance of trans people having spaces to be themselves
Novaya's beloved sissy maid
"A kill room, but for pies."
Transphobia kink
Wanting to be Carta's pantyboy
Carta's scene in Chicago with Testimony
Carta, getting fucked with her own blood
Carta, on getting waterboarded and how fraught it feels
"One stupid thing at a time"
Novaya's waterboarding instructor
Carta's deep discomfort with military shit
Kink is based in really hard to deal with, often evil stuff
Revisiting and rewriting traumatic memories using kink
Carta's doctor got mad at her for not using fake blood
Branding tips
Novaya book update
Carta is mad at people who are charging for pirated versions of her porn
Novaya's name change
Carta reveals Novaya's off-camera name
Hiiiiii Maggieeeeeeeeee
What's gonna happen????
Please consider becoming a sustaining sponsor for either/both of us!
Events:
May 12 - Novaya @ International Center of Photography in the evening
May 13 - Novaya @ International Center of Photography 3-4 PM with appearance by Sissy Maid
May 13 - Novaya (and Sissy) @ Lucky on Ave. B, Happy Hour 4-6 PM
Links:
Ffausten, fisting lube
Our crushes:
Studio dé Manné
Miss CoupleKyle QuinnTestimony (twitter // instagram)
Nightmare Vex
Podcast Music
KING by ESPer 99
Wishlists:

• Novaya needs a sponsor to pay for some custom equipment commissions and an international trip. Is this you? Contact them here!
• Carta's wishlist is always a good way to support her! Maybe you want to buy her a book, or a leather jacket, or some new luggage??

Special thanks:
Thank you everyone for listening to fifteen episodes of I Know It When I See It! We love you and we're so grateful for you <3

In this episode we forget to give you a content warning: warning, this episode may be upsetting to you. We talk about sex, art, bdsm, sexy art, pornography, sex work, nuance, pee play, fisting, the usual.
We catch up on Skye's Berlin shoot with heavybondage4life and Mistress Trinity- at the recently closed Residenz Avalon. And we talk about Carta's recent performance with Mistress Odette at the Tom of Finland House.
People, places, things that we talk about in this episode:
Residenz Avalon
Lady Mercedes
Heavy
Mistress Trinity
Mistress Odette
Betony Vernon
Jesse Pony
Sheree Rose
Tom of Finland Foundation
Our crushes this week include:
Angelo Madsen
Danny Wylde aka Christopher Zeischegg
Podcast Music
KING by ESPer 99
PAY U/us:

• Skye is finishing their bondage studio and needs all kinds of gear; cashapp $studionovaya and wishlist here
• Carta's wishlist! Send her money to buy erotic art or kink equipment! Or just send her money for whatever!

More about Skye: www.studio-novaya.com
More about Carta: www.cartamonir.com