I Guess We're Grown-Ups Now

For Grown-Ups’ first threesome, Kari and Brook are joined by Kayleigh to talk about polyamorism, paramours and metamours and poly unicorns, cis/straight and queer poly, models and structures of poly relationships, how to (and how not to) go polyamorous, jealousy, compersion, and how poly is like Agile. Turns out, Kari’s the only one who’s seen Three’s Company. Also, we talk about butts.

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• Kayleigh on Twitter
• OUTSaskatoon
• When someone selects “it’s complicated,” just think of this chart.

Amazing.

Kari chats with Victor Yocco about the benefits of stopping drinking, the practice of sobriety, how to support people choosing to not drink, fizzy drinks at bars, and when’s a good time to ask why someone’s not drinking (never).

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• The Sober Experience: There’s Purpose In My Sobriety - CONSCIOUS
• [The UX of Alcohol Abuse: Reflections on a Year of Sobriety by Victor Yocco Model View Culture]2
• [The WorkLife HUB Victor Yocco]3
• What it’s like to be a recovering alcoholic in an office where booze is everywhere - Vox
• [Alcohol and Inclusivity: Planning Tech Events with Non-Alcoholic Options by Kara Sowles Model View Culture]5
• [Victor Yocco AlterConf]6
• [Manning Design for the Mind]7

Victor’s book!

• [Victor Yocco (@VictorYocco) Twitter]8

Brook and Kari talk about forcing it with desk legs, friendships, love, taxes, being disciplined, and work. Also: the question of whether telling 20-somethings to just work hard is good advice.

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• XOXO Outpost
• GetBullish – Aggressive Lady-Advice
• An Open Letter To My CEO — Medium
• Brook’s arm tattoos

Brook and Kari talk about the ups and downs of volunteering, kids volunteering badly, empathy and relationship building, selflessness and selfishness, how broken the system can be, doing “little” things, giving yourself credit, volunteering at work.

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• The 2013 Texas filibuster for reproductive rights
• Basic Rights Oregon
• Women’s Foundation of Oregon

Kari and her guest Garth Braithwaite talk all things food and being a grown-up: managing hangry-ness, marrying into food traditions, living with diabetes, LDS food guidelines, what we eat after our kids are in bed, and how to find a sushi mentor. Garth digs how Kari says “avocado.”

• America’s Test Kitchen - Recipes That Work, TV Show Episodes, Kitchen Equipment Reviews, Taste Tests, How to Cook and Cooking Videos
• Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookies Recipe - Food.com
• ଅନିଲ on Twitter: “I feel fortunate living in the window after automated agriculture made meat affordable but before its impact is 100% ethically inexcusable.”
• Food, Inc. (2008) - IMDb
• Happy Feet (2006) - IMDb

The bait and switch of children’s movies.

• The InkTober Initiative - Mr Jake Parker
• Collaborative Design in the Open

Garth’s talk at Adobe Max

• ConvergeRVA - October 10th 2014 - Richmond Virginia

Garth’s talk at Converge, “Designers Can Open Source”

• [All Things Open Garth Braithwaite]9

Garth is also talking at All Things Open

• [Design Open Home]10

Garth’s project about designing in open source projects.

• [The Nightscout Project We Are Not Waiting]12

An amazing volunteer-driven open source project for accessing data from blood sugar monitors.

• nightscout on GitHub

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