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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich

How to Do It with Stoya and Rich

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For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it.
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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - My Husband Tried Something “New” With His Penis. I’m Dying.
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01/02/22 • 17 min

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a letter writer who’s been traumatized by her husband’s new “look.” Then they hear from a letter writer who wants to bring spanking outside of the bedroom.

Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $1.

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Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - What Happens After I Fight With My Girlfriend Is … Worrisome
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11/21/21 • 27 min

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s getting highly aroused at an inopportune time with his girlfriend. Then they hear from a letter writer who wonders what to do about her husband’s strange penis.

Mentioned in the episode:

Sexual interest as performance, intellect and pathology: A critical discursive case study of dacryphilia

The Little Death (2014)

Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $1 for your first month.

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Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - I Saw What My Husband Is Secretly Doing on His Computer
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10/31/21 • 18 min

This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter about a woman who has noticed her husband’s peculiar secret habit on his computer. Then they advise a woman who wants to know when is the right time to disclose her sexual history and preferences.

Mentioned in this episode:

Why Do People Watch Porn When They’re Not Masturbating,” Mel Magazine.

Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now and get $25 off your first year. This special offer is only available until Oct. 31.

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Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - I Thought I Was Pro-Sex Work

I Thought I Was Pro-Sex Work

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09/26/21 • 18 min

This week, Stoya and Rich answer letters from a woman who thought she was pro-sex work—until her friends started doing it. They also discuss another letter from a woman who is worried about what her boyfriend can’t seem to pull off during sex.

Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus for just $1 for your first month.

Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, this is anonymous, and nothing is too small or embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - What I Just Caught My Wife Doing

What I Just Caught My Wife Doing

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09/20/21 • 11 min

For launch week only, this Slate Plus episode of How to Do It is free to everyone. Sign up for Slate Plus now so you don’t miss out next Monday.

On this week’s second episode, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man who caught his wife in a compromising position while his friend was visiting.

Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, this is anonymous, and nothing is too small or embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - Introducing: How to Do It

Introducing: How to Do It

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09/10/21 • 0 min

A sex advice podcast from Slate, coming 9/19.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t Say the One Thing I Want.
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03/27/22 • 27 min

This week, Stoya and Rich advise a letter writer whose partner isn’t saying the right things, and they discuss a letter from a woman who can’t bear to touch herself.

Mentioned in this episode:

My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend

My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend

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03/20/22 • 13 min

Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a woman whose experiment with “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t going the way she expected.

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Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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How to Do It with Stoya and Rich - No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Suddenly a Hot Guy
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03/13/22 • 15 min

This week, Stoya and Rich discuss a letter from a man whose attractiveness is getting in the way of his life and work.

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Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a man who’s just made a new sexual discovery about himself. Then they hear from a woman who’s feeling judged for her boundaries.

Guest: Ryan Scoats

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‘I don’t mind watching him cum’: Heterosexual men, threesomes, and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality.

Understanding Threesomes by Ryan Scoats

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Slate Plus members get another episode of the How to Do It podcast every Monday. Sign up for Slate Plus now for just $1.

Read the How to Do It column on Slate here. If you’re in need of sex advice from Stoya and Rich, write in here or leave a voicemail at ‪(347) 640-4025 and we may use it on the show. Remember, it’s anonymous—and nothing is too embarrassing!

Production by Chau Tu.

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FAQ

How many episodes does How to Do It with Stoya and Rich have?

How to Do It with Stoya and Rich currently has 30 episodes available.

What topics does How to Do It with Stoya and Rich cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Podcasts, Relationships and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on How to Do It with Stoya and Rich?

The episode title 'My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on How to Do It with Stoya and Rich?

The average episode length on How to Do It with Stoya and Rich is 22 minutes.

How often are episodes of How to Do It with Stoya and Rich released?

Episodes of How to Do It with Stoya and Rich are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of How to Do It with Stoya and Rich?

The first episode of How to Do It with Stoya and Rich was released on Sep 10, 2021.

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