How Stories Happen
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“The only way to figure out a story is to tell it” | Andrew Davis, Keynote Speaker
How Stories Happen
04/29/24 • 47 min
I know a ton of storytellers and creators and entrepreneurs, but I know exactly zero other people who have learned how to do what they do from both legendary news broadcasters and Kermit the Frog.
Meet Andrew Davis. He is a powerhouse business speaker who’s given speeches in 35 different countries, at more than 50 events every year. He speaks to audiences ranging from marketers and entrepreneurs to plumbers and physicians — and there may not be a storyteller who is this craft-driven and obsessed with telling amazing stories in the worlds of business, marketing, and customer experience.
Andrew hosts a popular video series called the Loyalty Loop on YouTube, and he’s had a long career crafting stories of all kinds, including jobs as a producer for NBC and a writer for the news legend Charles Kuralt.
As an entrepreneur, Andrew has built and sold a marketing agency, produced docuseries for brand clients big and small, and authored multiple books about marketing and customer experience.
In this episode, we dissect one of his signature stories. It's been with him for almost ten years, and he can customize it across audiences and projects to arrive at basically any insight he needs to teach. It’s a rare look at how a true master of the craft executes the tiny things that create a big impact both for his audience and his business.
Jump into the conversation:
(06:27) Meet Andrew
(14:18) Andrew’s Story
(22:38) Dissecting the Story
(39:02) First, Last, Favorite
Bonus Video:
🎨 Watch a video animation of Andrew’s signature story:
https://jayacunzo.com/blog/how-stories-happen-episode-1-andrew-davis
Resources:
⚫ Follow Andrew: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drewdavishere/
⚫ Explore his speaking: https://www.akadrewdavis.com/
⚫ Watch the Loyalty Loop: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLeegDFQqmxjBUpr5FCHzlpsKVyeEmPuf3
🔵 Follow Jay: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Video animation by La Hacienda: https://www.lahacienda.media/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
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05/13/24 • 52 min
Our guest for this episode is rarely online. But when she is, she’s telling small stories with big meaning.
Meet Michelle Warner—she’s a business strategist and consultant who architects business models and marketing strategies for clients who sell high-priced services. She also hosts the podcast Sequence Over Strategy—an idea that represents her entire platform’s differentiated premise, and one the story she brings to us today reflects.
Michelle has founded multi-million dollar startups, raised capital the traditional way, and generally followed “the blueprint” for business growth before burning out and finding a new path forward. She is an independent consultant and educator who doesn’t need to rely on social media for growth.
What I admire about Michelle is that she’s designed her life and work in a certain way—she’s intentional, genuine, and carefully curates anything she elects to spend time on. These characteristics are reflected in her life, in her work, and in the way she tells stories.
In this episode, we dissect one of her signature stories she recently sent to her newsletter. It was well-received, but the ending needs work, and she recognizes there are some structural problems with the story. We work on that together to turn this into a signature story she can take with her everywhere, and we identify the job this story does for her audience and her business.
You’ll get a deep look at the small changes that you can make to a story to communicate with greater impact.
Jump into the conversation:
(03:39) Meet Michelle
(17:40) Michelle’s Story
(21:28) Dissecting the Story
(23:04) First, Last, Favorite
Resources:
⚫ Listen to Michelle’s podcast: https://www.themichellewarner.com/blog/sos001
⚫ Check out Michelle’s website: https://www.themichellewarner.com/
🔵 Follow Jay: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
06/10/24 • 35 min
The hardest question to answer when we show up publicly might be the simplest question we receive: “Tell me about yourself.” Who are you? How’d you get here? What’s your story?
We then face a choice: we can make the story about us, or we can make it about the thing we’re there to say. We can make our own stories about the audiences we wish to serve, and we can do so without feeling like we’re bragging and even without any newsworthy moments in our past.
Meet Rand Fishkin, cofounder and CEO of two companies (audience research platform SparkToro and indie video game maker Snackbar Studio). He’s an entrepreneur who’s navigated the roller-coaster of startup life, written an incredible book about it (Lost and Founder), and gone on the journey with hundreds of thousands of professionals following his every move. Rand has spoken at countless events, sharing his (often difficult) journey with audiences ranging from fresh-faced founders to seasoned veterans.
In this episode, Rand shares his personal story as he’d present it from the stage, illustrating for us the power of stories the more “strategic” thinkers among us might think unwise to share: stories of failure, struggle, and genuine emotional turmoil. You’ll hear the power of having an "enemy" to galvanize your cause and attract your tribe, and why sharing failures and other difficult experiences can forge stronger connections and teach more valuable lessons than sharing wins and case studies.
Rand’s style is a breath of fresh air in communities that rarely get so real, and it’s a big reason he resonates deeper than most.
Jump into the conversation:
(01:14) Meet Rand
(10:43) Rand’s Story
(18:46) Dissecting the Story
Resources:
⚫ Follow Rand on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/randfishkin/
⚫ Follow Rand on Threads: https://www.threads.net/@randderuiter
⚫ Visit SparkToro: https://sparktoro.com/
⚫ Visit Snackbar Studio: https://snackbarstudio.com/
🔵 Follow Jay: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
“Words can do WHAT?! Are we serious right now?!” | Tucker Bryant, Poet & Keynote Speaker
How Stories Happen
06/24/24 • 47 min
How do we craft a metaphor that works? More importantly, perhaps, how do we ensure the metaphors we use pivot to the audience to teach them something in their lives or work, without them getting lost? Do we overtly explain the lesson? Imply it? Some combination? It’s a delicate dance, and few do it like Tucker Bryant.
Tucker isn't just a keynote speaker; he's a poet who has taken the stage everywhere from corporate boardrooms to major conferences, importing what he knows from the world of verse to the world of business innovation. After working at Google, Tucker transformed his own unique perspective and skill as a poet into keynotes that grip audiences by the thousands, leaving lasting impressions on everyone from marketers to HR pros to C-suite executives.
In this episode, we dive into Tucker's signature story about a young poet named Robert. We find a macro-level shape to the metaphor and apply it back in the audience’s more literal world, before re-working some of the story to add some drama, tension, and lessons — all to make Tucker’s message feel inescapable and irresistible to audiences. We talk pacing, pivoting, and probably a third-P (and why lists of three really matter when we list examples.) (For real, that’s in there.)
Whether you're looking to deliver a powerful speech, tighten your brand's message, or inspire action in your next conversation or piece of content, this episode is for you.
Resources:
⚫ Follow Tucker on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tuckerbryant/
⚫ Tucker’s site: https://www.tuckerbryantspeaks.com/
🔵 Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
07/08/24 • 53 min
While everyone scrambles to learn the new trends and act like a futurist, it’s the folks who understand what parts of this work are timeless – because they’re based on human nature – that are most powerful of all.
Storytelling is one such thing. It’s been a constant throughout the history of humanity. Why? Because although the world changes in many ways, human nature is one thing that doesn’t change much at all.
So says our guest today, Scott Monty, and it’s part of what makes Scott such an inspiring storyteller – and a leadership advisor, consultant, and coach who has worked for and with brands like Ford, Google, IBM, Adobe, and Walmart. In fact, thanks to his work helping pioneer all things social media at Ford Motor Company, The Economist named Scott #1 on its list of social business leaders.
In this episode, we hear Scott dissect a signature story piece by piece, taking us into the executive team meeting from his time at Ford and how storytelling helped him thwart – then win over – his archnemesis, the curmudgeonly CFO at the time.
After hearing the story, we identify the three tentpoles that help it stand up, plus identify details that could improve – and we hear why the moments that don’t seem to advance the action are actually the most important pieces for this story to resonate deeper.
Scott’s brand is about the idea of timeless leadership – and he effortlessly quotes philosophers and leaders from centuries past to help make his points, both on the show and everywhere he shows up.
Resources:
⚫ Follow Scott on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scottmonty/
⚫ Subscribe to Scott’s newsletter, Timeless & Timely: https://www.timelesstimely.com/
🔵 Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
“You have to work against people assuming they know how this goes” | Danielle Bayard Jackson, Author of Fighting for Our Friendships
How Stories Happen
07/22/24 • 50 min
How do we compress our lifetime into their runtime? When we’re asked to explain our backgrounds and bios, we need a structure, some practice, and a few anecdotes at the ready. Because our story has to pull triple-duty: clarify who we are, build credibility, and teach whatever it is we’re there to teach.
In this episode, author, PR agency founder, and friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson reveals the simple way she responds to that simple question: “How’d you get here?” Together, we break it apart into component pieces and re-build certain aspects, spotting ways to customize the story to the specific audiences Danielle speaks to as a speaker and service provider.
You’ll walk away with a new framework for crafting your own gripping answer to the personal background question (“MBAS” – Mission, Background, Anecdote, Summary), and you’ll get a glimpse into the craft of two communicators reaching geeky levels of appreciation for what it takes to resonate with our words.
Danielle is the author of the new book, Fighting for Our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships.
Resources:
⚫ Follow Danielle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniellebayardjackson/
⚫ Follow Danielle on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefriendshipexpert
⚫ Visit Danielle’s website: https://www.daniellebayardjackson.com/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/
🔵 Join the Creator Kitchen membership for storytellers: https://creatorkitchen.com/
🔵 Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Follow Jay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacunzo/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
To tell stronger stories, understand yourself first | Ryan Hawk & Brook Cups, Coauthors of The Score That Matters
How Stories Happen
08/05/24 • 42 min
Storytellers often face a paradox: to connect deeper externally, you have to turn deeper internally. You have to know yourself and get more honest with how you think and feel than others might be comfortable doing themselves. That often means we have to stop caring what people think of us quite as much.
In this episode, we meet Brook Cupps and Ryan Hawk, coauthors of the book The Score That Matters. We talk about how they collaborated on their book together and how they use stories to inspire and lead others. Brook is the head boys basketball coach at Centerville High School in Ohio, while Ryan hosts the popular podcast, The Learning Leader Show.
What makes their partnership one of a kind—and what you'll hear in this episode—is the blend of practical coaching wisdom, deeply personal ideas, and storytelling finesse.
The story we dissect comes from Brook, who shares how he transformed his coaching approach after a pivotal moment with his daughter, which shifted his entire philosophy. Ryan chimes in with insights from his own journey, emphasizing the importance of inner growth, values, and deliberate practice.
It's a refreshing look at storytelling and the tough things we need to embrace first, which then allow us to become more effective communicators and leaders.
BONUS: Hear Jay and Ryan on Ryan's podcast, discussing the art and science of hosting great interviews: https://learningleader.com/episode/330-deconstructing-the-art-science-of-interviewing-with-jay-acunzo/
⚫ Check out Ryan Hawk’s podcast, The Learning Leader Show: https://learningleader.com/
⚫ Learn more about Brook Cupps and Blue Collar Grit: https://www.bluecollargrit.com/about-us.html
⚫ Get Ryan and Brook's book, The Score That Matters: https://www.amazon.com/Score-That-Matters-Excellence-Yourself-ebook/dp/B0CGZ8HRXD
🔵 Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
What it takes to craft a signature story | Susan Boles, CFO, Business Strategist & Podcaster
How Stories Happen
08/19/24 • 53 min
What should you include or omit to ensure your stories carry your message, resonate with others, and deliver something that could only come from you? That’s the challenge we encounter today.
In this special episode, Jay is joined by a favorite client, Susan Boles, to work through a draft of a signature story, which emerged on the back of their months-long work together developing Susan’s premise of “calm is the new KPI.” They apply Jay’s Align-Agitate-Assert structure, and they find the two biggest opportunities to improve the story.
Susan is the founder of Beyond Margins and host of the podcast of the same name. She teaches entrepreneur clients how to optimize their business for quality of life, not just profit margin, by making calm their focus and their literal KPI.
In the episode, Jay and Susan dissect her emerging, signature story involving Rand Fishkin, founder and CEO of SparkToro and, previously, founder and CEO of Moz. When one piece of the story runs too long, Jay shares some pointers for how to shorten it without sacrificing the story’s power, and the duo figure out what insights can be extracted and delivered from the story to teach and inspire Susan’s audience.
Whether you’re crafting your next keynote or fine-tuning your leadership communication skills, this episode will have you immediately elevating your storytelling in ways that illuminate insights others remember, share, and apply to their work or lives.
Resources:
⚫ Follow Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thesusanboles
⚫ Listen to Beyond Margins: https://podcast.beyondmargins.com/
⚫ Subscribe to Beyond Margins Newsletter: https://beyondmargins.ck.page/21380f9bae
🔵 Work with Jay to develop and differentiate your IP and stories: https://jayacunzo.com/
🔵Join his Creator Kitchen membership: https://creatorkitchen.com/
🔵 Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Follow Jay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacunzo/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
Is This Anything? with Simone Stolzoff, Author & Designer
How Stories Happen
08/26/24 • 56 min
You know how a comedian will test out new material, and turn to their colleagues and ask, “Is this anything?”
Welcome to a new bonus episode series—aptly named just that (Is This Anything), that will run on our off weeks from the traditional show, where a guest and I will take their ideas, put it under a storytelling microscope, and find out if these ideas have legs. So what do you get? A front row seat on how the pro’s develop and evolve their stories.
So for this episode, meet my friend, Simone Stolzoff. Simone is a unique voice in the intersection of journalism and design, and he’s has been invited to speak at conferences like TED, where he tackles the big questions around work-life balance and identity with practical, actionable insights.
In this episode, Simone and I dive deep into the art of balancing multiple professional identities and how this balance can transform the way you tell stories. We explore the importance of focusing on small details and individual experiences rather than macro explanations, providing a more relatable and engaging narrative.
Resources:
⚫Follow Simo & check out his work here: https://www.simonestolzoff.com/
🔵 Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵 Subscribe to Jay’s newsletter: https://jayacunzo.com/newsletter
🔵 Learn about Jay’s coaching and consulting: https://jayacunzo.com/
🔵Work with Jay to develop and differentiate your IP and stories: https://jayacunzo.com/
🔵Join his Creator Kitchen membership: https://creatorkitchen.com/
🔵Follow Jay on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayacunzo/
🔵Follow Jay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacunzo/
🟢 Created in partnership with Share Your Genius: https://shareyourgenius.com/
🟢 Cover art designed by Blake Ink: https://www.blakeink.com/
🟢 Find and support our sponsors: https://jayacunzo.com/sponsors
Seth Godin Dissects a Signature Story
How Stories Happen
10/21/24 • 43 min
Today, it's a total treat as the one and only Seth Godin takes us into how he thinks about storytelling and the intersection of strategy and story, and then we hear him dissect a signature story. Plus, Seth and I trade stories in the back half of the episode—business storytelling nerdery on full display.
Seth is a world-renowned storyteller and thought leader, a legendary keynote speaker who helped disrupt the format, and the bestselling author of more than 20 books, including Purple Cow, The Practice, and This Is Marketing. His brand new book, This is Strategy, is available now.
Together, Seth and I discuss his delightful story about recumbent bikes. This "super-story" has found its way into Seth’s work repeatedly for over a decade. We discuss the evolution of this story, how he conceptualizes status and affiliation, and why focusing on pedagogy as a storyteller is essential.
Also in the episode: why the idea of your posture matters for storytellers, the role of the storyteller today (and why tiny stories make a big impact), and how can you make yourself, your work, and your stories truly stand out.
RESOURCES:
Learn more about Seth at his website and read his blog
Buy a copy of Seth's new book, This Is Strategy
Subscribe to Jay's newsletter at jayacunzo.com
Join Jay's membership program for business storytellers and service providers, the Creator Kitchen
Follow Jay on LinkedIn, Instagram, or Threads
Produced by Ilana Nevins
Cover art designed by Blake Ink
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ABOUT JAY:
Jay Acunzo is an author, speaker, and differentiation-and-thought leadership consultant on a mission to help you make what matters to your career, company, and community. He's an advisor to experts, execs, and entrepreneurs who want to resonate deeper with others, not just reach them. To do so, he helps you turn your expertise into IP and your IP into differentiated messaging, exceptional speeches, and celebrated creative projects, equipping you with the communication techniques and power of today’s top thought leaders—because he believes in standing out through substance and stories, not hollow hype.
A leading voice in B2B content marketing for many years thanks to his roles at brands like Google and HubSpot, companies like Mailchimp, Salesforce, Wistia, and GoDaddy have turned to Jay to strengthen their storytelling, while dozens of individual authors, speakers, consultants, and service providers hire Jay as their dedicated thought partner and exec. producer to help develop their premise, IP, speaking, and shows.
Jay lives in the Boston area with his family as a proud Yankees and Knicks fan. In the 60 seconds per week he's not creating stuff for work or making his kids laugh, he likes to shoot hoops, sip nice bourbons, cook with his wife, and daydream about telling stories like that of his storytelling hero, Anthony Bourdain.
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FAQ
How many episodes does How Stories Happen have?
How Stories Happen currently has 19 episodes available.
What topics does How Stories Happen cover?
The podcast is about Marketing, Content Marketing, Entrepreneurship, Creativity, Storytelling, Podcasts and Business.
What is the most popular episode on How Stories Happen?
The episode title '“The only way to figure out a story is to tell it” | Andrew Davis, Keynote Speaker' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on How Stories Happen?
The average episode length on How Stories Happen is 43 minutes.
How often are episodes of How Stories Happen released?
Episodes of How Stories Happen are typically released every 13 days, 20 hours.
When was the first episode of How Stories Happen?
The first episode of How Stories Happen was released on Mar 18, 2024.
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