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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear

How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear

Morgan Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport

The only divorce podcast that's one part family law attorney and one part recovering comedian. We are dedicated to bringing you action steps, empathy, and a healthy side of snark. Morgan Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport bring you divorce content that's resourceful, entertaining, packed with ACTION STEPS from EXPERTS, and most importantly, help listeners feel less alone. You'll get through this. We promise. You've got this..and we've got you. **Do not listen to this show if you don't have a sense of humor.

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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 75. How Not to Suck at Refinancing Your Home with Sam Sharp

75. How Not to Suck at Refinancing Your Home with Sam Sharp

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08/10/23 • 66 min

It's our freaking 75th episode!!!

So let's talk about mortgages, baby!

We've got Sam Sharp, celebrity mortgage broker, here to give you insider information on interest rates, credit scores..and everything you need to know regarding refinancing or getting a brand new mortgage.

So if you're wondering why interest are so damn high right now, this episode is for YOU!

How important is your credit score?? Well, no shocker that it's VERY important. Make sure you listen to this episode to learn what you can do to improve your score.

(and did you know that a credit score for a mortgage is different from a regular credit score??)

Listen to the experts, don't DIY this stuff!

All of our US listeners are welcome to reach out Sam, you can find him here:

http://www.samsharp.com

http://www.instagram.com/samsharp_guaranteedrate

Meanwhile, Andrea is OVER her fatass, her words!! But what's with our butts growing with age??? Jeez, like we don't have enough problems!!

And now, a word from our sponsor:

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Join our private communites!

To listen to our episodes without having them downloaded to your device, head over to patreon!

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And come hang out with us in our free Facebook community! Get more knowledge, more insight and more laughs

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 68. Is It My Marriage That's Making Me Miserable? *Special Re-Air* With Dr Randy Heller

68. Is It My Marriage That's Making Me Miserable? *Special Re-Air* With Dr Randy Heller

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06/08/23 • 43 min

You have a horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach, but where is it coming from?

Is it work? Friends? Kids? or is it your marriage??

DON'T BLAME YOURSELF!! Listen to this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce if you're feeling miserable or just unhappy in your daily life to learn where it could be possibly be coming from.

Listener fave Dr. Randy Heller is back with us today to discuss one of the most common questions we get: Is it my marriage that's making me miserable?

Dr. Heller shares what people should do if they're feeling depressed, stressed and overwhelmed and an easy exercise to do to determine if it's the marriage that is the root of the problem.

We also talk about how to start to feel better, regardless of the decision we make in our marriage.

You can find Dr. Randy Heller here:

[email protected]

646-717-6718

mycollaborativeteam.com

No matter what you decide, you got this and we got you.

We love hearing from you so don't be shy. Message us on IG and join our private community!

http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 85. Your Divorce Doesn't Have to Ruin You Financially (Expert Tips from Advisor, Jennifer Lee)
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10/20/23 • 39 min

If you feel overwhelmed by money, this episode is for YOU. Financial advisor and author of Squeeze the Juice, Jennifer Lee, spends times with us to day to give our listeners some expert tips so that their divorce doesn't ruin them financially.

Here are some tips that can help you with getting a hold of your money:

1: Do a finanicial triage. (already overwhelmed???Jennifer is here to assist our listeners with this process)

2: Don't be an ostrich. (hiding your head in the sand will get you nowhere. Ask questions. Be brave and tell your attorney that you don't have all of the information they're asking you for. Bonus points if you're brave enough to contact Jennifer and ask a financial expert for help!!)

3: Don't give up on your money situation EVEN IF you made financial mistakes during your divorce process. Educate yourself and take BABY STEPS. Get curious about how you can improve your situation.

Jennifer's book, Squeeze the Juice, is a FABULOUS place to start educating yourself. This book is story based, so it helps readers wrap their arms around the lessons.

Get it here: Squeeze the Juice

Do NOT JUDGE YOURSELF for not knowing EVERYTHING (or anything) about your finances. Just ask for help. Don't leave money on the table.

Our listeners can do a FREE 15 call with Jennifer to see if can help you!

https://calendly.com/Jennifermodernwealth

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 30. Is It My Marriage That's Making Me Miserable? with Dr. Randy Heller

30. Is It My Marriage That's Making Me Miserable? with Dr. Randy Heller

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08/25/22 • 46 min

Listener fave Dr. Randy Heller is back with us today to discuss one of the most common questions we get: Is it my marriage that's making me miserable?

Dr. Heller shares what people should do if they're feeling depressed, stressed and overwhelmed and an easy exercise to do to determine if it's the marriage that is the root of the problem.

We also talk about how to start to feel better, regardless of the decision we make in our marriage.

You can find Dr. Randy Heller here:

[email protected]

646-717-6718

mycollaborativeteam.com

No matter what you decide, you got this and we got you.

We love hearing from you so don't be shy. Slide into our dms:

@theandrearappaport

@divorceattorneychicago

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 66. What You Need To Know If You Plan on NOT Getting Remarried.  With Attorney, Susan Myres
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05/25/23 • 50 min

There's a growing trend to share your life with someone and NOT get legally married...which sounds great, right?!?

No marriage = no divorce...so what could be bad??

Well, there's some things to consider...and on this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce we are chatting with Houston area attorney, Susan Myres, who's shedding light on the perils of playing house.

So, if you're considering NOT getting remarried because, well, divorce SUCKS, we totally get it, but please listen to this episode FIRST so you're well aware of the pros and cons.

Things to consider: Tax benefits, medical rights, survior rights, pre marriage assets, just to name a few!!

There are many, many ways to live a happy and healthy life with your partner, just be aware of your rights!

Susan is availabe at https://www.thehoustondivorcefirm.com/our-team/susan-myres/

To join our private community, visit: http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity

And to listen to our episodes privately, visit: http://www.patreon.com/hownottosuckatdivorce.com

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 48. I Think I Want a Divorce

48. I Think I Want a Divorce

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12/30/22 • 29 min

We know that you're tired of pretending that everything is okay.

We know that your gut that your marriage is not going to work. So, now what?

If you have wondered:

"What do I do if I think I want a divorce?" - this episode is for you.

If you're considering divorce but don't know where to begin, this episode is for you.

If you're just miserable in your marraige, but feel stuck, this episode is for you.

This podcast was designed to give you information, entertainment and empathy as you embark on the divorce process.

We know that divorce is hard. We know that it's a long and draining process. We also know that life is so much better on the other side.

Don't give up. Everyone deserves to be happy.

You've got this and we've got you.

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 76. Your Burning Divorce Questions: Answered!

76. Your Burning Divorce Questions: Answered!

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08/17/23 • 49 min

You've got questions and we've (err, Morgan) has answers!

We're covering supervised visits, attorneys not prioizing your case, nesting, mediation, and how to talk to your kids, and feeling like an a$$hole for wanting to leave an unhappy marriage but not neccassrily a "bad" marriage...

To recap one of the most common questions, which has to do with wanting a clear game plan from your attorney, follow these steps:

1) Ask your attorney for a face to face or at least a phone call to discuss the PLAN

2) At the end of the meeting, ask for a recap with next steps3) Ask for a realistic timeline and the areas where waiting for a court date/hearing back from opposing counsel could play a role into said timeline

4)Ask when you should follow up

So if you've wondered "am I terrible person for wanting a divorce?" or "how can I make sure my ex doesn't get unsupervised visits with my kids?" Or if you've googled, "How can I get my divorce attorney to care about my case?" or "Should I try nesting?" then you want to listen to this episode.

And remember this, whereas it's not criminal to be unhappy in your marriage, it IS criminal to REMAIN unhappy in your marriage. Look at your feelings. Look at your thoughts. Explore those. Talk to your partner, go to therapy and WORK towards happiness, whether that's getting a divorce or not.

And now, a word from our sponsors:

Soberlink is here to help coparents who are struggling with an alcohol dependence. It's a discreet device that can ensure that you are parenting safely. Vist:soberlink.com/notsuck

And Our Family Wizard is a revolutionary coparenting app that's dedicated to making coparenting easier, no matter how hard your ex SUCKS. Visit: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com

And join our private communites! http://www.patreon.com/hownottosuckatdivorce.com to listen to our episodes without it being downloaded to your device and http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity for support and laughs!

You've got this and we've got YOU.

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 74. The 5 Worst Mistakes I Made in my Divorce with Andrea Rappaport

74. The 5 Worst Mistakes I Made in my Divorce with Andrea Rappaport

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08/04/23 • 48 min

Well, here the F we go.

The 5 biggest mistakes I (Andrea) made during my divorce.

Mistake #1: Marrying the wrong person. Ignoring ALL of the red flags. Ignoring my gut. HUGE mistake.

Mistake #2: Not having the right tools to think LOGICALLY, therefore functioning from a sheer emotional place

Mistake #3: Hiring the wrong attorney for my case

Mistake #4: Signing a parenting agreement without consulting a child therapist

Mistake #5: Not having realistic expectations

This is a big episode. As uncomfortable as it is to be this vulnerable, it's more important that everyone know the mistakes that are SO easy to make that can cost you money, time with your kids, and a lot of mental sanity.

One mistake that I DIDN'T make was recogizing that my mental health was suffering towards the end of the divorce and that the "juice wasn't with the squeeze" on several issues...walking away and being done CAN be right decision for many in the divorce process. However, you ALWAYS want to follow the guidance of your attorney.

Which is why ALL ROADS LEAD BACK TO HIRING THE RIGHT ATTORNEY FOR YOUR CASE!

Don't forget, the first person to DM us from this episode gets a homemade chocolate chip banana bread (Morgan's fav) shipped right to their door!! (US and Canada listeners only!...sorry to our 1 listener in Honduras, but we still love you)

Lean on us. We're here to get you through this mess. And so are our sponsors.

Need help with alcohol monitoring during parenting time? Soberlink has your back.

http://www.soberlink.com/notsuck

Want to make coparenting a whole lot easier? Check out Our Family Wizard.

http://www.ourfamilywizard.com

Join our private communites. If you need to listen to our episodes WITHOUT them being uploaded to your familes' icloud, join our Patreon community for private listening AND bonus episodes.

http://www.patreon.com/hownottosuckatdivorce.com

And please join our free support group!

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We love you guys! See you next week.

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 121. DO NOT Fall for These Common Divorce Misconceptions!

121. DO NOT Fall for These Common Divorce Misconceptions!

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09/06/24 • 40 min

We're baaaack! And today we're talking about common divorce myths and you know how we do- we're providing practical advice for navigating high-conflict separations. The episode addresses misconceptions about co-parenting, alimony, legal advantages for moms, and the impact of infidelity. We also examine the realistic limitations of court intervention in cases of emotional abuse and share personal success stories to inspire hope for post-divorce happiness.

Join our private Facebook community!

Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantastic resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck

Friends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.

Instagram: @hownotosuckatdivorce

Follow Andrea: @theandrearappaport

Follow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicago

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How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear - 3. Moving Out

3. Moving Out

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07/28/21 • 33 min

On today's episode we're talking about moving out. This part of the process isn't easy but we're here to help you through it. We discuss how to handle this moment with children, if you should hire a divorce coach, therapist or mediator and the difference between the three and the role the attorney plays. We also talk about the differences between low conflict and high conflict divorces when it comes to this decision. People typically don't talk about all the nuances that go into moving out of the shared home. That's why we're here.

We would love it if you followed, rated and reviewed our show on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen.

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The average episode length on How Not To Suck At Divorce: Divorce Advice You Need To Hear is 49 minutes.

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