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How C*m

How C*m

Remy Kassimir

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its 5th season How C*m has helped thousands of Cumpanions have their first O's, hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!

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How C*m - 45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)
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03/31/24 • 73 min

It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* -- with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned.

*Married people can still play, duh

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How C*m - 22 Made In Manhattan (Alik Alfus)
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07/22/18 • 45 min

Alik Alfus, one of the stars of British reality show Made in Chelsea, (and childhood friend of mine!) joins me and Charlotte to talk about growing up in New York City, falling in (and out) of love while being in the public eye, first loves, and Alik's first blowjob (a LEGENDARY tale in NYC). I also have a breakthrough in self realization and we do some expert sound effects with our mouths.

If you went to high school with us-- don't worry, all names are BLEEPED but you'll know exactly who we're talking about.

Except Gunnar. Hi Gunnar!

CW: gendered language

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@howcumpodcast @remykassimir @al_alfus @charkasstic

Extras on Patreon.com/HowCum

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How C*m - 13 Fuck Boy Tendencies (Lev Fer)
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03/31/19 • 56 min

We are gearing up for our FIRST LIVE SHOW and couldn't be more excited. Buy your tickets, use promo code "How Cum" and we will see you on April 25th in NYC for a night of PURE JOY!

But until then, enjoy this awesome episode with comedian & host of the "Yung Daddy" podcast; Lev Fer! We attempt to define what a "fuck boy" is, and how it compares to a "slut." We cover how Lev deals with receiving overwhelming amounts of nudes, talk about different butthole colors, discover a new dating term called “mosting”, and ponder about losing weight & losing boners.

We also chat body issues, grooming, and why McDonald's is so very important.

Follow Lev @LevFer and us @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir and @Charkasstic

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COME TO OUR FIRST LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets.

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Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

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We are STILL in LA for this episode and I had the PLEASURE of having my long time friend (and person who I stay with in LA) Tim on who HATES this podcast!! WHAT?! I know.

Conversely we have the biggest fan of the podcast on this episode too! Mark Harley is a comedian & actor from BET's 50 Central who has been a Cummer from day 1 (That's what I'm calling you guys, get used to it.) We talk about how gay frats are, putting stuff up our butts, and peeing on people.

We also have the wonderful bi-coastal beauty Kelsey Cook on, hilarious comedian featured on The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon who hosts her own amazing pod The Self Helpless Podcast.

CW: Transphobia, queer slurs, gendered language, fatphobia, an offensive name of a porn actor

Assignment: Bite a dick (responsibly)

follow us! @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @kelseycookcomedy @hellamarkharley

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A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy!

CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault

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How C*m - 21 Mr. Angel (Buck Angel)
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05/26/19 • 73 min

Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte’s 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait. Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel. This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN’s Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts.

We discuss so many aspects of the trans male experience and dive into Buck’s past and personal experiences; undergoing top surgery at a time where it was not common, a messy divorce with a woman who challenged his gender identity, and Buck’s childhood relationship with his dad and how it has grown. We discuss if changes in gender affect changes in sexuality, what “binders” and “pack-and-pees” are and if they are safe to use, the safety of different medical sex-change procedures, how to hook up with a trans man, dealing with periods as a trans man, and so much more.

Buck preaches loving yourself and has created an amazing brand of sex toys and a dating website buckangeldating.com, all with trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people in mind. We talk pussy power and a crazy story about Buck’s appearance on The Tyra Banks Show. And of course, Buck shares his first time cumming and squirting stories - it’s a blast.

Trigger warning: mutilation, rape, and abuse are all mentioned during this episode

Click to watch Buck’s films: Sexing the Trans Man, Conversations with Transmen, & Mr. Angel Click to see Buck’s TMZ appearances

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Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Buck @BuckAngel

This episode has 30 MINUTES of EXTRAS available on Patreon.com/HowCum

Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways:

1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast!

2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners!

3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social:

Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast

Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

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How C*m - 21 Good Trouble (Michelle Hope)
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08/17/20 • 76 min

We are talking to Sexologist and Activist Michelle Hope about what it means to get into "good trouble." We discuss protesting, actionable items for allies, understanding generational trauma, and the importance of voting from the bottom.

Michelle teaches us about body autonomy, a terrifying history of the US using BIPOC women's bodies to develop birth control and medical tools, the complexities of drinking and consent, and feminism vs. intersectional feminism.

We also hear about how working in a strip club shaped Michelle's views of female sexuality and talk about the ways in which she has healed from physical and emotional trauma.

Trigger Warning: r*pe and racial slurs

Follow Michelle @MHsexpert

Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, Remy @RemyKassimirSign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum

Check out our website for live shows & NEW merch

*This week please DONATE to Beirut charities after their tragic explosion

Homework from the episode-- check out:

Eloquent Rage by Brittany Cooper

White fragility- Robin DiAngelo

"Misogynoir"- Kimberly Crenshaw

The Girls Guide to Sex Education

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

White fragility

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This week Remy is joined by some members of the extremely international How Cum team, Robyn Kennedy and Gavriel! We're getting to know the team and answering YOUR submitted Cumpanion questions! Gavriel is a sexual wellness coach and our new producer bringing you research cumming all the way Israel. Robyn, our social media maven cums to us from New Zealand and offers amazing insight that only our resident Gen-z Kiwi could! We’re talking everything from mismatched libidos, the difference between coercion and consent, deep-throating techniques for those who want to do it, what to do when your jaw hurts, dating while asexual, and finally Remy’s Ultimate Guide to going down on a vulva. You DON'T want to miss this one.

Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, Remy at @RemyKassimir, Robyn at @RobynKennnedy

Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum

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Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award.

We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- an all-consuming and unreciprocated crush -- and break down where limerence comes from, how to become less limerent, and the differences between limerence and love.

Rachel also opens up about her sexual health, from educating herself as a child, to current changes in her vulva post-pregnancy, attending pelvic floor therapy, a new diagnosis about her cl*t, and what she's planning to do about it!

If you liked this episode -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

For more on limerence visit The Attachment Project and take the quiz we were talking about HERE

Follow Rachel @RachelDoesStuff

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FAQ

How many episodes does How C*m have?

How C*m currently has 204 episodes available.

What topics does How C*m cover?

The podcast is about Learning, Health & Fitness, Sex, Funny, Fun, Humor, Comedy, Podcasts, Education and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on How C*m?

The episode title '45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on How C*m?

The average episode length on How C*m is 69 minutes.

How often are episodes of How C*m released?

Episodes of How C*m are typically released every 7 days, 2 hours.

When was the first episode of How C*m?

The first episode of How C*m was released on Dec 24, 2017.

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