The Legacy of Mordechai – Parenting Through Purim and Ki Tisa

03/09/25 • 25 min

In this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman uncovers the deep connection between Purim and Parshat Ki Tisa, revealing timeless lessons on parenting and personal growth. Exploring the Tikunei Zohar’s teaching that Yom Kippur is merely like Purim, we delve into the transformative power of embracing our past while shaping a better future. Through the symbolism of Mordechai, the ketoret (incense offering), and the concept of teshuva, Rabbi Shifman illustrates how parents can foster resilience, patience, and understanding in their children—recognizing that every child has the potential for greatness, no matter their origins. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on raising children with faith, perspective, and unwavering support.

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The Power of Validation in Parenting – Parshat Tetzaveh & Purim

In this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman uncovers a profound parenting lesson from Parshat Tetzaveh and its unexpected connection to Purim. Through the inauguration of the Kohanim and the historical downfall of Haman, we explore the critical role of validation in shaping confident children and strong relationships. Why was Moshe’s name missing from this Parsha? What can Aaron’s response to personal tragedy teach us about emotional resilience? And how do we ensure our children seek validation from the right sources? Tune in to discover how true happiness and self-worth are built—not through material gain, but through the powerful gift of recognition and support.

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Strength in Identity – Lessons from Parshas Vayakhel

In this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores the Torah’s timeless wisdom on family dynamics, gender roles, and the power of identity within the home. Drawing from Parshas Vayakhel, he examines the deeper meaning behind the copper mirrors donated by the Jewish women for the Mishkan and how they played a crucial role in preserving Jewish continuity in Mitzrayim.

What can these mirrors teach us about modern parenting and marriage? How do we navigate evolving societal roles while maintaining harmony in our relationships? With a blend of Torah insight, history, and practical wisdom, Rabbi Shifman delves into the delicate balance of respect, affirmation, and the strength of building up one another in marriage and family life.

Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how understanding our roles—both in Torah and in today’s world—can create stronger homes and raise confident, connected children.