
GR 32 Eric Kearsley talks about Gay Married Men
01/06/20 • 38 min
In this episode we talk with retired Navy captain Eric Kearsley about his personal journey and the unique way he and his wife dealt with the fact that he is gay. Even though Kearsley "came out" publicly 15 years ago, he remains in a committed relationship with his wife. His story is an important reminder that there is no "one size fits all" way to come out LGBT+ Later in Life.
Helpful Links:
- GAMMA: a website for gay/bi married men
- Husbands Out to Wives
- Making Mixed Orientation Marriages Work
- Lancaster LGBTQ+ Coalition
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- Send email to [email protected] or post voice feedback at http://speakpipe.com/docartemis.
- You can now support Graying Rainbows via Patreon at http://patreon.com/grayingrainbows
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- Please contact me if you are interested in sharing your story or you have suggestions for the show.
Connect on Social Media:
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- Facebook page: https://fb.me/grayingrainbows
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In this episode we talk with retired Navy captain Eric Kearsley about his personal journey and the unique way he and his wife dealt with the fact that he is gay. Even though Kearsley "came out" publicly 15 years ago, he remains in a committed relationship with his wife. His story is an important reminder that there is no "one size fits all" way to come out LGBT+ Later in Life.
Helpful Links:
- GAMMA: a website for gay/bi married men
- Husbands Out to Wives
- Making Mixed Orientation Marriages Work
- Lancaster LGBTQ+ Coalition
Announcements:
- Please complete a brief audience survey.
- Send email to [email protected] or post voice feedback at http://speakpipe.com/docartemis.
- You can now support Graying Rainbows via Patreon at http://patreon.com/grayingrainbows
- To win an Amazon gift certificate: post a review of Graying Rainbows in Apple podcasts or your favorite app and send me a screenshot.
- Please contact me if you are interested in sharing your story or you have suggestions for the show.
Connect on Social Media:
- Twitter: @GrayingR
- Facebook page: https://fb.me/grayingrainbows
- Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/grayingrainbows
Previous Episode

GR 31 Kristin Kalbli from the Straight Spouse Network Podcast
This month we have an unusual guest, Kristin Kalbli from the Straight Spouse Network Podcast (now OurPath). Kristin shares her own personal story and introduces us to the Straight Spouse Network, which has actually existed for 30 years. Our conversation gave me an entirely new perspective. No matter where you are in your journey I know you will find this conversation enlightening.
Links and References:
- OutPath (formerly the Straight Spouse Network)
- Straight Spouse Network Voices Podcast
- The Lie: A Memoir of Two Marriages, Catfishing & Coming Out Hardcover by William Dameron
Announcements:
- Please complete a brief audience survey.
- Send email to [email protected] or post voice feedback at http://speakpipe.com/docartemis.
- You can now support Graying Rainbows via Patreon at http://patreon.com/grayingrainbows
- To win an Amazon gift certificate: post a review of Graying Rainbows in Apple podcasts or your favorite app and send me a screenshot.
- If you are interested in learning more about coaching please drop me an email.
Connect on Social Media:
- Twitter: @GrayingR
- Facebook page: https://fb.me/grayingrainbows
- Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/grayingrainbows
Next Episode

GR 33 Writer Ronni Sanlo shares her story
I discovered Ronni Sanlo through her long running blog series about LGBT history and I am excited to have her as a guest on Graying Rainbows. Ronni was one of many LGBT parents who lost custody of her children due to Anita Bryant's homophobic campaign in the late 1970's. She shares how her experience led her into activism and continues to influence her writing.
Links and References:
- RonniSanlo.com
- GR 14: Dr. Lillian Faderman discussed her biography of Harvey Milk. This includes a discussion of Milk's pivotal role in helping bring Anita Bryant's homophobic campaign to an end.
- Alternate Paths: a site for mixed orientation marriages
Announcements:
- Please complete a brief audience survey.
- Send email to [email protected] or post voice feedback at http://speakpipe.com/docartemis.
- You can now support Graying Rainbows via Patreon at http://patreon.com/grayingrainbows
- To win an Amazon gift certificate: post a review of Graying Rainbows in Apple podcasts or your favorite app and send me a screenshot.
- If you are interested in learning more about coaching please drop me an email.
Connect on Social Media:
- Twitter: @GrayingR
- Facebook page: https://fb.me/grayingrainbows
- Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/grayingrainbows
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