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Get Sex-Smart

Dr. Valeria Chuba, Clinical Sexologist, Sex & Relationship Coach

Are you looking to improve your sex life and relationships and explore your sexuality? With compassion and humor, Get Sex-Smart offers real, practical and positive information to help you reclaim your sexual pleasure and confidence. Hosted by Dr. Valeria Chuba, Clinical Sexologist and Sex & Relationship Coach.

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08/09/19 • 10 min

Get Sex-Smart is back! After a few months' hiatus, Valeria and Sarah have returned with a new format, new ideas, and new sex-smart episodes! Tune into this short announcement episode to hear why we took some time off, what we've been up to, and how Get Sex-Smart is changing - hopefully for the better. And make sure to tune in on August 15th when our new season will return full force!

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08/09/19 • 10 min

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03/07/19 • 79 min

Today, Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin are celebrating the past 99 episodes of Get Sex-Smart. In this more informal and intimate episode, we talk about how the show got started, what we love about it and maybe not so much, our favorite episodes, some personal stories - and a few rounds of a sex-themed game of "Would You Rather".

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03/07/19 • 79 min

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01/10/19 • 49 min

Get Sex-Smart is back after a holiday break! Today, Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin talk about five ways to spice up and add fun and new levels of pleasure and intimacy to a relationship that has gotten a bit predictable and stale. Ideas include touch games, playacting fantasy scenarios, and much more!

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01/10/19 • 49 min

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Recent studies show that there is a big orgasm gap between men in women: roughly 65% of heterosexual women orgasm in partner sex, compared to an overwhelming 95% of heterosexual men. What's really interesting though is that lesbian women's orgasm rates are very close to those of heterosexual men at 85%. On today's episode, Dr. Valeria and sex coach Sarah Martin talk about some of the reasons why orgasm rates are so much higher in lesbian women, and what contributes to their superior sexual satisfaction compared to heterosexual women.

EPISODE NOTES:

Guardian article, "Do Lesbians Have Better Sex Than Straight Women?" https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/jul/09/do-lesbians-have-better-sex-than-straight-women

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11/30/18 • 39 min

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Breakups are often painful, heartbreaking, and difficult to navigate. In this episode, Sarah Martin shares her recent personal experience of breakup and chats with Dr. Valeria about the newest science of breakups; why we are often so bad at breaking up; and what we can do to reduce the pain of ending our relationships.

EPISODE NOTES: Break up as a signifiant stress event, and "broken heart" syndrome: https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/can-you-die-broken-heart-science-proves-broken-heart-syndrome-ncna847831

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10/26/18 • 44 min

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In contrast to popular opinion, low libido and decreased sexual desire in men are actually very common. Many men struggle with the effects that loss of libido has on their self-esteem and relationships. In this episode, Dr. Valeria and sex coach Sarah Martin talk about the causes of low libido in men, how it affects men, and what can help.

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09/28/18 • 33 min

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In today's episode, Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin break down the groundbreaking concept of arousal non-concordance. Simply put, our physical (genital) arousal doesn't always match our psychological arousal. This dramatically changes the way we view sexual desire, pleasure and consent. Tune in to learn why arousal non-concordance is important, and how it can change your sex life.

EPISODE NOTES:

Emily Nagoski's Ted Talk, "The Truth About Unwanted Arousal" (a must wath!) https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_the_truth_about_unwanted_arousal?language=en

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09/14/18 • 31 min

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Get Sex-Smart is back from the summer break! In today's episode, Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin chat about high libido women. Conventional thinking tells us that men tend to be more interested in sex than women and that women with high libidos are rare. But how true is that? And, while many men say that they would love for their female partner to be more sexually assertive, what actually happens when a woman wants sex more than her male partner? We answer these questions and more in this episode.

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Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski: https://amzn.to/2PGjmbA

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09/06/18 • 36 min

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One of the questions we get asked most often is how much sex it's "normal" to have. Today, Dr. Valeria and Sarah Martin answer the question of what is normal sexual frequency. We also share our tips on how to tell whether you're having the right amount of sex; why you may not be satisfied about your sexual frequency; and how to be more satisfied with the amount of sex you're having.

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07/19/18 • 37 min

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In this Q&A episode (the first ever on Get Sex-Smart!), Valeria and Sarah are answering your sex and relationship questions. Here's a timeline, should you like to jump to a specific one:

3:12 How do I figure out what my partner's fetish is?

9:10 My significant other wants to have the passwords for my phone and computer. Do I share my passwords or not?

15:30 My boyfriend insists on anal sex, but I don't want to have anal. What should I do?

27:05 Are dating apps ruining dating and relationships?

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08/15/19 • 35 min

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FAQ

How many episodes does Get Sex-Smart have?

Get Sex-Smart currently has 100 episodes available.

What topics does Get Sex-Smart cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Sex, Dating, Podcasts, Education, Intimacy, Relationships and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on Get Sex-Smart?

The episode title 'E101: Announcing Our New Season!' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Get Sex-Smart?

The average episode length on Get Sex-Smart is 43 minutes.

How often are episodes of Get Sex-Smart released?

Episodes of Get Sex-Smart are typically released every 7 days, 13 hours.

When was the first episode of Get Sex-Smart?

The first episode of Get Sex-Smart was released on Jan 29, 2016.

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