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Gender: A Wider Lens

Gender: A Wider Lens

Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

In this podcast, now in its fourth year, therapists Stella O'Malley and Sasha Ayad take a deep dive into the psychological and cultural forces impacting the social changes around "gender." Through interviews with researchers, doctors, therapists, parents, detransitioners, and others, Sasha and Stella's podcast is a "must listen" for anyone trying to navigate the current gender landscape. With their sharp analytical minds and deep compassionate hearts, Stella and Sasha have also become known throughout many parent networks as lighthouses in the midst of some very stormy seas. Previous guests include Helen Joyce, Jesse Singal, Leor Sapir, Kathleen Stock, Jamie Reed, Peter Boghossian and more.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Gender: A Wider Lens episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Gender: A Wider Lens for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Gender: A Wider Lens episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

In this episode, Sasha and Stella welcome Malcolm Clark for a really interesting conversation exploring various facets of historical ideas and identities around gender, homosexuality, and the evolution of identity activism. This discussion navigates the intricate and contentious terrain of understanding gender non-conformity and identity expression across history.

For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-158

Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/

Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show

Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching

Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ (formerly GETA)

Genspect at https://genspect.org/


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Gender: A Wider Lens - 146 - Myths, Misconceptions, and Exaggerations about Gender
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12/15/23 • 70 min

In the world of gender, myths and misconceptions often overshadow the complex realities at play. This episode is dedicated to debunking myths from both sides of the debates. This conversation emphasizes the need to break down myths surrounding gender, acknowledging the overblown ideas that contribute to a lack of nuance and understanding, and sheds light on exaggerated points used as rhetorical strategies by different sides of the gender discourse.

Sasha and Stella highlight the danger of blanket statements and the challenge of navigating a topic as intricate as gender in the age of social media. They also explore the impact of parental influence and societal expectations around gender. In a world where gender discussions often fall victim to oversimplification and polarized views, Stella and Sasha's conversation serves as a valuable reminder to approach these complex issues with nuance and empathy. Breaking down myths and fostering understanding is essential for meaningful dialogue, progress in the ongoing gender debate, and the potential for deeper societal understanding emerging from the current discourse.

Genspect’s: The Gender Framework

https://genspect.org/resources/sample-policies/genspect-presents-the-gender-framework/

Bigger Picture Conference - Denver

Talks from the #genspectbiggerpicture conference in Denver, CO, 2023. More videos will be added regularly, revisit the link again for more content.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmsMIEB9bK5xwwzCuF5AsjjviLfOxLzBA&si=DX_jQTb4JU_6pDmG

Gender: Therapy Session Notes w/ Sasha Ayad

https://substack.com/@sashaayad

Gender Dysphoria & Suicide (Episode 34)

https://gender-a-wider-lens.captivate.fm/episode/34-gender-dysphoria-suicide

Suicide by Clinic-Referred Transgender Adolescents in the United Kingdom

Biggs M. Suicide by Clinic-Referred Transgender Adolescents in the United Kingdom. Arch Sex Behav. 2022 Feb;51(2):685-690. doi: 10.1007/s10508-022-02287-7. Epub 2022 Jan 18. PMID: 35043256; PMCID: PMC8888486

https://europepmc.org/abstract/MED/35043256

The Myth of "Reliable Research" in Pediatric Gender Medicine: A critical evaluation of the Dutch Studies-and Research That Has Followed

E. Abbruzzese, Stephen B. Levine & Julia W. Mason (2023) The Myth of “Reliable Research” in Pediatric Gender Medicine: A critical evaluation of the Dutch Studies—and research that has followed, Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 49:6, 673-699, DOI: 10.1080/0092623X.2022.2150346; https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2022.2150346

Order Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents

https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

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In this episode, Sasha and Stella sit down with journalist Lisa Selin Davis to discuss “the endless upside down somersaulting of reality.”

The latest controversy not only questions the integrity of guideline creation but also exposes collaboration among federal authorities, advocacy groups, and academic institutions to suppress evidence-based research.

Mainstream media responses (or lack there of) highlight how prominent journalism groups align with activists, perpetuate narratives, and compromise objectivity by succumbing to advocacy pressures and biased reporting practices.

This episode emphasizes how the prioritization of empirical evidence in both media reporting and policy-making is crucial for ensuring that decisions affecting youth and healthcare are based on accurate, transparent information.

For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes athttps://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-171

Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/

Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show

Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching

Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/

Genspect at https://genspect.org/


This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe

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With Stella on break this week, a solo Sasha welcomes guest Laura Becker who offers insightful and endearing reflections about the misdirected creativity of ROGD girls being channeled into queer theory ideas. She shares some intimate details of her personal story including the impact of chronic abuse on her mental health, her journey on testosterone, her radical double mastectomy, and her decision to detransition.

For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-153

Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/

Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show

Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching

Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ (formerly GETA)

Genspect at https://genspect.org/


This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe
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In this episode, Sasha & Stella welcome Elaine Miller, a physiotherapist specializing in pelvic health and award-winning comedian to join them for a riveting conversation unpacking the cascading effects of testosterone on the female body, with particular attention to the pelvic area. This conversation uncovers shocking insights about incontinence and other physiological changes as the result of putting a female system on disproportionately high levels of testosterone. A must-listen for therapists, parents, individuals considering testosterone therapy, and healthcare professionals who want to understand the real, often overlooked, consequences of cross-sex hormones on female bodies.

For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-175

Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/

Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show

Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching

Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/

Genspect at https://genspect.org/

This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe


This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe

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With such a scarcity of voices from the surgical community chiming in on about their insights and reflections on gender-affirming care, Sasha and Stella eagerly welcome Dr. Eithan Haim to share his compelling perspective on his experiences and observations at a leading pediatric hospital in the United States.

For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-151

@EithanHaim on X(Twitter) - https://twitter.com/EithanHaim

Legal Defense Fund for Surgeon Whistleblower - https://www.givesendgo.com/texas_whistleblower

Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/

Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show

Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching

Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/ (formerly GETA)

Genspect at https://genspect.org/


This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe
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Join Sasha & Stella for their interview with Dr. Jillian Spencer, a child and adolescent psychiatrist from Queensland, Australia. This episode delves into Dr. Spencer's experiences with the gender clinic in her hospital, highlighting the challenges and concerns she faced in encountering adolescents identifying as transgender. The episode explores the complexities of assessing and treating gender dysphoria in young individuals, shedding light on the impact of fast-tracking into gender clinics and the potential psychological consequences. Dr. Spencer shares her journey of trying to raise awareness about the concerns surrounding gender interventions for children and the need for a more comprehensive approach to mental health.

Jillian Spencer is a child and adolescent psychiatrist who lives in Queensland, Australia. She studied Medicine at Monash University in Melbourne and then subsequently trained in psychiatry. She completed sub-speciality certificates in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry and Forensic Psychiatry. She qualified as a psychiatrist in 2009. She has worked for Queensland Health for 21 years. In mid-April 2023, she was removed from clinical duties due to being considered a danger to trans and gender diverse children. Since her story came out in the media in June, she has sought to raise awareness of the concerns around gender interventions for children.

Sasha & Stella’s conversation with Dr. Spencer touches on the influence of clinicians, the surge in youth attending gender clinics, encounters with dismissive responses from superiors, and the attempt to raise critical questions about safeguarding and ethical considerations in the treatment of gender dysphoria.

This is the emotionally compelling account of the circumstances surrounding Dr. Spencer’s suspension from clinical duties, her experiences raising awareness through presentations, distributing books, and participating in "Let Women Speak" rallies, and the broader implications for healthcare professionals challenging the prevailing narrative on gender dysphoria in children.

Dr. Jillian Spencer speaks at a Let Women Speak rally in 2023 with Kellie-Jay Keen

https://youtu.be/7OcIuLlbIPc?t=1204

Dr. Spencer’s reference of former GWL guest, Ellie from her 2023 presentation:

Models of Care for Children with Gender Dysphoria

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBZ-QkBGWlA&t=169s

Introduction to the Gender Framework

https://genspect.org/introduction-to-the-gender-framework/

Genspect’s: The Gender Framework

https://genspect.org/resources/sample-policies/genspect-presents-the-gender-framework/

Bigger Picture Conference - Denver

Talks from the #genspectbiggerpicture conference in Denver, CO, 2023. More videos will be added regularly, revisit the link again for more content.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmsMIEB9bK5xwwzCuF5AsjjviLfOxLzBA&si=DX_jQTb4JU_6pDmG

Order Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents


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Gender: A Wider Lens - 144 - "Glinner is a TERF" with Graham Linehan
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12/01/23 • 71 min

Graham Lanahan, commonly known as Glinner, joins Sasha & Stella for an insightful exploration of comedy, societal shifts, and the personal journey of how a prominent comedy writer landed himself in the thick of identity politics. The episode serves as a testament to the ongoing struggle for open dialogue in the evolving conversation around gender.

Graham Lanahan, born in Dublin, is the mastermind behind the beloved sitcoms Father Ted, The IT Crowd, Black Boots, and Motherland. His Substack, The Glinner Update, is dedicated to monitoring the extremes of gender identity ideology, and he also co-hosts the highly successful “The Mess We're In” on YouTube, which has garnered a remarkable 1.5 million views in just three years.

In this conversation, Sasha, Stella, and Glinner explore the intersection of his comedic roots, evolving perceptions, and activism in the face of isolation and confrontation. Linehan shares his concerns about the transgender movement and its impact on children. And he reflects on the challenges of using humor in addressing the topic and the complexities of navigating cancel culture.

Linehan also touches on his foray into online activism during the Gamergate controversy. Initially driven by a desire to protect women from online harassment, Linehan admitted later to realizing the complexities of the situation and the influence of authoritarian voices within woke culture. Things get very personal when he candidly shares about his evolution from staunch anti-abortion beliefs to becoming an advocate, driven by personal experiences.

His, is a vivacious voice navigating the complexities of modern activism, advocating against misinformation, and speaking up against the prevailing narratives in the gender debates. Linehan's story serves as a fascinating exploration of an artist's evolution in response to the ever-changing landscapes of politics and culture.

The Glinner Update (Substack)

https://grahamlinehan.substack.com/

Tough Crowd: How I Made and Lost a Career in Comedy

https://www.amazon.com/Tough-Crowd-Made-Career-Comedy-ebook/dp/B0CJ3YLYWF/ref=sr_1_1?qid=1699560605&refinements=p_27%3AGraham+Linehan&s=books&sr=1-1

The Mess We’re In

https://www.youtube.com/@GrahamLinehan

Magdalen Berns on YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@MagdalenBerns

Order Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents

https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Support the Show & Access Exclusive Content

https://www.patreon.com/WiderLensPod

Join the conversation on YouTube

www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting:

Episode 132 - How To Have Impossible Conversations About Gender with Peter Boghossian


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Gender: A Wider Lens - 197 - We Have a BIG Announcement!
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12/13/24 • 55 min

Nearing the podcast’s 200th episode just around the corner, Stella and Sasha mark the 4-year milestone of Gender: A Wider Lens! Together, they reflect on the show’s remarkable evolution and its impact on their respective journeys. With a vast catalog of episodes filled with profound insights, transformative stories, intriguing interviews, and relentless curiosity, the show has progressed alongside the ever-shifting landscape of gender and the ripple effects of the medicalization of youth.

In this episode, they share insights into both the psychological and societal shifts surrounding gender identity and reveal a BIG announcement for what listeners can expect in 2025. Looking back on the development of the podcast, they express gratitude for their listeners and the incredible community that has grown around them.

Don’t miss this exclusive preview of what’s to come from Sasha & Stella in 2025! We’d love to hear your thoughts, ideas, and feedback — your input is invaluable as we shape all that’s ahead. Share your insights by leaving a comment on Substack, YouTube, or Spotify, reach out directly via X @widerlenspod, or email [email protected].

For links and resources relevant to this episode, access the full show notes at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/episode-197

Buy Our Book – When Kids Say They’re Trans: A Guide for Thoughtful Parents at https://whenkidssaytheyretrans.com/

Join Our Listener Community to Access Exclusive Content at https://www.widerlenspod.com/

Support the Show at https://www.widerlenspod.com/p/support-the-show

Join the conversation on YouTube at www.youtube.com/@widerlenspod

For more information about Sasha’s & Stella’s parent coaching membership groups, visit:

Sasha Ayad: https://sashaayad.com/parenting-coaching

Stella O’Malley: http://www.stellaomalley.com/parent-coaching

To learn more about our sponsors, visit:

Therapy First at https://www.therapyfirst.org/

Genspect at https://genspect.org/

This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.widerlenspod.com/subscribe


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How many episodes does Gender: A Wider Lens have?

Gender: A Wider Lens currently has 297 episodes available.

What topics does Gender: A Wider Lens cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health and Podcasts.

What is the most popular episode on Gender: A Wider Lens?

The episode title '175 - What Really Happens to a Female Body on Testosterone? with Elaine Miller' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Gender: A Wider Lens?

The average episode length on Gender: A Wider Lens is 48 minutes.

How often are episodes of Gender: A Wider Lens released?

Episodes of Gender: A Wider Lens are typically released every 6 days, 11 hours.

When was the first episode of Gender: A Wider Lens?

The first episode of Gender: A Wider Lens was released on Nov 30, 2020.

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