gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
Steve Bennet-Martin
gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.
If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero!
This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone.
This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts.
Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives:
· How do I get and stay sober in the queer community?
· Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer?
· What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like?
· Where do sober gay and queer people hang out?
· How can I have good sex sober?
· What are tips and tricks for early sobriety?
· How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery?
· How will my life change if I get sober?
· Can you be queer and sober and happy?
· How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?
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Step 3 Revisited
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
11/08/21 • 7 min
Steve reflects on his Step 3 and his discussion about it with his sponsor last night.
Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful.
If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at [email protected],
Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends!
Higher Power Stuff ft. Kristen
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
11/09/23 • 22 min
Steve welcomes back Kristen to discuss navigating their relationship with their Higher Power through their step work and in their lives today.
Topics discussed include:
- Grasping a Higher Power as queer individuals
- Our experiences going through the first few steps
- Living in the 11th Step
- Explaining Higher Power 'stuff' to people not in recovery
- And much more!
Follow us online at @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear Kristen and Steve spin the Topic Wheel!
Sober Siblings ft. Kristen
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
11/04/21 • 31 min
Steve is joined by his sober sibling, Kristen, to share their wisdom, strength, and hope. Together they reflect back on counting days together and ways to keep and stay sober.
E-mail me at [email protected] anytime for feedback, to get involved with the show, or to just say hi!
Also join our conversation on Instagram @gayapodcast
Stay sober, friends!
My First Qualification
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
10/04/21 • 13 min
Host Steve Bennet-Martin practices his first qualification for his Twelve Step meeting by sharing one with all of you!
Addiction and Zodiac Signs Revisited
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
12/05/24 • 12 min
Episode Description:
Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A, I’m diving back into the vault to revisit one of my earliest episodes on astrology and addiction. Originally recorded at just 105 days sober, this episode explores how our zodiac signs might influence our relationship with alcohol.
But that’s not all—I'm adding fresh insights and exploring a new article on zodiac signs and their connections to other addictive tendencies. Whether you’re a Leo who loves to splurge (looking at you, Amazon cart), or a Pisces drawn to emotional escapism, there's something here for everyone.
So, does your sign align with your past or present tendencies? Let's break it down together!
What’s Next?
✨ Listen to the full episode and share your thoughts on how your zodiac sign aligns with your past habits.
✨ Join the conversation: Email me, text the show, or connect on socials @GayAPodcast.
✨ Don’t forget to follow Gay A for weekly episodes every Thursday!
Resources Mentioned:
#GayAPodcast #QueerSobriety #AstrologyAndAddiction #ZodiacSigns #SoberCurious #LGBTQRecovery #SoberJourney #AddictionRecovery
Roundup Wind Down: GSM 2022
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
06/30/22 • 15 min
Steve is back from his time at the Gay and Sober Men's Conference 2022 and is ready to share all about it!
In this episode I touch on highlights from the daytime parts of the conference, including:
- The Welcome Meeting
- The Traditions Workshop
- Shame and Stigma to Strength and Hope
- Ageism and Body Dysmorphia
- The Fourth Step
- The Sex Workshop
- The Hard Rock Meeting
- The Raffle ft. Logan Hardcore
- Marching in NYC Pride
Want to know all the fun that I got up to in the after hours event? Check out the post-show on Patreon @ www.patreon.com/gayapodcast
Get involved with the show or just reach out to connect at [email protected] or on Instagram @ happylifepod
Stay sober, friends!
Community Update
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
06/20/22 • 2 min
Steve provides updates on some community updates related the podcast, including the launch of our new Patreon Community!
Patreon members get access to exclusive content like after shows and bonus episodes, along with membership to our private Facebook group community.
Join today at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast
Sex and Communication ft. Dave #88
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
06/16/22 • 25 min
Steve welcomes back Dave to talk about sex in sobriety.
Follow Dave on Instagram @gymdave85 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast.
Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful.
If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at [email protected]
Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends!
Dating Sober ft. Dave
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
06/13/22 • 21 min
Steve welcomes back Dave to talk about dating in recovery.
Follow Dave on Instagram @gymdave85 and follow us while you are at it @gAyApodcast.
Thank you for listening. Please rate and review if you have found this information helpful.
If you are interested in sharing your story, getting involved with the show, or just saying hi, please e-mail me at [email protected]
Or Follow Us wherever you are listening so you can get new episodes when they come out every Monday and Thursday. Until that time, stay sober, friends!
Being "Out" in Sobriety ft. Danielle
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
10/17/24 • 24 min
Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! In today’s episode of gAy A, host Sober Steve (with 1,227 days sober!) welcomes back Danielle—one of our long-time pod family members, to dive into a topic that many in the LGBTQ+ community can relate to: Being “Out” in Sobriety.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Danielle reflects on her experiences of coming out in college and how it mirrors her sobriety journey.
- They discuss the importance of recovering out loud and the impact of living authentically in both your sexuality and your recovery.
- The connection between vulnerability and community, and how being open helps others feel less alone.
- Danielle shares how running is part of her self-care routine in sobriety and how she finds both mental and physical health benefits from it.
- Why it’s so crucial to be present and how sobriety allows Danielle and Steve to fully embrace life’s ups and downs.
- The societal assumptions about the queer community and sobriety, and how the LGBTQ+ community continues to evolve with more support and visibility.
Danielle’s candid and insightful take on being open about sobriety, sexuality, and life is sure to inspire anyone struggling with the idea of coming out in any aspect of their life. The conversation highlights the importance of connection, community, and embracing your authentic self, no matter the fears or challenges you face.
Key Moments:
- Danielle shares her personal story about coming out in college after a tragic event sparked her to live authentically.
- The parallel between coming out as LGBTQ+ and coming out as sober.
- The importance of vulnerability and how recovering out loud has helped others start their sobriety journeys.
- Reflections on how the queer community continues to grow stronger despite challenges.
Connect with Danielle:
Follow Danielle on Instagram at @DC_and_Rosie (closed account but accepting friends of Steve!)
Resources Mentioned:
- Looking for support in your sobriety journey? Visit www.sobersteve.com for more resources and community connections.
Make sure to hit Follow so you don’t miss any of our upcoming episodes, and don’t forget to tune in every Thursday for new content.
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- Instagram: @gAyApodcast
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Stay Sober, Friends!
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FAQ
How many episodes does gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show have?
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show currently has 226 episodes available.
What topics does gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show cover?
The podcast is about Lgbt, Health & Fitness, Hero, Sobriety, Podcasts, Sober, Gay, Self-Improvement, Education, Queer, Recovery and Sexuality.
What is the most popular episode on gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show?
The episode title 'Gratitude 2022' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show?
The average episode length on gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show is 24 minutes.
How often are episodes of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show released?
Episodes of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show are typically released every 6 days, 23 hours.
When was the first episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show?
The first episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show was released on Jun 21, 2021.
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