40 and Thriving?

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Join me, amateur podcaster, professional deep feeler Blayr, as I explore what 13 years of marriage looks like to me. Recently coming off the cusp of my anniversary being married to my husband, Dustin. Can you relate? Marriage is the toughest, most amazing thing you choose to do, every day. Love is a conscience daily decision after the fiery embers of newness settles down, and real life comes your way. The highest of highs, the lowest of lows. You know you're married, but why do you still somedays have a broken heart? It can have you unexpectedly flying high with the simplest of gestures you never dreamed would make you melt, like when your partner switches a load of laundry you need by morning, but you're too tired to get out of bed to do it only to find out it has already been handled. Swoon! To the most tiniest thing such as listening to them chew next to you while you're trying to drift off to sleep, and you visualize which pillow you'll be placing over their face...Marriage can be a dramatic rollercoaster, or a child's ride, but ultimately its up to you what you make of it! Join me as I talk it all out. You might find something that hits home, even if you aren't married!