The Ten Commandments: #7: Do Not Commit Adultery

05/12/25 • 17 min

Family Vision: Christian Parenting, Marriage & Family Advice

Jesus said, “What God has joined together, let no one separate.” In this powerful episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep and honest look at the Seventh Commandment: “Do not commit adultery.”

They unpack the biblical foundation for marriage, examine the real-life consequences of adultery on individuals, families, and society, and share how repentance and healing are possible through Christ. Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or walking alongside someone who has experienced unfaithfulness, this episode will offer biblical clarity and hope.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Why adultery is more than just a private sin—it’s a violation of covenant and community

How modern culture tries to redefine and diminish the seriousness of adultery

The difference between emotional and physical unfaithfulness—and how both impact marriage

How to begin the process of healing if adultery has entered your marriage

What Scripture says about purity, fidelity, and the sacredness of the marriage bed

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Next week, we continue with Part 2 on the Seventh Commandment as we explore Jesus’ words about lust and how to protect your marriage from temptation in a sex-saturated culture.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Why adultery is more than just a private sin—it’s a violation of covenant and community

How modern culture tries to redefine and diminish the seriousness of adultery

The difference between emotional and physical unfaithfulness—and how both impact marriage

How to begin the process of healing if adultery has entered your marriage

What Scripture says about purity, fidelity, and the sacredness of the marriage bed

Featured Resources:

Visionary Family Community — Connect with families around the world committed to passing faith to the next generation. Join us here: https://visionaryfam.com/community

Need Prayer?

If you’re walking through a marriage crisis, please reach out. Our team would love to pray with you. Email us at [email protected].

Like This Episode?

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Next week, we continue with Part 2 on the Seventh Commandment as we explore Jesus’ words about lust and how to protect your marriage from temptation in a sex-saturated culture.

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The Ten Commandments: #6: The Battle Against Hatred

“I hate you.” If you’ve ever heard those words from your child, you know how painful and jarring they can be. In this episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow continue their series on the Ten Commandments with a deep dive into the Sixth Commandment—“You shall not murder”—and how Jesus reveals that anger and hatred in the heart are spiritual expressions of that same sin.

They unpack what it means for parents and children to struggle with anger, bitterness, and hatred—and how we can proactively disciple our families toward healing, grace, and reconciliation. This is a timely conversation for any parent dealing with emotional outbursts, strained relationships, or the heartache of children turning away.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

Why anger and hatred are spiritual violations of the Sixth Commandment

What to do when your child says “I hate you”

How the words we use—like “idiot” or “hate”—reveal the condition of our hearts

The cultural danger of justifying hatred in the name of righteousness

A biblical strategy to help children (and parents) find freedom from anger

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Next week, we take on the Seventh Commandment—“Do not commit adultery”—and talk about how to help our children and teens pursue purity in a world filled with temptation.

Next Episode

The Ten Commandments: #7: Guard Your Marriage Against Adultery

A faithful Christian marriage doesn’t happen by accident. In this special 250th episode of Family Vision, Rob and Amy Rienow share candid stories and biblical truths about protecting your marriage from temptation, emotional affairs, and pornography. Adultery doesn’t start with a moment—it starts with a drift. Learn how to guard your heart, invest in your spouse, and pursue God-honoring intimacy in today’s culture.

Marriage isn’t just about avoiding disaster. It’s about building joy, unity, and strength over time. Discover practical wisdom on social media boundaries, how fantasy shapes emotional detachment, and why investing in your spouse’s needs protects both hearts. If your marriage feels stuck or threatened, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

How emotional affairs begin and how to guard against them - Why pornography doesn’t disappear after marriage - The connection between temptation, fantasy, and dissatisfaction - How to talk to your kids about protecting marriage in a digital age - Hope and biblical encouragement for couples struggling with betrayal or disconnection

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Visionary Family Conference — Join us for a weekend that strengthens your faith and family. Upcoming events in Iowa, Michigan, and Wyoming. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/events

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Jesus the Reigning King — A family devotional to help your household grow in faith after Easter. Available on Amazon and in English/Spanish: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1497471818/

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Join us as we continue our conversation on the 7th commandment and how it applies to our kids and families.