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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

Dr. Taylor Day

welcome to a parenting space actually designed for YOU! where you can get answers about navigating a life that includes autism. I’m Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism and neuroaffirming care. I have supported 100s of autistic children and their families and have been in the autism field for over a decade. on this podcast, we focus on supporting your autistic child AND your whole family, including you! every topic is on the table, and your questions (which you can submit through my social media) inspire the episodes created. I share some of my personal stories growing up with a brother who was diagnosed at 23 months of age as well as feature other families' stories so you know you are not navigating this journey alone. this is a space for you to be SEEN. HEARD. SUPPORTED. and get reputable and reliable information about autism instead of searching Google endlessly for hours. I am so dang grateful that you are here. ***disclaimer: not clinical advice, for educational purposes only*** subscribe to this podcast by hitting the plus or follow button so you don't miss an episode.
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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 131 | the privilege of choice: nuanced discussion around ABA

131 | the privilege of choice: nuanced discussion around ABA

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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09/13/24 • 17 min

Dr. Tay shares a mini-episode where she dives into the complexities and controversies surrounding Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy in the autism field. She presents a balanced perspective on ABA, emphasizing the importance of informed consent and considering the diverse needs and privileges of families. Dr. Tay also highlights different neurodiversity affirming modalities under the ABA umbrella, upcoming podcast guests, and her own experiences, urging the need for more nuanced conversations in the field.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

00:52 Welcome to the Parenting Space

01:05 Diving into ABA Therapy

01:22 Controversies and Perspectives on ABA

01:41 Upcoming Podcast Guests and Topics

04:55 Informed Decision-Making for Families

05:42 Advocating for Neurodiversity Affirming Practices

07:06 Changing the Field from the Inside Out

08:55 Accessibility Issues in Neurodiversity Affirming Therapy

09:18 Challenges in Child Care for Working Parents

10:02 Intersectionality and Racial Perspectives in ABA

11:05 Safety and Compliance for Non-White Children

12:08 Balancing Family Needs and Therapy Approaches

12:43 Open Dialogue and Future Conversations

13:34 Supporting Families Through Free Resources and Memberships

14:47 Encouraging Informed Consent and Advocacy

15:37 Conclusion and Future Episodes

RESOURCES

⚡️ listen to episodes 26, 59, and 128, which further discuss ABA and varying approaches. and check out the Making the Shift episode on ABA that inspired this episode!

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

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Dr. Tay hosts mother-son duo, Dr. Myava Clark and Chris Clark, to discuss their experiences and advocacy for navigating educational support systems for children with learning differences. Dr. Clark shares her early advocacy efforts for Chris who experienced developmental delays and learning differences. Chris talks about his realization of learning differently and points out the importance of open communication. their experiences inspired the co-founding of 'CASEN', an organization and program designed to guide young people on safe and responsible usage of social media. they provide resources on social-emotional development, bullying identification, mental health development, and social media readiness. both stress the importance of celebrating individuals' abilities and strengths rather than focusing on their weaknesses.

CHAPTERS:

02:23 Guests share their backgrounds

04:20 Discussion on early challenges and advocacy

13:25 Chris' personal experience and reflections

18:45 Advocacy in education and tailoring learning paths

23:05 Chris's high school experience

25:43 Chris' regrets and lessons learned

31:00 The role of parents in social dedia safety

32:51 The development of the CASEN program and app

35:32 The importance of social media readiness

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Dr. Myava and Chris Clark >>

subscribe to the CASEN Newsletter: https://casenllc.com/

CASEN Resource library: https://casenllc.com/resource-library/

CASEN Courses: https://casenllc.com/casen-courses/

CASEN Platforms: https://casenllc.com/platforms/

⚡️apps for monitoring your child's social media >>

Kids 360 app: https://kids360.app/

Bark app: https://www.bark.us/

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism and other disabilities. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 79 | Autistic Not Weird: neurodiversity + advocacy with Chris Bonnello

79 | Autistic Not Weird: neurodiversity + advocacy with Chris Bonnello

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10/25/23 • 50 min

ABOUT THIS EPISODE (+ scroll for resources) 👇

Dr. Tay welcomes Chris Bonnello, an autistic advocate, author, and a Rubik's cube master, to the podcast. Chris shares his journey from the classroom to advocacy, highlighting the importance of promoting neurodivergence. he talks about his late autism diagnosis at 24 and how this led him to a journey of self-acceptance. the discussion also covers the impact of labels on self-perception and the use of the Autistic Not Weird platform to amplify the voices and experiences of the autistic community. Chris shares about his Underdog Series and his newfound love of the Rubik's Cube, the evolution of neurodiversity, and advice for parents of autistic children.

CHAPTERS

(00:00) Neurodiversity and Acceptance

(10:31) Autism's Impact on Identity and Masking

(23:41) The Growth of Autistic Not Weird

(34:35) The Underdog Series and Other Advocacy Work

(41:29) Rubik's Cubes and Finding Community

RESOURCES

⚡️ Connect with Chris and support his advocacy work

Join the Autistic Not Weird community on Facebook

Order the Underdogs Series and other books

Subscribe to Chris' Patreon

Other social media: Instagram, LinkedIn, YouTube, Facebook

⚡️Read the Autistic Not Weird Autism Survey that summarizes perspectives from over 7,000 autistic people and 11,000 people total

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 78 | what it means to be 2E: identifying and assessing twice-exceptional kids with Dr. Nicole Michaeli
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10/18/23 • 41 min

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Dr. Tay welcomes Dr. Nicole Michaeli, a pediatric psychologist specializing in comprehensive evaluations, to the podcast. we discuss the twice-exceptional (2E) profile of children who are gifted and have learning or developmental disabilities. the episode includes discussions about asynchronous development characteristic of 2E children as well as strengths and support needs in the context of a neurodiversity framework. Dr. Nicole discusses the importance of a tailored approach to foster the growth of 2E children, addressing the emotional impact they often experience. she also explores intriguing findings from brain imaging studies that differentiate these children from their peers. the episode offers practical advice and actionable steps for 2E children, with a specific focus on how giftedness can present in autistic children.

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with Dr. Nicole Michaeli

Instagram @drnicolephd

TikTok @drnicolephd

My Child Assessment website (her practice in West Los Angeles)

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 68 | AAC and Gestalt Language Processing with Erin @spinsandstomps - finding her daughter's voice
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09/13/23 • 48 min

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Dr. Tay has Erin from @spinsandstomps on the podcast. Erin shares about her daughter Riley's journey to getting an autism diagnosis as well as understanding her daughter's ways of communicating. Erin discusses the transformative power of an AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) device in Riley's life and how she identified that she was a Gestalt Language Processor (GLP). specifics on AAC devices particularly for GLPs were detailed in this episode. we also cover broader issues that many autism parents face, including access to diagnostic services and decisions about therapy services.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and beginning of the discussion on AAC devices for autistic children.

(0:14:26) - navigating autism and accessing services for autistic children.

(0:22:56) - AAC and Gestalt Language Processing

(0:35:50) - AAC devices and their role in promoting self-directed communication in autistic children

(0:41:56) - conclusion including understanding autism, the use of AAC devices, and the importance of love and education in raising an autistic child.

RESOURCES

⚡️ connect with Erin to learn more about her family's journey as well as helpful resources on Instagram @spinsandstomps and her website.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 62 | facing parenting fears about vacations with travel specialist and autism mom Kayla Castro
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08/30/23 • 49 min

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Dr. Tay welcomes Kayla Castro to the podcast, a certified autism travel professional and parent to an autistic child. this episode focuses on the fears, challenges, and joys of traveling as an autism family. Kayla shares her family's story and provides practical advice on how to navigate travel with autistic family members. the conversation includes tips on how to make travel more accessible, including the use of the Disability Access Service Pass at Disney and the TSA Cares Initiative. Kayla also discusses tools and strategies to prepare your child for travel. the episode offers a comprehensive guide to autism-friendly travel.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and description of a certified autism travel professional

(0:05:00) - sharing her family's autism story and their travel experiences

(0:10:48) - IBCCES and certified autism centers (learn more here)

(0:12:17) - Disability Access Service Pass at Disney and Accessibility Cards for other theme parks

(0:21:36) - TSA Cares Initiative and other flying accomodations

(0:28:29) - sunflower lanyard (get yours here)

(0:32:00) - preparation for trips, including front-loading, YouTube, and picky eating

(0:35:10) - a deeper discussion around fear

(0:41:30) - travel services Kayla provides for families

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with Kayla on Instagram and via email. and visit her website to learn more about her services and offerings and read her blog.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 60 | DR. TAY'S BIRTHDAY EPISODE: hope, acceptance, and personal growth without a crystal ball
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08/25/23 • 27 min

in this personal and reflective episode, Dr. Tay shares her journey and growth as she approaches her 34th birthday. she discusses her experiences as a single woman and her dedication to helping families of neurodivergent children despite not having any of her own. drawing parallels from her own life, she introduces the concept of a crystal ball and reasons that knowing the future will not actually give us the peace we desire. through her introspective dialogue, she underscores the importance of accepting uncertainties, finding hope, and not letting worries 'hijack' our present joys. this episode will hit home if you have worries about your autistic child's future!

RESOURCES

⚡️ if you want to give me a birthday present, share an episode on your social media (and tag me!) and/or leave a 5-star review! THANK YOU 🩷

⚡️book referenced in the episode >> No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz, PhD

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered, including group therapy? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 56 | a culinary adventure: how cooking can help autistic children with Chef Sofya Stearns

56 | a culinary adventure: how cooking can help autistic children with Chef Sofya Stearns

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08/16/23 • 27 min

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Dr. Tay welcomes Sofya Stearns, founder of Izabella's Gourmet Chow, to the podcast to share her journey of using cooking as a means to explore cultures, support autistic children, and promote healthy eating. Sofya also shares tips on making cooking fun and safe for kids, such as using plastic knives and transforming ordinary foods into extraordinary creations. throughout the episode, she emphasizes the importance of making cooking a fun exploration and a journey rather than just a task.

RESOURCES

⚡️ learn about Izabella's Gourmet Chow and virtual cooking classes for your child.

⚡️ connect with Chef Sofya on social media, including 5 recipes she put together for you >>

Instagram @izabellasgourmetchow

TikTok @izabellasgourmetchow

Facebook Izabella's Gourmet Chow

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 45 | Q+A: can autism be diagnosed before 18 months of age? insights into early identification
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07/21/23 • 9 min

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: my child is 13 months old and has developmental delays. I'm concerned about autism. how do I know if it's autism or a developmental delay? my pediatrician says they won't start screening for autism until 18 months of age.

A: Dr. Tay unpacks the American Academy of Pediatrics guidelines for autism screening and breaks down the science to address this question. in short, autism can be diagnosed accurately (for some but not all children) beginning at 14 months of age. practical next steps are provided, with encouragement to act early so your child can get necessary supports as soon as possible.

RESOURCES

⚡️ the research study referenced in today's episode: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31034004/

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 141 | building inclusive and sensory-friendly classrooms to promote regulation and learning

141 | building inclusive and sensory-friendly classrooms to promote regulation and learning

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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11/13/24 • 53 min

In this episode, Dr. Tay invites Alyssa Campbell of Seed & Sew to discuss the importance of supporting autistic students at a classroom-wide level, particularly focusing on their nervous system and sensory regulation. Alyssa, with her extensive background in early childhood education and emotional development, shares insights and practical strategies for creating sensory-friendly environments and understanding individual sensory profiles. They explore the benefits of proactive versus reactive strategies in educational settings, the vital role of teachers and parents in advocating for proper supports, and the importance of normalizing neurodiverse needs to foster inclusive learning spaces for all students. The episode is filled with actionable insights that are beneficial for educators, parents, and anyone involved in the care and development of autistic children.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:48 Meet Alyssa Campbell: Expert in Emotional Development

01:58 Dr. Tay's Background and Mission

03:33 Alyssa's Journey and Collaborative Emotion Processing Method

04:12 Understanding Sensory Regulation and Nervous System

18:00 Practical Applications in the Classroom

20:34 Supporting Sensory Needs in Education

25:19 Parental and Teacher Collaboration

25:58 Understanding Early Childhood Sensory Responses

27:17 Proactive Strategies in Schools

35:13 Supporting Teachers and Parents

38:32 Managing Diverse Needs in the Classroom

45:55 The Role of Occupational Therapy

49:26 Resources and Final Thoughts

RESOURCES

⚡️check out Alyssa and her parent-friendly resources, including the sensory quiz here: https://www.seedandsew.org/parents

⚡️check out her resources for teachers and schools, including her certification here: https://www.seedandsew.org/seedcertificationteachers

⚡️follow her on Instagram @seed.and.sew and listen to her podcast Voices of Your Village

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: PDA is referenced in this episode. it is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids currently has 146 episodes available.

What topics does EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids cover?

The podcast is about Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Education.

What is the most popular episode on EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids?

The episode title '105 | navigating homeschooling for your autistic child with Malia Phelps Waller' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids?

The average episode length on EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids is 35 minutes.

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Episodes of EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids was released on Dec 13, 2022.

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