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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

Dr. Taylor Day

welcome to a parenting space actually designed for YOU! where you can get answers about navigating a life that includes autism. I’m Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism and neuroaffirming care. I have supported 100s of autistic children and their families and have been in the autism field for over a decade. on this podcast, we focus on supporting your autistic child AND your whole family, including you! every topic is on the table, and your questions (which you can submit through my social media) inspire the episodes created. I share some of my personal stories growing up with a brother who was diagnosed at 23 months of age as well as feature other families' stories so you know you are not navigating this journey alone. this is a space for you to be SEEN. HEARD. SUPPORTED. and get reputable and reliable information about autism instead of searching Google endlessly for hours. I am so dang grateful that you are here. ***disclaimer: not clinical advice, for educational purposes only*** subscribe to this podcast by hitting the plus or follow button so you don't miss an episode.
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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 169 | from navigating a medical condition and developmental disabilities to advocacy with Camille Joy
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04/16/25 • 40 min

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Dr. Tay is joined by Camille Joy, an advocate and host of the Moments of Joy podcast. They discuss Camille's journey as a mother of five boys, including her youngest son Maison, who has a congenital heart defect, autism, and intellectual disability. They dive into the importance of early diagnosis, navigating the education system, and advocating for children's needs. Camille shares her experiences with challenging the status quo, particularly around getting Maison access to music and art classes. The conversation also touches on emotional processing, the significance of support systems, and Camille's initiatives including her podcast and children's book, The Adventures of Maison and Mr. Straw: Mac and Cheese Please.

00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement

00:44 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Mission

01:55 Camille Joy's Family and Advocacy Journey

02:36 Maison's Diagnosis and Early Intervention

03:26 Challenges and Realizations in Parenting

05:28 Navigating Medical and Educational Systems

10:29 Advocating for Mason's Education

17:08 Using AI for Advocacy and Legal Rights

21:17 Understanding the Importance of Data Collection

22:15 Advocating for Your Child's Needs

25:34 Navigating Emotional Challenges

33:25 The Journey of Starting a Podcast

35:46 Introducing Maison's Adventures

39:25 Conclusion and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ purchase Camille and Maison’s book here (profits go directly to a savings account for Maison)

⚡️ listen in to the Moments of Joy podcast here

⚡️follow her on Instagram, TikTok, & Facebook

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 154 | sex education for autistic youth with Dr. Michelle Fardella

154 | sex education for autistic youth with Dr. Michelle Fardella

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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02/12/25 • 42 min

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Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Michelle Fardella, a clinical and school psychologist from Canada, to discuss the critical topic of sex education for autistic youth. The conversation covers various aspects, including the importance of proactive sex education, teaching body autonomy, consent, and addressing misconceptions. They delve into barriers faced by autistic youth in accessing comprehensive sex education and emphasize safety and appropriate teaching methods. Additionally, the episode touches on gender identity, sexual orientation, and provides practical resources for parents and educators. Trigger warnings and the importance of seeking support are also highlighted to ensure a safe and informative discussion.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:29 Meet Dr. Michelle Fardella

02:43 Trigger Warning and Sensitive Topics

03:57 Dr. Fardella's Background and Passion

06:26 Challenges in Sex Education for Autistic Youth

08:09 Importance of Tailored Sex Education

10:27 Parental Mindset and Barriers

18:03 Starting Early: Teaching Consent and Safety

20:01 Navigating Discomfort and Finding Safe Persons

23:43 The Accidental Exposure to Pornography

23:58 Discussing Pornography with Young Children

25:11 Proactive Conversations About Intercourse

26:04 Addressing Misconceptions from Pornography

28:13 Honesty in Answering Kids' Questions

30:10 Resources for Teaching Sexual Health

32:46 Masturbation: Education and Safety

36:00 Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation

41:04 Conclusion and Additional Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ find resources for talking about these topics on Dr. Michelle’s blog >> https://www.wondertreepractice.ca/post/a-caregiver-s-guide-to-teaching-sex-education-to-neurodivergent-youth

⚡️follow WonderTree Practice on Instagram and learn more about their services here if you’re in Ontario

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 153 | a new era of pediatric care with Dr. Mona Amin @pedsdoctalk

153 | a new era of pediatric care with Dr. Mona Amin @pedsdoctalk

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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02/05/25 • 49 min

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In this episode, Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist and parental coach, speaks with Dr. Mona Amin, a board-certified pediatrician known for her social media presence as PedsDocTalk. They discuss critical aspects of navigating the journey of raising an autistic child, including effective strategies for interacting with pediatricians, advocating for necessary accommodations, and understanding the nuances of autism diagnosis. Dr. Mona shares insights on the importance of continual learning for clinicians and collaboration between professionals and parents. The conversation also addresses handling common challenges such as anxiety, behavioral issues, and medical fears in autistic children. This episode is a valuable resource for parents and professionals alike, providing practical tips and underscoring the significance of empathy and communication in pediatric care.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:31 Meet Dr. Mona Amin

02:50 Dr. Mona's Online Education Journey

05:32 Navigating Autism Diagnosis

07:44 State Differences in Autism Diagnosis

10:58 Screening Tools and Challenges

15:11 Parental Advocacy and Pediatrician Collaboration

19:27 Collaborations and Resources

25:38 Accommodations for Autistic Patients

26:28 Understanding Accommodations for Autistic Children

26:57 Creating a Low-Stim Environment

27:50 Effective Communication with Autistic Children

28:28 Handling Medical Procedures with Care

31:47 Addressing Anxiety and Medical Fears

32:18 Role-Playing and Preparation at Home

33:04 Strategies for Reducing Stress in Medical Settings

34:31 Training Medical Staff for Better Care

40:08 Procedures and Special Considerations

41:26 Addressing Sleep, Feeding, and Behavior Issues

47:10 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ continue learning and connecting with Dr. Mona @pedsdoctalk on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, podcast, and her website.

⚡️ watch Dr. Mona and Andi Putt @mrsspeechiep's YouTube video on autism characteristics and signs here.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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Dr. Tay hosts mother-son duo, Dr. Myava Clark and Chris Clark, to discuss their experiences and advocacy for navigating educational support systems for children with learning differences. Dr. Clark shares her early advocacy efforts for Chris who experienced developmental delays and learning differences. Chris talks about his realization of learning differently and points out the importance of open communication. their experiences inspired the co-founding of 'CASEN', an organization and program designed to guide young people on safe and responsible usage of social media. they provide resources on social-emotional development, bullying identification, mental health development, and social media readiness. both stress the importance of celebrating individuals' abilities and strengths rather than focusing on their weaknesses.

CHAPTERS:

02:23 Guests share their backgrounds

04:20 Discussion on early challenges and advocacy

13:25 Chris' personal experience and reflections

18:45 Advocacy in education and tailoring learning paths

23:05 Chris's high school experience

25:43 Chris' regrets and lessons learned

31:00 The role of parents in social dedia safety

32:51 The development of the CASEN program and app

35:32 The importance of social media readiness

RESOURCES

⚡️ ways to connect with Dr. Myava and Chris Clark >>

subscribe to the CASEN Newsletter: https://casenllc.com/

CASEN Resource library: https://casenllc.com/resource-library/

CASEN Courses: https://casenllc.com/casen-courses/

CASEN Platforms: https://casenllc.com/platforms/

⚡️apps for monitoring your child's social media >>

Kids 360 app: https://kids360.app/

Bark app: https://www.bark.us/

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism and other disabilities. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 62 | facing parenting fears about vacations with travel specialist and autism mom Kayla Castro
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08/30/23 • 49 min

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Dr. Tay welcomes Kayla Castro to the podcast, a certified autism travel professional and parent to an autistic child. this episode focuses on the fears, challenges, and joys of traveling as an autism family. Kayla shares her family's story and provides practical advice on how to navigate travel with autistic family members. the conversation includes tips on how to make travel more accessible, including the use of the Disability Access Service Pass at Disney and the TSA Cares Initiative. Kayla also discusses tools and strategies to prepare your child for travel. the episode offers a comprehensive guide to autism-friendly travel.

CHAPTERS

(0:00:00) - introduction and description of a certified autism travel professional

(0:05:00) - sharing her family's autism story and their travel experiences

(0:10:48) - IBCCES and certified autism centers (learn more here)

(0:12:17) - Disability Access Service Pass at Disney and Accessibility Cards for other theme parks

(0:21:36) - TSA Cares Initiative and other flying accomodations

(0:28:29) - sunflower lanyard (get yours here)

(0:32:00) - preparation for trips, including front-loading, YouTube, and picky eating

(0:35:10) - a deeper discussion around fear

(0:41:30) - travel services Kayla provides for families

RESOURCES

⚡️connect with Kayla on Instagram and via email. and visit her website to learn more about her services and offerings and read her blog.

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 56 | a culinary adventure: how cooking can help autistic children with Chef Sofya Stearns

56 | a culinary adventure: how cooking can help autistic children with Chef Sofya Stearns

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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08/16/23 • 27 min

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Dr. Tay welcomes Sofya Stearns, founder of Izabella's Gourmet Chow, to the podcast to share her journey of using cooking as a means to explore cultures, support autistic children, and promote healthy eating. Sofya also shares tips on making cooking fun and safe for kids, such as using plastic knives and transforming ordinary foods into extraordinary creations. throughout the episode, she emphasizes the importance of making cooking a fun exploration and a journey rather than just a task.

RESOURCES

⚡️ learn about Izabella's Gourmet Chow and virtual cooking classes for your child.

⚡️ connect with Chef Sofya on social media, including 5 recipes she put together for you >>

Instagram @izabellasgourmetchow

TikTok @izabellasgourmetchow

Facebook Izabella's Gourmet Chow

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 45 | Q+A: can autism be diagnosed before 18 months of age? insights into early identification
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07/21/23 • 9 min

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

Q: my child is 13 months old and has developmental delays. I'm concerned about autism. how do I know if it's autism or a developmental delay? my pediatrician says they won't start screening for autism until 18 months of age.

A: Dr. Tay unpacks the American Academy of Pediatrics guidelines for autism screening and breaks down the science to address this question. in short, autism can be diagnosed accurately (for some but not all children) beginning at 14 months of age. practical next steps are provided, with encouragement to act early so your child can get necessary supports as soon as possible.

RESOURCES

⚡️ the research study referenced in today's episode: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31034004/

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 48 | Q+A: a closer look into Dr. Tay's concierge private practice for autism support

48 | Q+A: a closer look into Dr. Tay's concierge private practice for autism support

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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07/28/23 • 12 min

answering YOUR questions on today's episode!

a parent requested for me to share about the services that are provided through my private practice. and since this is often a common question, I decided to dedicate a Q+A episode to it!

I dive into my concierge model, explain how pricing works, and describe the high level of care your child (and your family given The Whole Family ApproachTM) would receive. we review the three current services offered: diagnostic evaluation, 1:1 therapy, and group therapy.

⚡️if you want to learn more, schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions. you can also visit drtaylorday.com.

NOTE: at the time of recording (July 2023), I am currently able to practice in the following states: AL, AZ, AR, CO, CNMI, CT, DE, DC, FL, GA, ID, IL, IN, KS, KY, ME, MD, MI, MN, MO, NE, NV, NH, NJ, NC, OH, OK, PA, TN, TX, UT, VA, WA, WV, WI, WY. additionally, SC and ND are expected to be added in the coming month! international families will be considered on a case-by-case basis depending on your country's regulations.

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES

⚡️ don't forget to subscribe to this podcast so you don't miss any of the free content I share! currently episodes are being published three times per week.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

DISCLAIMER >> anything shared on this podcast should not be considered clinical advice, and you should consult with your team of medical, mental health, and developmental providers if you need support.

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 38 | redefining {autism} parenting through Human Design with Allison Cullen

38 | redefining {autism} parenting through Human Design with Allison Cullen

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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07/05/23 • 47 min

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in this episode, Dr. Tay and guest Allison Cullen (@youdowoo), take listeners on an in-depth exploration of Human Design - a unique blend of biochemistry, genetics, chakras, energy (through the role of neutrinos), and personality. the discussion unfolds to reveal how understanding Human Design can transform parenting and family dynamics. Allison explains the 5 different energy types that can equip parents to understand themselves and to connect with their children on a deeper level. the episode touches upon the emerging paradigm in which neurodivergence and energy communication will be even more prevalent, and how the science of Human Design can help individuals redefine themselves, their passions, and their relationships.

CHAPTERS

0:03:51 - an introduction to Human Design and the science behind it

0:10:46 - the 5 different energy types and applications to parenting

0:28:53 - how Human Design relates to autism and the unfolding paradigm shift (including for non-speaking autistic individuals)

0:41:25 - parenting yourself

RESOURCES

⚡️grab your free Human Design chart & cheat sheet here: https://youdowoo.mykajabi.com/human-design-cheat-sheet

⚡️to dive in even further, book a 60-minute HD reading with Allison (use the code DRTAY20 for 20% off): https://youdowoo.mykajabi.com/60-minute-human-design-reading

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family ApproachTM and current services offered? schedule a free consult call here or email [email protected] if you have questions.

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids - 156 | SPECIAL EPISODE education laws under siege: what it means for your autistic child

156 | SPECIAL EPISODE education laws under siege: what it means for your autistic child

EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids

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02/21/25 • 69 min

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In this special episode, Dr. Tay welcomes back special education attorney Ashley Barlow to discuss critical updates impacting special education in the U.S. They delve into the Texas vs. Becerra case regarding the potential elimination of Section 504 protections, explore potential changes within the Department of Education, and highlight the significance of grassroots advocacy. Dr. Tay and Ashley provide valuable insights on how parents can proactively advocate for their children's educational rights, navigate current stresses, and use available resources effectively. The episode underscores the importance of building strong relationships with IEP teams and staying informed about legislative changes that may affect the neurodivergent community.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:10 Meet Ashley Barlow: Special Education Attorney

00:19 Understanding 504 IEP and Its Importance

03:18 Concerns About Losing 504 Protections

08:04 Impact of Losing 504 on Disability Community

14:20 Advocacy and Grassroots Efforts

30:21 Potential Changes in the Department of Education

39:23 Government Efficiency and DEI Initiatives

40:59 Impact on Education and Research

42:23 State-Level Implications and Comparisons

44:25 Project 2025 and Potential Changes

45:47 Real-Life Impacts on Special Education

54:48 Advocacy and Legislative Engagement

01:02:51 Practical Advice for Parents

01:08:17 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ CHECK OUT Ashley’s $9 training for building collaborative teams: https://ashleybarlowco.com/video-2-from-tension-to-teamwork-harnessing-conflict-for-iep-success

⚡️FOLLOW Ashley on Instagram @thecollaborativeiep

⚡️ TAKE ACTION and download the 5 calls app and start making calls

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism

⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

Instagram @the.dr.tay

TikTok @the.dr.tay

LinkedIn @the-dr-tay

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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids currently has 170 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Parenting, Kids & Family, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Education.

What is the most popular episode on EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids?

The episode title '105 | navigating homeschooling for your autistic child with Malia Phelps Waller' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids?

The average episode length on EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids is 35 minutes.

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Episodes of EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids are typically released every 7 days.

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The first episode of EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids was released on Dec 13, 2022.

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