Giving Up on Perfect

02/15/22 • 16 min

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I do not imagine that I will settle centuries of debate about just how good we are, except that I believe that it is somewhere between two poles: everything and nothing. Perfection is impossible, but transformation isn’t. We can change a bit, if we really want to. This is the choice embedded in every day, the moment we wake up. We will have to find enough momentum to reach for a life that is never perfect, but good enough.

Jessica Richie, my executive producer and co-writer and co-dreamer of this podcast, started just SAYING THAT. GOOD ENOUGH. Which made us laugh. So we said it again. Good Enough became a little permission slip for us. A little shrug that takes us off the hook for perfection and reminds us that we are human. Again today. Inside fragile bodies and contingent relationships and a whole web of love.

Good Enough: 40ish Devotionals for a Life of Imperfection is available now wherever books are sold.

And as a little treat for you, here is an excerpt from the audiobook, read by yours truly. It’s a little something my grandpa taught me about what it means to be content... and how contentment might look different for all of us.

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Rick Mercer: Proud of Absolutely Everybody

Rick Mercer didn’t exactly know he was allowed to be proud. As a teenager, he was barely making it through high school and traveling the island province of Newfoundland, Canada, as the sidekick to a kindly clown. But being an outsider gave him a unique perspective. His razor wit, biting political commentary, and celebration of small town dreams would make him one of Canada’s most beloved voices.

Together, Kate and Rick talk about:

Their shared love of being Canadian (and why the Meech Lake Accord was so funny)
The rather unhelpful suggestions people offer one another
Why it feels so good to be proud of people doing what they love

This episode is sure to make you laugh (even if the Canadian references go over your head) and feel proud to be where you’re from—no matter how obscure.

CW: spicy language, negative perceptions of coming out

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Kate Baer: Tolerating Imperfection

Poet Kate Baer found herself inundated with the demands of motherhood and little time to write. Nothing was easy and then, at a breaking point, it felt impossible. If she wanted a creative life, she was going to have to redefine “perfection” (perfect mom! perfect woman!) and learn to tolerate a lot more imperfection instead.

On this episode of Kate & Kate, they discuss:

How friendships give permission to speak honestly (and why your friendships are actually important)
Why not every experience (motherhood, marriage) is “fulfilling”
How they each went off-script to find meaning
Kate Baer’s great love for Panera Bread

CW: postpartum depression

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