
Ask Away! #2 | The Q&A Series
02/12/25 • 24 min
How do you balance family expectations with religious traditions during a bar mitzvah when the number of aliyahs doesn't seem to accommodate everyone? Join us as we navigate the complexities of distributing honors during family celebrations, sharing personal stories from my son's bar mitzvah. You'll hear about creative solutions like assigning roles such as chazen and strategically dividing aliyahs while keeping halachic guidelines in mind. We also uncover the fascinating Sephardic custom of adding aliyahs for fundraising purposes and discuss the sensitive protocol for calling converts to the Torah. And yes, there's an engaging discussion on whether women can be part of a quorum, adding another layer to this intricate tapestry of tradition.
Moving beyond the bar mitzvah, we'll delve into the intriguing dynamics of Kohen, Levi, and Yisrael statuses, exploring the impact on family lineage when life throws unexpected curveballs. Experience the richness of Jewish law where a child's Kohen status remains resilient even amidst family changes, such as the death of a father or a mother's subsequent remarriage. Explore the beautiful diversity of Jewish practices, comparing the Torah display customs between Sephardic and Ashkenazic communities. And as we wrap up, you'll be invited to another thought-provoking learning session with Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, where your questions aren't just welcome—they're your ticket to deeper understanding.
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The Everyday Judaism Podcast is dedicated to learning, understanding and appreciating the greatness of Jewish heritage and the Torah through the simplified, concise study of Halacha, Jewish Law, thereby enhancing our understanding of how Hashem wants us to live our daily lives in a Jewish way.
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This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Marshall & Doreen Lerner
- Download & Print the Everyday Judaism Halacha Notes:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1RL-PideM42B_LFn6pbrk8MMU5-zqlLG5
This episode (Ep. #24) of the Everyday Judaism Podcast by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe of TORCH is dedicated to my dearest friends, Marshall & Doreen Lerner! May Hashem bless you and always lovingly accept your prayer for good health, success and true happiness!!!
Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studio (B) to a live audience on February 2, 2025, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on February 12, 2025
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DONATE to TORCH: Please consider supporting the podcasts by making a donation to help fund our Jewish outreach and educational efforts at https://www.torchweb.org/support.php. Thank you!
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SUBSCRIBE and LISTEN to other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe:
- NEW!! Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
- Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
- Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
- Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
- Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
- Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
- Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes
For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at https://www.TORCHpodcasts.com
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EMAIL your questions, comments, and feedback: [email protected]
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Please visit www.torchweb.org to see a full listing of our outreach and educational resources available in the Greater Houston area!
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#AskAway, #Halacha, #Jewishlaw, #Jewishtradition, #JewishRituals, #BarMitzvah
How do you balance family expectations with religious traditions during a bar mitzvah when the number of aliyahs doesn't seem to accommodate everyone? Join us as we navigate the complexities of distributing honors during family celebrations, sharing personal stories from my son's bar mitzvah. You'll hear about creative solutions like assigning roles such as chazen and strategically dividing aliyahs while keeping halachic guidelines in mind. We also uncover the fascinating Sephardic custom of adding aliyahs for fundraising purposes and discuss the sensitive protocol for calling converts to the Torah. And yes, there's an engaging discussion on whether women can be part of a quorum, adding another layer to this intricate tapestry of tradition.
Moving beyond the bar mitzvah, we'll delve into the intriguing dynamics of Kohen, Levi, and Yisrael statuses, exploring the impact on family lineage when life throws unexpected curveballs. Experience the richness of Jewish law where a child's Kohen status remains resilient even amidst family changes, such as the death of a father or a mother's subsequent remarriage. Explore the beautiful diversity of Jewish practices, comparing the Torah display customs between Sephardic and Ashkenazic communities. And as we wrap up, you'll be invited to another thought-provoking learning session with Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, where your questions aren't just welcome—they're your ticket to deeper understanding.
_____________
The Everyday Judaism Podcast is dedicated to learning, understanding and appreciating the greatness of Jewish heritage and the Torah through the simplified, concise study of Halacha, Jewish Law, thereby enhancing our understanding of how Hashem wants us to live our daily lives in a Jewish way.
_____________
This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Marshall & Doreen Lerner
- Download & Print the Everyday Judaism Halacha Notes:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1RL-PideM42B_LFn6pbrk8MMU5-zqlLG5
This episode (Ep. #24) of the Everyday Judaism Podcast by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe of TORCH is dedicated to my dearest friends, Marshall & Doreen Lerner! May Hashem bless you and always lovingly accept your prayer for good health, success and true happiness!!!
Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studio (B) to a live audience on February 2, 2025, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on February 12, 2025
_____________
DONATE to TORCH: Please consider supporting the podcasts by making a donation to help fund our Jewish outreach and educational efforts at https://www.torchweb.org/support.php. Thank you!
_____________
SUBSCRIBE and LISTEN to other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe:
- NEW!! Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
- Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
- Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
- Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
- Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
- Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
- Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes
For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at https://www.TORCHpodcasts.com
_____________
EMAIL your questions, comments, and feedback: [email protected]
_____________
Please visit www.torchweb.org to see a full listing of our outreach and educational resources available in the Greater Houston area!
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#AskAway, #Halacha, #Jewishlaw, #Jewishtradition, #JewishRituals, #BarMitzvah
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Ep. 27 - Laws of Torah Reading (Siman 23)
Join us on the Everyday Judaism Podcast as we embark on an enlightening exploration of the traditions and laws surrounding Torah reading in the synagogue. In this episode, we journey through the origins of public Torah reading, from the decree of Moshe at Mount Sinai to the expansion by Ezra the Scribe, establishing readings on Mondays, Thursdays, and Jewish observances. We unravel key terms such as "aliyah," "oleh," "amud," and "bima," emphasizing their roles within the synagogue. The episode also highlights the proper handling and procession of the Torah, underscoring the reverence and respectful gestures like kissing the Torah and escorting it during its movement.
As we navigate through the intricate hierarchy in Jewish prayers and synagogue customs, the discussion sheds light on the distinctions among Kohanim, Levites, and Yisraelites. You'll discover who receives the first aliyah and the subtleties of maintaining respect and order in religious practices. Through engaging anecdotes and thoughtful guidance, we explore the realities faced when traditions intersect with everyday occurrences, such as being called for an aliyah mid-prayer or dealing with the absence of a designated Kohen. This exploration provides a rich tapestry of tradition and modernity, ensuring listeners gain a deeper appreciation for these cherished customs.
Finally, we address unique situations, like maintaining Torah observance in isolation due to unexpected travel disruptions. Learn the importance of carrying a Chumash to read the Torah portion aloud and the guidelines for reading from a Torah scroll without a minyan. Special considerations for aliyahs, fast days, and the presence of Israeli visitors during diaspora festivals are also discussed. The episode offers a comprehensive guide to ensuring a smooth and respectful Torah reading experience, whether in the synagogue or in isolation, bringing the teachings of the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch to life.
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The Everyday Judaism Podcast is dedicated to learning, understanding and appreciating the greatness of Jewish heritage and the Torah through the simplified, concise study of Halacha, Jewish Law, thereby enhancing our understanding of how Hashem wants us to live our daily lives in a Jewish way.
_____________
This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Marshall & Doreen Lerner
- Download & Print the Everyday Judaism Halacha Notes:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1RL-PideM42B_LFn6pbrk8MMU5-zqlLG5
This episode (Ep. #27) of the Everyday Judaism Podcast by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe of TORCH is dedicated to my dearest friends, Marshall & Doreen Lerner! May Hashem bless you and always lovingly accept your prayer for good health, success and true happiness!!!
Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studio (B) to a live audience on February 2, 2025, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on February 9, 2025
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DONATE to TORCH: Please consider supporting the podcasts by making a donation to help fund our Jewish outreach and educational efforts at https://www.torchweb.org/support.php. Thank you!
_____________
SUBSCRIBE and LISTEN to other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe:
- NEW!! Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
- Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
- Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
- Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
- Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
- Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
- Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes
For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at https://www.TORCHpodcasts.com
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EMAIL your questions, comments, and feedback: [email protected]
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Ep. 29 - Laws of Invalid Torah (Siman 24)
Join us on this enlightening episode as we unravel the complexities surrounding the laws of an invalid Torah scroll. Together, we examine the various factors that can render a Torah scroll invalid, from extra or missing letters to improper spacing and other textual anomalies. Discover the intricate details of how even a single error can lead to the need for a replacement scroll, and learn about the advancements in technology, such as OCR scanning, that are helping to ensure the accuracy and integrity of these sacred texts.
Listen in as we explore the unique characteristics and preservation challenges of sacred Jewish texts, particularly those written on parchment, such as Torah scrolls and tefillin. We discuss the distinct differences between parchment and paper, the behavior of ink under environmental influences, and the halachic implications of maintaining these texts properly. Hear about personal experiences in evaluating and restoring these sacred items, and gain insights into the aging process of parchment and ink that can lead to invalidation over time.
Finally, navigate with us through the protocols for handling errors and damages found during Torah readings. We discuss the steps to take when errors are discovered, including the conditions under which a reading can continue. Learn about the delicate process of removing wax from a Torah scroll without damaging the sacred text, especially when the names of Hashem are present, and understand the prohibitions against reading from memory. With practical tips and spiritual insights, this episode promises to enhance your appreciation for the precision and care required in maintaining the Torah's sanctity.
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The Everyday Judaism Podcast is dedicated to learning, understanding and appreciating the greatness of Jewish heritage and the Torah through the simplified, concise study of Halacha, Jewish Law, thereby enhancing our understanding of how Hashem wants us to live our daily lives in a Jewish way.
_____________
This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Marshall & Doreen Lerner
- Download & Print the Everyday Judaism Halacha Notes:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1RL-PideM42B_LFn6pbrk8MMU5-zqlLG5
This episode (Ep. #29) of the Everyday Judaism Podcast by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe of TORCH is dedicated to my dearest friends, Marshall & Doreen Lerner! May Hashem bless you and always lovingly accept your prayer for good health, success and true happiness!!!
Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studio (B) to a live audience on February 9, 2025, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on February 16, 2025
_____________
DONATE to TORCH: Please consider supporting the podcasts by making a donation to help fund our Jewish outreach and educational efforts at https://www.torchweb.org/support.php. Thank you!
_____________
SUBSCRIBE and LISTEN to other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe:
- NEW!! Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
- Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
- Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
- Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
- Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
- Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
- Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes
For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at https://www.TORCHpodcasts.com
_____________
EMAIL your questions, comments, and feedback: [email protected]
_____________
Please visit www.torchweb.org to see a full listing of our outreach and educational resources available in the Greater Houston area!
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#Halacha, #Jewishlaw, #Jewishtradition, #TorahScrolls, #Sanctity
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