
Why We Must Bridge Divides: A Conversation on Inclusive Leadership with Sally Helgesen & Mercedes Martin
06/16/23 • 54 min
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In a society where race, culture, and identity are often sources of division, bridging the conversation on race and equity is imperative. By fostering open and honest dialogues, organizations can create safe spaces for employees to share their experiences and perspectives, ultimately leading to a more inclusive and equitable workplace.
Simma Lieberman, Sally Helgesen, and Mercedes Martin explored the importance of bridging the conversation on race and equity during their discussion. They acknowledged the challenges of fostering these dialogues and shared their experiences in navigating the complexities of identity, race, and belonging.
Sally reflected on her close relationships with African Americans throughout her life and the impact of their struggles on shaping her understanding of race and equity.
Mercedes, an Afro-Latina woman from Cuba, spoke about her purpose in helping organizations tackle diversity and inclusion by shifting mindsets and embracing collaboration.
In this episode, you will be able to:
● Discover the significance of uniting as a team to create an all-embracing workplace environment.
•Embrace the benefits of acknowledging various personal histories and experiences.
• Acquire tools for seeking common ground and defusing challenging situations to resolve conflicts and misunderstandings
● Explore the expansion of diversity beyond gender, focusing on race and values.
● Recognize the importance of appreciating different backgrounds and experiences.
● Understand the role of individual change in sustaining diversity and inclusion among leaders.
● Learn how to identify commonalities and navigate through difficult situations to overcome division and polarization.
During the episode, Sally Helgesen and Mercedes Martin shared their personal experiences and emphasized the importance of fostering a sense of belonging within the workplace. They discussed the power of embracing people's diverse backgrounds, experiences, and perspectives in order to build stronger connections and more effective workforces. Simma Lieberman highlighted the need to support one another and rise together in the pursuit of inclusion and equity, sharing insights from both Sally's and Mercedes's experiences in the field.
Sally, Mercedes and Simma discuss the urgency of sustainable change and emphasize that in order to sustain change, it is necessary to start from within. They talk about the importance of transforming oneself along with the organization and how change management needs to involve everyone in the organization. They also talk about the fear of leadership in addressing diversity and inclusion, especially pertaining to race, and how it needs to start with a clear why and work with the leadership in understanding the need for change.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:01:13 - Introduction of Sally Helgesen
00:02:26 - Introduction of Mercedes Martin
00:06:49 - Sally Helgesen's motivation for writing "Rising Together"
00:09:53 - Introduction of Mercedes Martin's background and cultural identity
00:19:07 - Creating a Culture of Inclusion
00:22:23 - The Importance of Inclusive Leadership
00:24:10 - Bridging the Conversation on Race and Equity
00:27:20 - Multiple Identities and Belonging
00:35:33 - The Importance of Self-reflection
00:37:24 - Importance of Authentic Leadership for Inclusion
00:39:05 - Characteristics of Inclusive Leadership
00:42:43 - Sustainable Change: Individual and Systemic Change
00:48:00 - Inhabiting the Middle Amidst Polarization
Guest Bio
Sally Helgesen is a renowned expert on women's leadership and an internationally bestselling author, speaker, and leadership coach. Honored in Forbes as the world's premier expert on women's leadership, she has been inducted into the Thinkers 50 Hall of Fame, which recognizes influential leaders in the field of leadership worldwide. Ranked number three among the world's thought leaders by Global Gurus, Sally has recently released her book, Rising Together, which offers practical ways to build more inclusive relationships, teams, and workplaces.
Mercedes Martin is a native Spanish-speaking international executive coach and consultant from Cuba with a wealth of experience in global leadership, diversity, and sustainability development. Working with Fortune 50 companies such as PepsiCo, Proctor and Gamble, Shell Oil, and Kellogg's, Mercedes has helped senior leaders, women, and people of color rise in their careers. As the founder of Mercedes Martin and Company, she continues to focus on supporting leadership in rewiring their mindset and embracing conversations on divers...
Join Everyday Conversations on Race for Everyday People, the podcast that brings real talk and real change to the forefront.
In a society where race, culture, and identity are often sources of division, bridging the conversation on race and equity is imperative. By fostering open and honest dialogues, organizations can create safe spaces for employees to share their experiences and perspectives, ultimately leading to a more inclusive and equitable workplace.
Simma Lieberman, Sally Helgesen, and Mercedes Martin explored the importance of bridging the conversation on race and equity during their discussion. They acknowledged the challenges of fostering these dialogues and shared their experiences in navigating the complexities of identity, race, and belonging.
Sally reflected on her close relationships with African Americans throughout her life and the impact of their struggles on shaping her understanding of race and equity.
Mercedes, an Afro-Latina woman from Cuba, spoke about her purpose in helping organizations tackle diversity and inclusion by shifting mindsets and embracing collaboration.
In this episode, you will be able to:
● Discover the significance of uniting as a team to create an all-embracing workplace environment.
•Embrace the benefits of acknowledging various personal histories and experiences.
• Acquire tools for seeking common ground and defusing challenging situations to resolve conflicts and misunderstandings
● Explore the expansion of diversity beyond gender, focusing on race and values.
● Recognize the importance of appreciating different backgrounds and experiences.
● Understand the role of individual change in sustaining diversity and inclusion among leaders.
● Learn how to identify commonalities and navigate through difficult situations to overcome division and polarization.
During the episode, Sally Helgesen and Mercedes Martin shared their personal experiences and emphasized the importance of fostering a sense of belonging within the workplace. They discussed the power of embracing people's diverse backgrounds, experiences, and perspectives in order to build stronger connections and more effective workforces. Simma Lieberman highlighted the need to support one another and rise together in the pursuit of inclusion and equity, sharing insights from both Sally's and Mercedes's experiences in the field.
Sally, Mercedes and Simma discuss the urgency of sustainable change and emphasize that in order to sustain change, it is necessary to start from within. They talk about the importance of transforming oneself along with the organization and how change management needs to involve everyone in the organization. They also talk about the fear of leadership in addressing diversity and inclusion, especially pertaining to race, and how it needs to start with a clear why and work with the leadership in understanding the need for change.
The key moments in this episode are:
00:01:13 - Introduction of Sally Helgesen
00:02:26 - Introduction of Mercedes Martin
00:06:49 - Sally Helgesen's motivation for writing "Rising Together"
00:09:53 - Introduction of Mercedes Martin's background and cultural identity
00:19:07 - Creating a Culture of Inclusion
00:22:23 - The Importance of Inclusive Leadership
00:24:10 - Bridging the Conversation on Race and Equity
00:27:20 - Multiple Identities and Belonging
00:35:33 - The Importance of Self-reflection
00:37:24 - Importance of Authentic Leadership for Inclusion
00:39:05 - Characteristics of Inclusive Leadership
00:42:43 - Sustainable Change: Individual and Systemic Change
00:48:00 - Inhabiting the Middle Amidst Polarization
Guest Bio
Sally Helgesen is a renowned expert on women's leadership and an internationally bestselling author, speaker, and leadership coach. Honored in Forbes as the world's premier expert on women's leadership, she has been inducted into the Thinkers 50 Hall of Fame, which recognizes influential leaders in the field of leadership worldwide. Ranked number three among the world's thought leaders by Global Gurus, Sally has recently released her book, Rising Together, which offers practical ways to build more inclusive relationships, teams, and workplaces.
Mercedes Martin is a native Spanish-speaking international executive coach and consultant from Cuba with a wealth of experience in global leadership, diversity, and sustainability development. Working with Fortune 50 companies such as PepsiCo, Proctor and Gamble, Shell Oil, and Kellogg's, Mercedes has helped senior leaders, women, and people of color rise in their careers. As the founder of Mercedes Martin and Company, she continues to focus on supporting leadership in rewiring their mindset and embracing conversations on divers...
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Rising Above Racism: Dr. Randal Pinkett's Journey to DEI Expertise
From being called the N-word as a child to becoming a successful entrepreneur and leader in the pursuit of racial equality and justice, Randal Pinkett's very personal story is a testament to courage and resilience. Yet, despite his success, Randal still faces an unexpected challenge: convincing organizations to embrace the power of race to drive meaningful change.
After 30 years in business, Randal Pinkett, a trained computer scientist and DEI expert, faced an ironic twist of fate when an acquisitions editor at his publisher challenges him to confront his own deeply held beliefs and write a book on Data Driven DEI, forcing him to embark on a journey to change the people, and ultimately the organizations, around him.
Are you frustrated with trying to improve DEI in your organization, only to be met with stagnant results? Discover how to break through the status quo by leveraging data-driven solutions, targeted universalism strategies, meaningful conversations about race, and effective leadership to cultivate real change.
Key Takeaways:
- Dr. Randal Pinkett's personal journey as a young Black man impacted by racism that led him to become a leader in Diversity, Equity and Inclusion.
- Harness data-driven tools to effectively measure diversity, equity, and inclusion.
- What it means to apply targeted universalism strategies to fight systemic racism and promote equality.
- Navigate challenging racial conversations for constructive and positive outcomes.
- Comprehend the critical role of leadership in cultivating inclusive work environments.
- Investigate the effects of social media echo chambers on society and individuals.
00:02 - Introduction, Simma Lieberman introduces the podcast and the guest, Dr. Randall Pinkett, who is an entrepreneur, innovator, and DEI expert. She also talks about the purpose of the podcast, which is to have comfortable conversations about race between people of different races. 02:47 - About Randall Pinkett and Data Driven DEI, Randall Pinkett talks about his background, growing up as a Black person in a predominantly White neighborhood, and his experience of racism at a young age. He also discusses his book, Data Driven DEI which focuses on personal and organizational assessments to promote diversity, equity, and inclusion. 08:10 - People Change, Randall Pinkett emphasizes that organizations don't change, people do. He explains that for any organization to transform, individuals must undertake a personal journey of self-reflection and growth. He also talks about the importance of targeting his book towards everyday people, who want to foster more diverse relationships and inclusive behaviors. 09:10 - Randall Pinkett's Entrepreneurial Journey, How his entrepreneurial journey, began at the age of 21 when he started a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion training company with three other Black men. He talks about his desire to make a difference in the world and how he centered his company on addressing societal issues as an outgrowth of his lived experiences. 14:30 - Making a Difference in the World, College years in the 1990s, a time when hip hop was coming of age, and there were growing conversations around black consciousness and black economic empowerment. He and his business partners wanted to make a difference in the world and they used their entrepreneurial spirit to address societal issues. 16:26 - The Importance of Giving Back, How growing up in a religious household and being a man of faith has taught him to use his talents and gifts to benefit others. Randal Pinkett believes that success is what you do for yourself, while greatness is what you do for others. 18:20 - The Importance of Addressing Racism in DEI, Pinkett highlights that race is a key identifier when looking at differences in how people experience the world. He stresses the need to assess ourselves for racial biases and preferences and to address them head-on, as they are often the most challenging and polarizing factors in DEI conversations. 24:39 - Taking a Nuanced Approach to Inclusion, Pinkett discusses the importance of breaking down data by different demographic identifiers when assessing inclusion in organizations. He stresses that averages can obscure the experiences of subgroups and that it's critical to identify and address the needs of those who are not being included. 29:36 - The Importance of Seeking Diverse Perspectives, seeking out diverse perspectives when working on DEI initiatives. Being a narrow expert in one dimension can create blind spots and prevent the development of effective solutions. To achieve true diversity, equity, and inclusion, we must be willing to step out of our comfort zones and seek growth through diverse perspectives. 31:13 - Overcoming Divisiveness in DEI, Pinkett acknowledges that the current political climate has seen an unfortunate...
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Breaking Barriers: John Blake on Racial Reconciliation
In this conversation on race, Simma talks with John Blake, a well-known author, and journalist with CNN. He reports on race, religion, and politics. His most recent book is, More Than I Imagined: What a Black Man Discovered About the White Mother He Never Knew
John Blake's story begins with a familiar narrative of a biracial child struggling to find their place in a racially divided America. But just when you think you know where the story is headed, a surprising twist throws everything into question. What happens when John meets his estranged white family members as an adult? Will he reject them as he did with his white heritage? Or will he embrace them, leading to a transformative journey of empathy and forgiveness? Join us as we explore John's journey of racial reconciliation and the power of relationships in bridging seemingly impossible divides.
Why Race Is Important
Race is a central theme not only in the personal lives of many individuals but also in the larger context of American society. Understanding the importance of race requires recognizing that it shapes people's experiences, opportunities, and challenges in significant ways. By talking about race and valuing the various perspectives and experiences that come from different racial backgrounds, people can grow in empathy, cultivate meaningful relationships, and foster a more equitable and just society. In the conversation between Simma Lieberman and John Blake, John shares that his own experiences growing up as a biracial child with a white mother and black father has had a profound impact on his life, shaping both his personal struggles and his professional pursuits as a journalist reporting on race relations in America. He emphasizes that race is a key element in understanding and addressing social issues and that acknowledging and embracing diversity can ultimately bring people together and create a better society.
In this episode, you will be able to:
- Realize the potential of building bridges across racial divides for a more inclusive society.
- Grasp the impact of compassion and pardoning in breaking the shackles of prejudiced thinking.
- Appreciate how knowledge can be a catalyst for change in combating racism.
- Understand the intricacies of racial outlooks and the space for growth and transformation.
- Appreciate the value of purposeful diversity and interaction in minimizing bias.
The resources and solutions mentioned in this episode are:
- Purchase John Blake's book More Than I Imagined: What a Black Man Discovered About the White Mother He Never Knew
- Read John Blake's articles on CNN about race, religion, and politics
- Participate in Simma Lieberman's facilitated dialogues to bring people together across race
- Practice empathy and forgiveness towards individuals who may hold racist attitudes or beliefs
- Read books by authors like Ibram X. Kendi and Jon Blake to educate yourself on race and racism
- Take action towards creating a successful multiracial, multireligious democracy by working towards racial justice and equality in your community.
The key moments in this episode are
00:00:02 - Introduction
00:01:53 - Why Race Is Important
00:03:54 - Discovering His Mother's Race
00:05:49 - Meeting His Mentally Ill Mother
00:11:02 - Lessons About Empathy and Forgiveness
00:15:52 - The Importance of Relationships in Combating Racism
00:17:47 - The Need for Intentional Diversity
00:19:19 - Telling Optimistic Stories
00:21:57 - The Continual Conversion Process
00:26:45 - Creating Opportunities for Meaningful Contact
00:30:28 - Importance of Diversity in Communities
00:34:52 - The Capacity for Change in Racism
00:37:57 - Cancel Culture and the Importance of Listening
00:41:01 - Personal Music and Book Recommendations
00:42:08 - Recommended Readings and Eric Liu's Work
Guest Bio
John Blake is an award-winning journalist at CNN.com, the online site for CNN and an author. He has been honored by the Associated Press, the Society of Professional Journalists, the American Academy of Religion, the National Association of Black Journalists, the Religion Communicators Council and with the GLAAD Media Award. He was most recently the winner of the 2019 Sigma Delta Chi awards for Excellence in Journalism for his online columns on race and politics. His 2020 essay, “There’s One Epidemic We May Never Find a Cure For: Fear of Black Men in Public Spaces,” was recently selected by Bustle Digital Group as one of the 11 best essays on racism and police violence. The other authors on that list included Ta-Nehisi Coates, Ibram X. Kendi, and Roxane Gay. Blake’s book, “Ch...
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