Enneagram in Real Life

More Enneagram questions! Today’s show is packed with information, and the notes are filled with links! If there was something in the show you wanted to know more about, it’s probably linked below, so be sure to peruse these notes. PLUS, the start of the show features a brand new segment.

Today’s podcast covers the questions:

1. I’ve noticed as a 7 that I have a lot of 2ish tendencies like wanting to make sure that everyone in the room feels like they’re having a good time and just being obsessed about wanting everyone to feel cared for, is there a reason why a 7 would feel that way or have I mistyped myself as a 2?
2. How can 8s learn to be more aware of how their words affect others?
3. Is it possible to be one type in your professional life and another in your personal life?
4. What is the difference between type 6 & type 9?
5. Can you explain growth & stress arrows?

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Finding Purpose as an Enneagram 1 with Liz Goulding

Welcome back to Enneagram IRL, the weekly podcast where we go beyond Enneagram theory and dive into practical understanding, new clarity, and fresh insight. We’re talking about how each type is in REAL LIFE so you can remember – you’re more than just a number.

On this week’s episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Liz Goulding, ADAPT Certified Health and Wellness Coach. Liz focuses on the intersection of personal well-being and professional development, working primarily with creative professionals and self-employed individuals who want more energy and capacity to meet life's challenges and opportunities. We discuss navigating day-to-day life, running a coaching business, and experiencing personal growth as a Self-Preservation Type One. I’m particularly excited about this conversation because, fun fact, Liz is my personal coach!
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Looking for our key takeaways? Jump to them here:

• What does the Enneagram typing & self-discovery process look like? [09:57]
• Why is personal growth essential for a coaching professional? [17:12]
• Liz’s experience of being an Enneagram Type One [24:15]
• What is Strengths-Based Coaching? [37:47]
• About Liz Goulding’s Coaching Services [54:54]

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Liz Goulding’s Newsletter [1:32]
• Helping People Change by Richard Boyatzis [37:41]
• The Genius Zone by Gay Hendricks [44:11]
• The Power of Fun by Catherine Price [59:12]

This Week’s Guest Pick:

4,000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman [56:55]

We are here for all the little “a-ha!” moments along the way because when you hear your thoughts coming out of someone else’s brain, everything just clicks. If you like the show, leave a rating and a review to help more people find this podcast. If you didn’t like the show, just forget I said anything *wink*!

Enneagram Resources for YOU!

• Want to keep the conversation going? Join me on Instagram @ninetypesco to keep learning and chatting about how our types show up in REAL LIFE! Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco/?hl=en
  
• Learn more about subtypes! Download my free subtypes guide here.
  
• Want to keep learning? Join my Enneagram in Real Life course to start applying all this Enneagram knowledge and start GROWING! Check it out here: https://www.enneagramirl.com
  
• Want to stay up to date with all things Nine Types Co? Join my email-list and receive Enneagram reflections, thoughts about growth and personal development. Plus, you’ll get priority access to new offers and courses! Sign up here.
  
• Not sure about your type? Get my free self-typing guide and a series of six emails to walk you through the whole process. Sign up here: https://ninetypes.co/selftyping-guide

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Welcome back to Enneagram IRL, the weekly podcast where we go beyond Enneagram theory and dive into practical understanding, new clarity, and fresh insight. We’re talking about how each type is in REAL LIFE so you can remember – you’re more than just a number.

On this week’s episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Leslie McDaniel, a coach, personality consultant, and podcast host for creative and ambitious problem solvers who want to rediscover who they are and what matters most through the lens of personality type so they can live each day with purpose and intention. She can help you take your Myers-Briggs® or Enneagram personality type from a casual curiosity to a life-changing path for growth.

We discuss Myers-Briggs® Typology while touching on some basic and advanced theory. Leslie answers MBTI questions from the Nine Types Co. community and shares her passion for working with individuals using this personality system.

Follow Leslie on Instagram: @heyhihellopersonality

Listen to Leslie’s Podcast: The Hello Personality Podcast

Or connect with her online: https://hellopersonality.com/

Here are the key takeaways:

• Trends and patterns between MBTI Types & Enneagram Types
• Intro to the cognitive functions and using MBTI for growth
• Breaking down the specific type of INFJ
• What are practical differences between Sensing and Intuition?
• ISTJ vs. ISFJ
• Can your type change throughout your life?
• How can you connect with Leslie?

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Free MBTI & Enneagram Typing Guide by Leslie McDaniel
• Personality Hacker: Harness the Power of Your Personality Type to Transform Your Work, Relationships, and Life by Antonia Dodge and Joel Mark Witt
• Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman
• Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience by Brené Brown

Want to keep the conversation going? Join me on Instagram @ninetypesco to keep learning and chatting about how our types show up in REAL LIFE! Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco/?hl=en

Learn more about subtypes! Download my free subtypes guide here.

Want to stay up to date with all things Nine Types Co? Join my email-list and receive Enneagram reflections, thoughts about growth and personal development. Plus, you’ll get priority access to new offers and courses! Sign up here.

Not sure about your type? Get my free self-typing guide and a series of six emails to walk you through the whole process. Sign up here: https://ninetypes.co/selftyping-guide

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

On this week’s episode of Enneagram IRL we meet with Jackie Brewster, a certified Enneagram coach, experiential specialist, author, and speaker who consults with teams and people across the country. She shares daily, practical Enneagram content on her fast-growing Instagram page @enneagramwithjb. In her free time, Jackie loves to cook, work out, and spend time with friends, and is constantly on the hunt for growth and spiritual development in her own life. She and her husband, Stephen, have four amazing children and live in Franklin, Tennessee.

Order Jackie’s Workbook: The Enneagram and Your Marriage: A 7-Week Guide to Better Understanding and Loving Your Spouse

Follow Jackie on Instagram: @enneagramwithjb

Connect with Jackie online: Enneagramwithjb.com

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Here are the key takeaways:

• Jackie’s journey to finding her type
• A look inside Jackie’s relationship with her husband
• The writing process through Jackie’s lens
• Experiencing fear as a Type 7
• Recognizing our personality patterns
• “My partner is not interested in the Enneagram. How can we get on the same page of doing inner work using this tool?”
• How can the Enneagram be transformational as individuals and as partners in relationships?
• Jackie gives some helpful advice

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Atomic Habits by James Clear
• Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso, Russ Hudson
• Card Deck for Self-Awareness and Connection by Jackie Brewster

Want to keep the conversation going? Join me on Instagram @ninetypesco to keep learning and chatting about how our types show up in REAL LIFE! Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco/?hl=en

Learn more about subtypes! Download my free subtypes guide here.

Want to stay up to date with all things Nine Types Co? Join my email-list and receive Enneagram reflections, thoughts about growth and personal development. Plus, you’ll get priority access to new offers and courses! Sign up here.

Not sure about your type? Get my free self-typing guide and a series of six emails to walk you through the whole process. Sign up here: https://ninetypes.co/selftyping-guide

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

On this week’s episode of Enneagram IRL, we meet with Christa Hardin, MA, a relationship expert, author, as well as host of the popular Enneagram & Marriage Podcast. Christa has been working with and researching marriage for two decades, providing hope for couples who are struggling to find their light, love, and mission together in any season of relationship. Her most recent title, "The Enneagram in Marriage: Your Guide to Thriving Together in Your Unique Pairing," is out now from Baker Books!

Grab her book here!

🔗 Connect with Christa!

💻 www.enneagramandmarriage.com

📷 Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage

🎙️Podcast: The Enneagram + Marriage Podcast

🔗 Connect with Steph!

💻 https://ninetypes.co/

📷 Instagram: @ninetypesco

🎥Youtube: @stephbarronhall

Here are the key takeaways:

• Going beyond typology
• Using the Enneagram with your partner
• An Enneagram perspective in therapy
• What is the “Enneagram Glow,” according to Christa?
• An overview of strengths & pitfalls for each type in relationship
• Christa’s perspective on typing kids
• Christa shares tips from her book: Type 1 & 5 pairing
• How to connect with Christa

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• The Birth-Mark, Short story by Nathaniel Hawthorne
• The Dating Divas Date Night Kits
• The Lord of the Rings by J. R.R. Tolkien

Want to keep the conversation going? Join me on Instagram @ninetypesco to keep learning and chatting about how our types show up in REAL LIFE! Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco/?hl=en

Learn more about subtypes! Download my free subtypes guide here.

Want to stay up to date with all things Nine Types Co? Join my email-list and receive Enneagram reflections, thoughts about growth and personal development. Plus, you’ll get priority access to new offers and courses! Sign up here.

Not sure about your type? Get my free self-typing guide and a series of six emails to walk you through the whole process. Sign up here: https://ninetypes.co/selftyping-guide

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.