The Trina Glines Podcast - Love on Purpose: Your Part in a Happily Ever After - 44: Why Do Marriages Fall Apart? | We Have 3 Options When We Hit a Crossroad in Our Marriage

44: Why Do Marriages Fall Apart? | We Have 3 Options When We Hit a Crossroad in Our Marriage

02/19/19 • 50 min

The Trina Glines Podcast - Love on Purpose: Your Part in a Happily Ever After

This journey called marriage is far from a one-direction highway. You have two imperfect people coming together trying to maneuver through this messy thing called marriage. At times it is fun and so rewarding, other times it's hard, and many times it feels relentless. The choice we make at the crossroads will make all the difference in our happiness and our marriage. Today I talk about crossroads and the 3 options we have when we hit a crossroad in our marriage. I discuss why people fall out of love. Why marriages end. And how most affairs happen. I also share how we can avoid those things by choosing to turn right! I invite you to join me in turning right! Listen to this podcast and set yourself up for success!

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43: Does Your Man Know How to Win Your Heart? | Tips to Set Him and YOU Up For Success!

Valentines Day is coming up! And did you know that Valentines is the most unliked holiday by husbands? There are often expectations they struggle to meet. Which leaves you disappointed and him asking, "why did I even try?"

Birthday's, Anniversary's, and Holiday's can often bring on those unmet expectations!

Today I want to set you up for success by setting your man up for success! I share what you can do to ensure you and your man have a successful celebration.

Have you ever considered letting your man know what you would like on on these special days? Unfortunately ladies, we often fall to the thinking that if he really knows me and loves me he will know what I like. This is incorrect thinking. He can NOT read your mind. He works differently than you do.

You sharing with him what makes you feel loved and adored on these special days sets him up to win, which means you win too!

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45: Geoff Stuerer, LMFT | What is a Secure Attachment?

Did you know that "all the research agrees that a stable, loving relationship is the absolute cornerstone of human happiness and general well-being"? Dr. Sue Johnson (Love Sense) And did you know YOU ARE NORMAL if this doesn't naturally happen in your marriage?
None of us were taught all we need to know to create a secure attachment with our spouse. Do you even know what that means? For over 20 years I had no idea! I am SO GRATEFUL for the learning journey I have been on! It has changed my marriage! And what I have learned is it is a work in progress for us all! This is GOOD NEWS!
Today I share an interview with Geoff Steurer LMFT. He is trained and certified in Dr. Sue Johnson's couples therapy; Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Do yourself a favor, and listen to this interview! It is AMAZING! Most of us weren't given the tools to maneuver through this messy thing call marriage. But we can choose to LEARN tools!
That is how we will work on creating a secure bond with the person we have chosen to spend our life with! (I believe eternity) It is SO WORTH IT!