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S1 Episode 010 - Voyeurism, Cuckolding/Cuckqueaning, Stag/Vixen
Drinks and Kinks!
02/02/23 • 63 min
Part 3 of 3 in the Kink of the Week series: Voyeurism. We also add in the Cuckold/Cuckquean kink, and include Stag/Vixen as well!
Updates for the week include Bird's second date with "Hunter" which included making out like teenagers in the back of a minivan, and Grant's update on CuteBoy, and mending a friendship with a former throuple he was a part of.
Voyeurism can also tie into cucking and queaning, or even stagging/vixening, and Bird reveals yet another fun fact about herself, and we learn about the difference between those things. Grant talks about a guy he was sending homemade porn with a f*cking machine to, and Bird has a friend who loves his wife so much he watches her while she hooks up with strangers.
What does aftercare look like if you bring in someone for a cuck/stag or quean/vix scene? Don't forget to negotiate beforehand! Plus we talk about some super interesting videos that Grant sent to Bird!
You can look forward to some upcoming episodes where we talk about toys, and different types of sexualities!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Huckleberry/Blueberry Lemonade!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
S1 Episode 007 - Do's & Don'ts of Dating Apps and Dick Pics
Drinks and Kinks!
01/12/23 • 102 min
Dating apps are one of the most common ways people in this day and age meet other potential mates. Some are better than others, but mostly it's a tough place to find a match (even if you're monogamous)! We cover a handful of very popular dating apps we currently use, including the ones we got banned from! But juggling apps is genuinely not easy, so if you're struggling don't worry you're not alone!
Bird shares a fun fact the genuinely takes Grant by surprise.
Dating app etiquette (or more like some great suggestions from Bird as to what is appealing in a dating profile, and what is a "hard left"). Starting with what photos to use/not use, what kinds of bio's are cringey and which ones sound appetizing, and what conversation killers to avoid!
We cover the best top 10 dating apps for BDSM and Kink people, and get into Fetlife.com (where we take some time to update and polish Grant's profile)! Grant's homework is to do the BDSMtest.org and see how he ranks for things that he's into, we highly recommend you take the test too and see what you're into as well.
What better way to tie consent and kinky website/dating apps together, than Bird's top 5 Rules for Sending Photos of Your Junk. Consent is key, baby!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is an X Rated Pornstar!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
05/03/23 • 65 min
What does a BDSM scene actually look like? This week, we got the honor of having our first official guest on the show, and Senior joins in to recount his view of things as well! This episode is focused on revisiting Bird's first real scene as she goes over everything with Goddess, The Sadist who topped her, and how they navigated initial negotiations, adjusting for the setting, what tools and toys were going to be used, what went right or wrong in the scene, and what aftercare looked like. Bird also opens up about the not-so-great introduction she had into the world of BDSM with a fake dom, some of the red flags she looked past and how you can avoid some of the same mistakes she made. Even though she thought she'd vetted this person, there still was a lot of unanswered questions and things that didn't add up. How do you navigate after someone has traumatized you? Bird chose to try again, with someone much safer, and do some immersive, therapeutic, BDSM!
Cautiva leather handcuffs mentioned: https://www.shopcautiva.com/ Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is Apothic Dark! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird & Senior Contact us: [email protected] Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/ FetLife: DrinksKinksPod Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E013 BDSM & Mental Health
Drinks and Kinks!
05/17/23 • 69 min
This week we get curious about what "BDSM" stands for and all it means! Senior and Bird talk about their first official BDSM scene together, and talk a little bit about the relationship road that hasn't always been easy. We also cover what some triggers for safe wording might be during a scene, how kink can be similar to EMDR therapy, some fun facts and stats about kink and de-stigmatizing kink over the last 10 years.
We have some tender moments where we talk about some of Senior's mental health journey and how it relates to kink, BDSM and being sadistic, as well as some of Bird's trauma and how kink and BDSM can help heal some wounds for both tops and bottoms. Senior has a great suggestion that we can try out products and talk about our experiences with them!
Hang on for the ride, we derail a few times just havin' a good time!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Adroit Theory Brewing's Now I Am Death, Destroyer of Worlds IPA!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E011 - KinkFest Recap! We're back!
Drinks and Kinks!
04/26/23 • 82 min
Now with 100% more Senior! Drinks & Kinks returns with a whole episode recapping our wild weekend at KinkFest 2023 in Portland, Oregon! Season 2 kicks off with a change in the lineup and a whole lot of amazing things we saw and learned about.
We cover what classes we took all weekend, and take a quick look into Bird's first official scene with a Domme that we affectionately call "The Sadist"! In this episode you'll hear us talk about:
- Botanica Erotica: Kinky Plants for Pleasure, Pain, and Passion
- When CNC Doesn't Mean Stop: The CNC Spectrum
- The Opening Ceremonies Fashion Show
- Night 1 in the Dungeon
- BDSM and The Law
- The Vendor Floor
- Playing with Jealousy Without Getting Burned
- Night 2 in the Dungeon and Bird's first scene
- Group Sex: Lessons from a Decade of Whoredom
- The Science of Fear
- Building, Negotiating, and Executing a Dynamic Mindf*ck Scene
- Sanctuary and Suspensions, PDX
- How much Senior loves Tums
You can now look forward to new episodes every Wednesday!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is a lot of Water!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
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S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime
Drinks and Kinks!
08/23/23 • 113 min
This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans.
In this episode you'll hear:
- Dating update for Bird
- Why Senior doesn't do a whole lot of dating
- A recent party with friends Vex, Goddess, and Chaos
- Chaos did their first scene and what we learned from watching it
- What is "vetting" and why is it important?
- What questions are good for vetting?
- Mistakes Bird made when vetting previously (that you can learn from)
- Why it's not culturally appropriate to call women "females"
- Barbie movie and Euphoria references
- Senior and Bird's "dream scenes" they've always wanted to do
- Senior bratting at his absolutely finest
- Listener submissions! Thanks Rob and Bruce!
Some resources referenced in this episode and links we promised: Kynk101.com, michellefegatofi.org, kinkycuriosity.com, theduchy.com, submissiveguide.com, kinkweekly.com, beautifullybound.com
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Little Beast Brewing Czech Style Dark Lager!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.space
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E020 Breath Play & Medical Play
Drinks and Kinks!
12/14/23 • 74 min
Oh hi! Did you miss us? We're back from our mental health vacation, and Senior is at full sass.
This episode covers some edge play, where we talk about breath play and inadvertently add in a little lesson on medical play too!
As we celebrate a year of being a podcast, we look at our Spotify unwrapped, celebrate the people who made us their #1 listened to podcast!
In this episode you'll learn about:
- What a "coffee, regular" is
- Bird's misadventures in sugar dating
- Vanderpump Rules
- Bird's Smutty Bookclub, episodes to come!
- Senior builds a bed
- Breath Play vs. Edge Play
- Senior's got a thing for elaborate antiquing
- Senior's a weird thing for "scuba diving"
- Facesitting
- Choking
- Combining Medical Play with Fear Play
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Gin and Cran-Pineapple!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.space
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E016 Ho and Tell Toy Party - with special guests Goddess and Vex
Drinks and Kinks!
06/21/23 • 123 min
If you've ever been curious what Goddess had in her suitcases (from Episode 2, Season 2), we're here to tell you all about it! Join us, with returning guest Goddess and special guest Vex as we get into more toys than we could have ever expected!
As a DISCLAIMER: you will hear a partial scene between Goddess and Vex as they demonstrate some of the toys (and Vex shows off how great of a brat she can be)! They have played together many times, and have been in a dynamic, so everything you hear is consensual!
This includes a few hits from a paddle, a whip, a shock collar, a taser, and a dragontail, with genuine reactions, begging, bratting, saying "no please don't", and noises from these objects so be prepared that if these are triggering for you, this episode does contain those things sprinkled throughout! Again, all of this is done consensually, and within the bounds of their dynamic. They have discussed boundaries, safe words, and are doing this all willingly and both are having fun.
In this episode you'll also hear about:
- Bratting at it's finest
- Sloan Sodas recipe
- Clone-a-Willy
- So. Many. Weiners
- Spanking devices, whips, paddles, and floggers
- Shock collars
- Ball crushers and "Penini" presses
- Barf bags and mindfucks
- Tasering
- Vex's favorite toy, the Dragontail
- Cautiva Leather
- Corncob pegging
- Chain flogger
- Window screen rubber flogger
- Clothespins and Michael Scott paperclips
- Eraser whip
- Showercap breathe play
- Normalizing HSV
- Vibrating gloves
- Anal hooks
- A 3 ft. paddle
- How Goddess prepares for a scene as a Dom/Domme
- Connecting with your bottom
- Aftercare
- Wrapping up a scene
- Starting as a bottom/sub before you Top/Dom someone
- What do we get out of a scene?
- What is aftercare that Dom/Dommes do?
- Scenes start with negotiations, and end with aftercare
- Drop after a scene, and how to navigate it
Sloan Sodas
- 1⁄2 oz Jamaican rum (Appleton Estate Signature)
- 1⁄2 oz over [94] proof black rum (Kraken)
- 1 oz spiced rum (Capt. Morgan)
- 1 lemon or 1 Oz Lemon juice
- 1 oz mint simple syrup
- or
- 1 oz simple syrup
- 2 splashes mint extract
- Shake with ice
- Fill with your choice soda and enjoy!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is SLOAN SODA!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S3 E024 Listener Submissions
Drinks and Kinks!
08/01/24 • 90 min
Thanks for being patient with us! This episode is a long awaited listener submission episode. What you can expect to hear:
Updates: Senior shares that he did his first ropes bondage suspension session with Bird!
- Bird shares a dating app story (and it involves Snapchat).
- Chaos talks about the varied differences between dating as a 21 year vs. dating as a 40 year old.
- Britt shares her vanilla-ish aftercare homework.
- Solo self care for aftercare.
- Bird's new aftercare (blanket forts!)
- Play tested a classic for the first time, a Hitachi Wand.
- Our main feature this episode was going to be shame play and blood play, but we decided to go with listener submissions instead! Some highlights:
Daddy Dom for those who needed a Daddy figure for playtime.
- Normalizing not using the word "clean" when talking about STI testing.
- Disabled virgin shares their kink journey!
- How to come out as kinky (and into getting cucked). Hint: get comfortable being uncomfortable.
- How to get into the kink community if you don't have a point of contact already in, no references, and are interested in learning how to be a Dom!
- Book mentioned in the listener emails is The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, & Fran Odette.
Website mentioned is ABFheaven.com
(as for the delay, Bird has a jaw injury and it's taken a toll on her mentally. We will be recording again soon)
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Dr. Pepper & Coconut RumMusic: Forever Dreamer - MagiksoloMixed and edited by: Bird HerselfHosted by: Bird, Senior, Britt, & ChaosArtwork: Senior
Contact us: [email protected]Website: https://drinksandkinks.spaceFetLife: DrinksKinksPodInstagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
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FAQ
How many episodes does Drinks and Kinks! have?
Drinks and Kinks! currently has 25 episodes available.
What topics does Drinks and Kinks! cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture and Podcasts.
What is the most popular episode on Drinks and Kinks!?
The episode title 'S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Drinks and Kinks!?
The average episode length on Drinks and Kinks! is 80 minutes.
How often are episodes of Drinks and Kinks! released?
Episodes of Drinks and Kinks! are typically released every 7 days, 5 hours.
When was the first episode of Drinks and Kinks!?
The first episode of Drinks and Kinks! was released on Dec 6, 2022.
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