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S3 E024 Listener Submissions
Drinks and Kinks!
08/01/24 • 90 min
Thanks for being patient with us! This episode is a long awaited listener submission episode. What you can expect to hear:
Updates: Senior shares that he did his first ropes bondage suspension session with Bird!
- Bird shares a dating app story (and it involves Snapchat).
- Chaos talks about the varied differences between dating as a 21 year vs. dating as a 40 year old.
- Britt shares her vanilla-ish aftercare homework.
- Solo self care for aftercare.
- Bird's new aftercare (blanket forts!)
- Play tested a classic for the first time, a Hitachi Wand.
- Our main feature this episode was going to be shame play and blood play, but we decided to go with listener submissions instead! Some highlights:
Daddy Dom for those who needed a Daddy figure for playtime.
- Normalizing not using the word "clean" when talking about STI testing.
- Disabled virgin shares their kink journey!
- How to come out as kinky (and into getting cucked). Hint: get comfortable being uncomfortable.
- How to get into the kink community if you don't have a point of contact already in, no references, and are interested in learning how to be a Dom!
- Book mentioned in the listener emails is The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, & Fran Odette.
Website mentioned is ABFheaven.com
(as for the delay, Bird has a jaw injury and it's taken a toll on her mentally. We will be recording again soon)
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Dr. Pepper & Coconut RumMusic: Forever Dreamer - MagiksoloMixed and edited by: Bird HerselfHosted by: Bird, Senior, Britt, & ChaosArtwork: Senior
Contact us: [email protected]Website: https://drinksandkinks.spaceFetLife: DrinksKinksPodInstagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S1 Episode 003 - Party Time!
Drinks and Kinks!
12/15/22 • 80 min
Bird goes to her first kink party ever, and shares her experience! We give an update on our dating life (surprise: Grant has a pattern and Bird has a type!) as well as some thoughts on what it was like to go to a kinky party without knowing what to expect, and truly embodying our motto of "getting comfortable with being uncomfortable"!
The drink this week is Eyes Up Here!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
S1 Episode 005 - Kinky Holiday Parties
Drinks and Kinks!
12/29/22 • 79 min
S1 Episode 010 - Voyeurism, Cuckolding/Cuckqueaning, Stag/Vixen
Drinks and Kinks!
02/02/23 • 63 min
Part 3 of 3 in the Kink of the Week series: Voyeurism. We also add in the Cuckold/Cuckquean kink, and include Stag/Vixen as well!
Updates for the week include Bird's second date with "Hunter" which included making out like teenagers in the back of a minivan, and Grant's update on CuteBoy, and mending a friendship with a former throuple he was a part of.
Voyeurism can also tie into cucking and queaning, or even stagging/vixening, and Bird reveals yet another fun fact about herself, and we learn about the difference between those things. Grant talks about a guy he was sending homemade porn with a f*cking machine to, and Bird has a friend who loves his wife so much he watches her while she hooks up with strangers.
What does aftercare look like if you bring in someone for a cuck/stag or quean/vix scene? Don't forget to negotiate beforehand! Plus we talk about some super interesting videos that Grant sent to Bird!
You can look forward to some upcoming episodes where we talk about toys, and different types of sexualities!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Huckleberry/Blueberry Lemonade!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
Changes
Drinks and Kinks!
02/09/23 • 1 min
S2 E016 Ho and Tell Toy Party - with special guests Goddess and Vex
Drinks and Kinks!
06/21/23 • 123 min
If you've ever been curious what Goddess had in her suitcases (from Episode 2, Season 2), we're here to tell you all about it! Join us, with returning guest Goddess and special guest Vex as we get into more toys than we could have ever expected!
As a DISCLAIMER: you will hear a partial scene between Goddess and Vex as they demonstrate some of the toys (and Vex shows off how great of a brat she can be)! They have played together many times, and have been in a dynamic, so everything you hear is consensual!
This includes a few hits from a paddle, a whip, a shock collar, a taser, and a dragontail, with genuine reactions, begging, bratting, saying "no please don't", and noises from these objects so be prepared that if these are triggering for you, this episode does contain those things sprinkled throughout! Again, all of this is done consensually, and within the bounds of their dynamic. They have discussed boundaries, safe words, and are doing this all willingly and both are having fun.
In this episode you'll also hear about:
- Bratting at it's finest
- Sloan Sodas recipe
- Clone-a-Willy
- So. Many. Weiners
- Spanking devices, whips, paddles, and floggers
- Shock collars
- Ball crushers and "Penini" presses
- Barf bags and mindfucks
- Tasering
- Vex's favorite toy, the Dragontail
- Cautiva Leather
- Corncob pegging
- Chain flogger
- Window screen rubber flogger
- Clothespins and Michael Scott paperclips
- Eraser whip
- Showercap breathe play
- Normalizing HSV
- Vibrating gloves
- Anal hooks
- A 3 ft. paddle
- How Goddess prepares for a scene as a Dom/Domme
- Connecting with your bottom
- Aftercare
- Wrapping up a scene
- Starting as a bottom/sub before you Top/Dom someone
- What do we get out of a scene?
- What is aftercare that Dom/Dommes do?
- Scenes start with negotiations, and end with aftercare
- Drop after a scene, and how to navigate it
Sloan Sodas
- 1⁄2 oz Jamaican rum (Appleton Estate Signature)
- 1⁄2 oz over [94] proof black rum (Kraken)
- 1 oz spiced rum (Capt. Morgan)
- 1 lemon or 1 Oz Lemon juice
- 1 oz mint simple syrup
- or
- 1 oz simple syrup
- 2 splashes mint extract
- Shake with ice
- Fill with your choice soda and enjoy!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is SLOAN SODA!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E020 Breath Play & Medical Play
Drinks and Kinks!
12/14/23 • 74 min
Oh hi! Did you miss us? We're back from our mental health vacation, and Senior is at full sass.
This episode covers some edge play, where we talk about breath play and inadvertently add in a little lesson on medical play too!
As we celebrate a year of being a podcast, we look at our Spotify unwrapped, celebrate the people who made us their #1 listened to podcast!
In this episode you'll learn about:
- What a "coffee, regular" is
- Bird's misadventures in sugar dating
- Vanderpump Rules
- Bird's Smutty Bookclub, episodes to come!
- Senior builds a bed
- Breath Play vs. Edge Play
- Senior's got a thing for elaborate antiquing
- Senior's a weird thing for "scuba diving"
- Facesitting
- Choking
- Combining Medical Play with Fear Play
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Gin and Cran-Pineapple!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.space
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime
Drinks and Kinks!
08/23/23 • 113 min
This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans.
In this episode you'll hear:
- Dating update for Bird
- Why Senior doesn't do a whole lot of dating
- A recent party with friends Vex, Goddess, and Chaos
- Chaos did their first scene and what we learned from watching it
- What is "vetting" and why is it important?
- What questions are good for vetting?
- Mistakes Bird made when vetting previously (that you can learn from)
- Why it's not culturally appropriate to call women "females"
- Barbie movie and Euphoria references
- Senior and Bird's "dream scenes" they've always wanted to do
- Senior bratting at his absolutely finest
- Listener submissions! Thanks Rob and Bruce!
Some resources referenced in this episode and links we promised: Kynk101.com, michellefegatofi.org, kinkycuriosity.com, theduchy.com, submissiveguide.com, kinkweekly.com, beautifullybound.com
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Little Beast Brewing Czech Style Dark Lager!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.space
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
07/19/23 • 114 min
Our favorite brat, Vex, joins us for another awesome couple of hours to talk about pronouns and different types of sexualities! It's been a while since Bird gave y'all an update on her dating life, so today she gets to fill you in on the newest developments! And Senior's topic he's been prepping for: neo-pronouns!
In this episode you'll hear Vex talk about her experience as a trans woman, a whole lot of neo-pronouns, the difference between pronouns and neo-pronouns, how to handle mis-steps when those around you or close to you would like to identify as a new set of pronouns, demisexuality, and the wide variety of sexualities. We talk a little polyamory, and Senior does some polydaydreaming.
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is a Gin Bloody Mary!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
S2 E011 - KinkFest Recap! We're back!
Drinks and Kinks!
04/26/23 • 82 min
Now with 100% more Senior! Drinks & Kinks returns with a whole episode recapping our wild weekend at KinkFest 2023 in Portland, Oregon! Season 2 kicks off with a change in the lineup and a whole lot of amazing things we saw and learned about.
We cover what classes we took all weekend, and take a quick look into Bird's first official scene with a Domme that we affectionately call "The Sadist"! In this episode you'll hear us talk about:
- Botanica Erotica: Kinky Plants for Pleasure, Pain, and Passion
- When CNC Doesn't Mean Stop: The CNC Spectrum
- The Opening Ceremonies Fashion Show
- Night 1 in the Dungeon
- BDSM and The Law
- The Vendor Floor
- Playing with Jealousy Without Getting Burned
- Night 2 in the Dungeon and Bird's first scene
- Group Sex: Lessons from a Decade of Whoredom
- The Science of Fear
- Building, Negotiating, and Executing a Dynamic Mindf*ck Scene
- Sanctuary and Suspensions, PDX
- How much Senior loves Tums
You can now look forward to new episodes every Wednesday!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is a lot of Water!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
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FAQ
How many episodes does Drinks and Kinks! have?
Drinks and Kinks! currently has 25 episodes available.
What topics does Drinks and Kinks! cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture and Podcasts.
What is the most popular episode on Drinks and Kinks!?
The episode title 'S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Drinks and Kinks!?
The average episode length on Drinks and Kinks! is 80 minutes.
How often are episodes of Drinks and Kinks! released?
Episodes of Drinks and Kinks! are typically released every 7 days, 5 hours.
When was the first episode of Drinks and Kinks!?
The first episode of Drinks and Kinks! was released on Dec 6, 2022.
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