Dealing with Porn

In this episode, Colby & Dr. Kim talk about why sex in marriage is the best sex, how to not let past sexual baggage define you, and how to improve your sex life for both you and your spouse.

Quotes:

• “God made our bodies fit together in the way they do, He created our bodies and He created sex.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling
• “The longer you are married to someone and the more you know them and understand them, the better your sex life becomes.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling
• “I pray every day that my sexual desire is for my wife only and God honors that prayer.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling
• “Let God redefine your sexual past for you.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling
• “We are meant to be in an intimate relationship with one person, that is what we desire and crave.” - Colby Taylor
• “You have to talk about sex in your marriage.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling

Homework Questions:

1. Do you talk with your wife about sex?
2. Do you communicate your desires to your wife? Do you listen when she communicates her desires to you?
3. Do you know what turns your wife on? Do you do it?
4. How often do you expect to have sex? Is that realistic considering the stage of life you are in?
5. Do you believe that your past sexual experiences can affect intimacy with your wife?
6. What was your view of sex growing up?
7. Did you have any misconceptions about what sex would be like in marriage? What were they?
8. Who are other men who you can be open with about topics like sex? Is there a group you need to join? A friend you need to reach out to?

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*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!

RESOURCES:

• Awesome Marriage’s Love Making Survey