Doing It For The Kids
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WTF to do when everything costs more
Doing It For The Kids
03/17/22 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from website marketing specialist Tom Garfield. He says:
“Life costs so much more now!
Fuel, heating, food, clothes, EVERYTHING is way more expensive. I shudder every time I hear the letterbox clunk, wondering what bill is coming for me next.
I don't want to dip into savings or reduce my pension payments. That feels like a bad plan... Do I raise my prices to keep up instead? Can I use the cost of living crisis as justification??
Other than pulling my kid out of nursery, living life as a recluse and doing nothing at all (I've had quite enough of that, thanks covid!), what’s the best way to keep financially afloat when the water just keeps rising? Heeeeelp!”
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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03/17/22 • 20 min

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Surviving the school holidays
Doing It For The Kids
04/28/22 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from project manager and editor Rose Parkin. She says:
“Talk to me about school holidays.
We’re currently in the second week of Easter, but the summer break is looming.
Both me and my partner are freelance and we have two kids aged 5 and 8.
We don't tend to do a huge amount of holiday clubs (maybe 1-2 days a week at most) so the kids end up having a fair bit of screen time so that we can juggle work, cooking, house chores and our own downtime.
Our routine tends to be 7-8am TV, then 'full on' parenting (with one parent, then the other) until 3pm, then they have an hour of technology time, then a film.
Today I'm seriously feeling the guilt of them being in front of screens and missing out on the sunshine.
I’m interested to know how others juggle holidays and maintain some flexibility while also having some structure to ensure work gets done?!
Is that too much to ask??”
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04/28/22 • 20 min

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Finding your 'thing'
Doing It For The Kids
05/20/21 • 19 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Detective Tom Snow, aka Anonymous. They say:
“Hi Frankie and Steve,
My partner is a very creative person, but is currently doing an employed job that helps others in creative education, but is bogged down with institutional admin, company politics, meetings etc. It doesn't allow her to be creative herself.
I'd like to encourage her to take the leap to become self employed and find the thing she loves doing. Finding 'the thing' is the hard part — how do you turn your love of creating and making into a money earner? How do you find what your passion might be on the one hand, and also think about how it will bring in money on the other?
Thanks a lot, Tom"
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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05/20/21 • 19 min
When you're not sure about a new opportunity
Doing It For The Kids
04/22/21 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from coach, leader and feminist Lisa Townsend. She says:
“I need some help to work out which opportunities are for me and which to say no to!
An opportunity to collaborate comes my way for example and my mind automatically lists off all the negatives/worst case scenarios. I've been wondering lately if that’s just the fear of feeling like I've potentially got someone else to answer to (which is why I left employment) or whether the opportunity just isn’t right.
How can you make a best guess about a new opportunity, without having any prior experience to relate to?"
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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This episode is supported by Penfold.
The flexible pension for freelance parents. Penfold provides freelancers with an online pension that’s simple to use and completely flexible.
Sign up with the code DIFTK and get a £25 bonus into your pension pot. Penfold are also offering up to a £1,000 top up on pension transfers until the 31st of March 2021, so you can earn more from your old pension pots!
Penfold is regulated by the FCA. When you put money in a pension, it’s an investment, and like all investments, your capital is at risk. Check for benefits before transferring.
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Steve's podcast - Being Freelance
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04/22/21 • 20 min
Putting ourselves back together
Doing It For The Kids
03/25/21 • 19 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Kate Nikityuk, founder of Questime. She says:
“How do you put yourself back together if all you want to do now the kids are back in school is lay down and stare out of the window?
I allowed myself a day of rest on Monday. It is already Thursday and I am still not a rock star 'nailing it'. More like a jellyfish answering a few enquiries from clients and delegating bare minimum to the team.
My list of work-to-be-done-when-kids-are-back-to-school is growing, the pressure to make ends meet is terrible and in a blink of an eye it will be the Easter break with both kids back at home and juggling it all again.
Any ideas on how to quickly come back to life?'
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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This episode is supported by Penfold.
The flexible pension for freelance parents. Penfold provides freelancers with an online pension that’s simple to use and completely flexible.
Sign up with the code DIFTK and get a £25 bonus into your pension pot. Penfold are also offering up to a £1,000 top up on pension transfers until the 31st of March 2021, so you can earn more from your old pension pots!
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Go to www.getpenfold.com/diftk
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03/25/21 • 19 min
When your clients are always late
Doing It For The Kids
03/11/21 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Detective Casey Gunn aka Anonymous. They say:
“What advice do you have when your clients habitually deliver things late which then completely messes up your planning and diary?
For context, I’m a social media manager. I have three big clients — all contracted for minimum three month periods — and two of my three clients do this! Usually, these clients are good — we have a good relationship, they pay on time (ish), pay a rate I’m happy with... BUT the constant lateness is making things really tricky for me.
My diary gets booked up well in advance (especially at the moment with no childcare!) and their lateness means I have to cram work into already scarce time. I can’t just move the work until when my diary clears, because then the campaigns I’m working on for them become irrelevant as often they are attached to a particular calendar event.
I build in ‘wiggle room’, send reminders and prompts but.... NOPE, still late. I don’t know what to do!!!
Do I charge more if work has to be completed post-deadline? Like, the equivalent of ‘overtime’? How do I protect myself from this situation in my contract?
It means that next week, for example, I have to build three advertising campaigns (when my planning says I was supposed to only be working on one) and write two campaign analysis reports, alongside my day to day duties with another client... oh and homeschooling my two kids aged 6 and 8 because — PANDEMIC.
Basically, I’M FUCKED AND I WANT TO CRY. End.”
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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This episode is supported by Penfold.
The flexible pension for freelance parents. Penfold provides freelancers with an online pension that’s simple to use and completely flexible.
Sign up with the code DIFTK and get a £25 bonus into your pension pot. Penfold are also offering up to a £1,000 top up on pension transfers until the 31st of March 2021, so you can earn more from your old pension pots!
Penfold is regulated by the FCA. When you put money in a pension, it’s an investment, and like all investments, your capital is at risk. Check for benefits before transferring.
Go to www.getpenfold.com/diftk
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Frankie Tortora's website
Steve Folland's website
Steve's podcast - Being Freelance
Doing It For The Kids website
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03/11/21 • 20 min
Deciding how much work you can take on
Doing It For The Kids
02/11/21 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from designer and web developer Laura Ockenden. She says:
“As a newbie full-timer, I'm struggling a bit with planning in work and knowing how much I can take on and when.
I've got a few jobs on now but often find myself procrastinating under the guise of waiting for clients to get back to me — should I be looking for more work? Should I book in clients for next month? How long will a job take? How long is a piece of string?!
I've been quite lucky that things have sort of just fallen into place recently but it feels like I need to start giving this whole idea some brain-space now it's the thing that actually pays my mortgage!"
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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02/11/21 • 20 min
When it feels like it's time to scale up
Doing It For The Kids
02/25/21 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from podcast producer Dave Howard. He says:
“I develop and make podcasts for people — universities, PR companies, businesses, charities. I’m largely a one-person operation, with a few trusted freelancers available to take on odd bits of work here and there when things get busy.
But now there is just too much work. I seem to have won a lot of business all at once, and I’m finding myself constantly racing to edit people’s programmes, to meet deadlines. Some things are getting rushed and some things are a bit stuck on the back burner.
There’s no time for working on the business, updating the website, socials, etc. (Accepting that home schooling is also happening — and is a shitshow).
So, is it some sort of pipeline management strategy I need? Do I just need to learn to say no – or even ‘I can help with that but not until April’? To adjust my prices? Move to a model of bringing in subcontractors?
(I’ll be honest, I don’t really want to become someone whose day-to-day work is managing and overseeing other people — been there, done that, didn’t enjoy it. But I can see that being a way forward).”
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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This episode is supported by Penfold.
The flexible pension for freelance parents. Penfold provides freelancers with an online pension that’s simple to use and completely flexible.
Sign up with the code DIFTK and get a £25 bonus into your pension pot. Penfold are also offering up to a £1,000 top up on pension transfers until the 31st of March 2021, so you can earn more from your old pension pots!
Penfold is regulated by the FCA. When you put money in a pension, it’s an investment, and like all investments, your capital is at risk. Check for benefits before transferring.
Go to www.getpenfold.com/diftk
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Steve's podcast - Being Freelance
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02/25/21 • 20 min
Dealing with "icky" clients
Doing It For The Kids
01/28/21 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Detective Mel Horn, AKA Anonymous. They say:
“How do you cope with "Client Ick"? Like that physical cringe you experience when you see someone you snogged at a staff party years ago but this time, it’s because your client is calling you and you secretly hate them.
Clients are good. Clients pay the bills. I should love that I have this client. Times are hard and I shouldn’t be ungrateful — after all I worked hard to get them in the first place.
But the honeymoon period of this client has died a death. My dilemma is that despite being a nice (but very insecure) person, as a client they are a royal pain in the bum. Which is fine when you are being paid for the service but right now we are in limbo between projects, so I’m officially off the books.
It’s a culmination of lots of little things that have started to grate on me. But after months of working with them and recently having some issues with bill payments, I now see their name appear on my phone or receive an email and I want to hit the gin (before responding in a professional manner, obviously!).
I hate that they annoy me (I need them!) and hate that they suck my time even when I’m not charging for it (look at me writing to you about them right now!)
Should I just accept that our relationship is tainted, move on and hope that a better client comes along? Is this the end?? Or am I just being a dick, battered after a year of sodding covid draining all my patience and humility."
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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01/28/21 • 20 min
Coping with professional 'ghosting'
Doing It For The Kids
05/06/21 • 20 min
This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Detective Jason Chase, aka Anonymous. They say:
“My question is about professional 'ghosting'... spooky!
I was recently in touch with an old acquaintance who now works with a big organisation that I have been interested in working with for a while. This person encouraged me to pitch for quite a big contract, chatted through the project with me on the phone and even read through my ideas and made encouraging suggestions before I submitted.
But — I didn't get the gig.
I was really gutted but assumed I was up against some tough competition. The acquaintance apologised, and told me that there would be further opportunities coming up really soon and also offered — unprompted — to give me some feedback on a call. Great, I thought!
But when I replied to schedule a time to chat I didn't get a reply. A week or so later I sent a follow up message and again... silence!!
I think this professional ghosting is becoming more and more common and I hate it! How hard is it to send a quick message to someone, especially if you have volunteered to share the information in the first place?
I would love to move on from this, but feel a bit embarrassed, and also annoyed, and a bit like a ditched date! I'd love a chance to work with this organisation, and to have the feedback that was offered up. Would love to hear what you think! Any advice?”
What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.
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This episode is supported by Penfold.
The flexible pension for freelance parents. Penfold provides freelancers with an online pension that’s simple to use and completely flexible.
Sign up with the code DIFTK and get a £25 bonus into your pension pot. Penfold are also offering up to a £1,000 top up on pension transfers until the 31st of March 2021, so you can earn more from your old pension pots!
Penfold is regulated by the FCA. When you put money in a pension, it’s an investment, and like all investments, your capital is at risk. Check for benefits before transferring.
Go to www.getpenfold.com/diftk
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Frankie Tortora's website
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Steve's podcast - Being Freelance
Doing It For The Kids website
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05/06/21 • 20 min
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How many episodes does Doing It For The Kids have?
Doing It For The Kids currently has 106 episodes available.
What topics does Doing It For The Kids cover?
The podcast is about Parenting, Freelancing, Entrepreneurship, Freelance, Podcasts, Small Business, Business and Careers.
What is the most popular episode on Doing It For The Kids?
The episode title 'WTF to do when everything costs more' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Doing It For The Kids?
The average episode length on Doing It For The Kids is 20 minutes.
How often are episodes of Doing It For The Kids released?
Episodes of Doing It For The Kids are typically released every 13 days, 22 hours.
When was the first episode of Doing It For The Kids?
The first episode of Doing It For The Kids was released on Mar 11, 2019.
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