Bonita Applebum, Sex Advice Columnist, Part Two

This is part two of my interview with sex advice columnist Bonita Applebum. Please go back and listen to part one if you have not yet! This time we discuss:

-The truth about HPV: real talk from a sex educator, and why “Girls” actually kinda got it right

-Elizabeth Holmes' titties

-That time that watching Star Trek: First Contact was better than sex

-Monastics: do we want to fuck them, or be them?

-Why sugar Daddies are overrated

-The best drone metal music for getting it on

-“Voting with your pussy”

Relevant links:

Om “Conference of the Birds”: https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/9095-conference-of-the-birds/

Bernini’s Ecstasy of Saint Theresa: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ecstasy_of_Saint_Teresa

More about Bonita:

Bonita Applebum is an advice columnist in Athens, GA. She writes for Flagpole Magazine, where she answers questions and shares her thoughts on sex, love, dating, and relationships. Bonita is a pseudonym, but she is less of a character and more of a way to allow for honesty and transparency when talking about things so intimate and personal. She is in her late thirties and is a Black woman of color originally born in the deep south. She enjoys playing the clarinet, watching gameplay videos on Youtube even though she is not a gamer, and casually studying the history of Britain and its monarchy - but not in a good way. Her favorite monarchs are the ones who get executed.

If you’d like to send Bonita a question or comment or anything, really, you can do so anonymously at http://www.flagpole.com/getadvice , or you can email her directly at [email protected].

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