When The Devil Can't Get To You He'll Send A Narcissist And Use These 6 Tactics To Destroy You
02/27/25 • 14 min
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If the Devil Can’t Get to You, He’ll Send a Narcissist—6 Tactics He Uses to Destroy You
Why This Battle Feels Different
- You’ve locked every door, secured every window, and set every alarm—but what do you do when Judas is already inside the house?
- This isn’t just a difficult relationship; it’s a spiritual attack.
- The enemy knows your weak points, and when he can’t reach you directly, he’ll send someone who already has the keys—a narcissist.
- The tactics they use aren’t just harmful; they’re designed to steal, kill, and destroy.
6 Demonic Tactics the Enemy Uses Through the Narcissist
🔥 Confusion and Doubt
- Gaslighting, twisting truth, and making you second-guess yourself.
- You over-explain, over-apologize, and start believing if you “fix” yourself, things will get better.
- Truth: God is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33).
💔 Emotional Wounds
- They trigger past betrayals, insecurities, and pain, keeping you focused on hurt rather than healing.
- Truth: God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).
🌿 Bitterness and Resentment
- They hurt you repeatedly, making unforgiveness feel justified.
- But bitterness doesn’t trap them—it traps you.
- Truth: Let go of all bitterness and forgive as Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:31-32).
⚔️ Spiritual Confusion
- They plant doubts: If God is for you, why are you still stuck here?
- They twist scripture and use faith to manipulate.
- Truth: Ask God for wisdom, and He will give it generously (James 1:5).
🚪 Isolation
- They cut you off from friends, family, and support systems.
- They smear your reputation, making it hard for others to believe your reality.
- Truth: God will strengthen and uphold you (Isaiah 41:10).
🎯 Distraction from Purpose
- They keep you entangled in chaos, draining your energy and burying your God-given gifts.
- Truth: The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy—but Jesus came to give life abundantly (John 10:10).
How to Break Free
✅ Pray – This is your greatest weapon. Ask God for strength, discernment, and protection. Exodus 14:14: “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
✅ Set Boundaries – Protect your heart, mind, and spirit from their influence.
✅ Trust God’s Justice – Let go of revenge and control. God sees everything and will act in His perfect timing.
Want to Go Deeper?
📺 Watch: How God Deals with Narcissists When He’s Had Enough
📖 Download: Your FREE Narcissist Survival Guide → Click Here
If the Devil Can’t Get to You, He’ll Send a Narcissist—6 Tactics He Uses to Destroy You
Why This Battle Feels Different
- You’ve locked every door, secured every window, and set every alarm—but what do you do when Judas is already inside the house?
- This isn’t just a difficult relationship; it’s a spiritual attack.
- The enemy knows your weak points, and when he can’t reach you directly, he’ll send someone who already has the keys—a narcissist.
- The tactics they use aren’t just harmful; they’re designed to steal, kill, and destroy.
6 Demonic Tactics the Enemy Uses Through the Narcissist
🔥 Confusion and Doubt
- Gaslighting, twisting truth, and making you second-guess yourself.
- You over-explain, over-apologize, and start believing if you “fix” yourself, things will get better.
- Truth: God is not a God of confusion but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33).
💔 Emotional Wounds
- They trigger past betrayals, insecurities, and pain, keeping you focused on hurt rather than healing.
- Truth: God heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).
🌿 Bitterness and Resentment
- They hurt you repeatedly, making unforgiveness feel justified.
- But bitterness doesn’t trap them—it traps you.
- Truth: Let go of all bitterness and forgive as Christ forgave you (Ephesians 4:31-32).
⚔️ Spiritual Confusion
- They plant doubts: If God is for you, why are you still stuck here?
- They twist scripture and use faith to manipulate.
- Truth: Ask God for wisdom, and He will give it generously (James 1:5).
🚪 Isolation
- They cut you off from friends, family, and support systems.
- They smear your reputation, making it hard for others to believe your reality.
- Truth: God will strengthen and uphold you (Isaiah 41:10).
🎯 Distraction from Purpose
- They keep you entangled in chaos, draining your energy and burying your God-given gifts.
- Truth: The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy—but Jesus came to give life abundantly (John 10:10).
How to Break Free
✅ Pray – This is your greatest weapon. Ask God for strength, discernment, and protection. Exodus 14:14: “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
✅ Set Boundaries – Protect your heart, mind, and spirit from their influence.
✅ Trust God’s Justice – Let go of revenge and control. God sees everything and will act in His perfect timing.
Want to Go Deeper?
📺 Watch: How God Deals with Narcissists When He’s Had Enough
📖 Download: Your FREE Narcissist Survival Guide → Click Here
Previous Episode
If you see these signs, you're being fooled by a "nice" narcissist.
The "Nice" Narcissist: How They Fool You
Why They’re So Hard to Spot
- They appear charming, polite, and agreeable—making them seem like the last person who could be toxic.
- Their public persona is drastically different from who they are behind closed doors.
- They make you feel safe, lighthearted, and cared for—until they don’t.
- The truth? Nice doesn’t mean good—it doesn’t mean they’re godly, loyal, or trustworthy.
The Deceptive Traits of the “Nice” Narcissist
- Selective Helpfulness
- Their help seems genuine at first but later feels conditional—designed to keep you dependent.
- Instead of empowering you, their “help” leaves you feeling emotionally drained and indebted.
- They use kindness strategically—to be seen as the “good one” while keeping you reliant on them.
- Performative Empathy
- They know how to act empathetic—using the right words and body language to seem caring.
- Their empathy is a performance, not genuine. They mimic emotions like an actor memorizing lines.
- This creates a trauma bond—you keep waiting for the “real” them to show up, but they never do.
- Strategic Support
- They encourage you only when it serves their agenda.
- Once your growth threatens their control, their support fades—or turns into subtle sabotage.
- They make passive-aggressive comments like:
- “Don’t forget who helped you get here.”
- “Must be nice to have time for that while I’m doing everything else.”
- Their support was never about you—it was about maintaining power and control.
- Shallow Connection
- They make you feel seen and understood at first, but their connection is always transactional.
- They mirror your emotions and interests to create an illusion of intimacy.
- But when you try to deepen the connection, they withdraw, deflect, or change the subject.
- This keeps you chasing a connection they’re incapable of giving.
Why It’s So Hard to Walk Away
- The “nice” narcissist genuinely believes they are a loving, caring person.
- Their charm disarms you, their kindness hooks you, and their support keeps you reliant.
- They manipulate not with overt cruelty, but with subtle control.
How to Break Free
✅ Trust your discernment—If their kindness leaves you feeling confused or trapped, it’s a red flag.
✅ Set boundaries—Protect your emotional and mental space.
✅ Seek godly counsel—Turn to Scripture and trusted advisors for wisdom.
✅ Invest in transformational relationships—Choose people who show up consistently and genuinely.
Want to Go Deeper?
📺 Watch: 5 Clues to Spot a Christian Narcissist
📖 Download: Your FREE Narcissist Survival Guide
https://krisreece.com/narcissist-survival-guide/
Next Episode
8 Demonic Ways Narcissists Mess With Your Mind
8 Demonic Ways Narcissists Mess with Your Mind
Ever feel like something is off in your relationship—like a hidden danger lurking beneath the surface? Narcissists use subtle yet devastating tactics to manipulate and control, leaving you disoriented and trapped.
- 🔥 Gaslighting: Making you doubt your reality.
- 🎭 Emotional Manipulation: Using guilt and fear to control you.
- 🚪 Isolation: Cutting you off from support systems.
- 🔄 Mixed Messages: Keeping you confused and dependent.
- ⚠️ False Accusations: Shifting blame onto you.
- 💔 Love-Bombing & Devaluation: Creating an emotional rollercoaster.
- 🚫 No Accountability: Dodging responsibility at all costs.
- 😨 Fear & Intimidation: Keeping you walking on eggshells.
A Spiritual Battle for Your Mind
Narcissists target your mind because the enemy knows that everything begins there. If they can create confusion, self-doubt, and spiritual disconnection, they’ve succeeded in controlling you.
But here’s the good news: You don’t have to stay stuck. Recognize these tactics for what they are—tools of the enemy—and arm yourself with the truth of God’s Word.
Want to go deeper? Watch my video on “The Signs That Prove Narcissists Are Controlled by Demons”
📖 Download: Your FREE Narcissist Survival Guide → Click Here
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