What Stage Are You In?

05/31/24 • 13 min

Have you ever caught yourself dreaming of a spouse who's stepped straight out of a Hollywood romance, complete with a six-figure salary and a six-pack to match? Well, let's just say, you're not alone! Join your matchmaking duo, as we take a stroll down memory lane revisiting our own once-upon-a-time wish lists and the sometimes outrageous expectations we've encountered in our matchmaking career.
Journey with us to the 'reasonable stage'—a hilariously humbling reality check where the quest for Mr. or Ms. Right meets the sobering truths of life. We're talking about the ego's tug-of-war with true compatibility and the (often inflated) benchmarks we set for our potential life partners. Brace yourself for candid stories and eye-opening advice that strike the perfect balance between what we desire, what's realistic, and what's truly important for a lasting Muslim marriage. It's an episode that promises learning and maybe even a little bit of love wisdom.

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