Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen

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Hi submissive!
Are you ready to push your boundaries and step into the thrilling world of public exhibitionism? Join me, Chastity Queen, as I share essential tips on how to enjoy this exciting activity responsibly. Learn how to avoid areas frequented by families and children, always have a backup plan, and carry the right gear discreetly. Hear about the importance of considering Murphy's Law and having an escape strategy. You'll come away with practical advice on how to make public risk-taking a thrilling yet respectful experience.
Discover the finer points of discretion and safety in your sexual exploration journey. Whether it's ensuring anonymity when sharing photos or the excitement of secret acts like wearing lingerie under everyday clothes, this episode offers wisdom on embracing your desires intelligently. I'll also discuss the benefits of joining sex clubs for a more open and accepting environment to express your fantasies. This conversation is designed to inspire and empower you to expand your sexual horizons responsibly while maintaining personal and reputational integrity. Tune in and start your adventure today!
"Chastity Is Freedom"
Chastity Queen

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The most profound power exchange doesn't happen during scenes—it unfolds in daily life choices. Chastity Queen delivers a thought-provoking exploration of what separates casual play partners from truly dedicated submissives: the willingness to transform your lifestyle for service.
Drawing from Her experience managing slaves both long-distance and in-person, she reveals how the management of diet, exercise, substance use, and mental health forms the foundation of meaningful D/s relationships. Rather than viewing these expectations as restrictive, She frames lifestyle management as the ultimate expression of devotion. After all, "you don't bring roadkill to an altar to burn"—you bring your very best self.
The episode tackles controversial topics head-on, particularly the dangers of combining substances with play. With unflinching clarity, Chastity Queen explains why She monitors Her slaves' alcohol consumption and prohibits substances during sessions. Safety concerns aside, She argues that a submissive who requires "medication" to enjoy service fundamentally misunderstands the nature of submission.
What makes this perspective so compelling is Her balanced approach. While She holds submissives to high standards, She equally demands excellence from Herself and other dominants. This reciprocal commitment to growth creates relationships where both parties continuously elevate each other. For those currently seeking a dominant, Her advice is transformative: begin the work of self-improvement now, as it will make you infinitely more attractive to potential dominants.
Ready to transform your approach to submission? Listen now to discover how becoming your best self creates the foundation for profound power exchange.

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Hi kinky subs!
Have you ever entertained the idea of surrendering ultimate control to your partner? This episode, hosted by the ever-passionate Chastity Queen, pulls back the curtain on the intriguing world of chastity and its transformative power in relationships. You'll find out why bestowing the gift of control and becoming a keyholder isn't just a physical thrill; it's a profound act of trust that can bind you and your partner in new, electrifying ways. We dive into the heart of what makes chastity a game-changer in intimacy, from sparking curiosity to breaking the monotony of daily life.
Whether you're a seasoned player in the power dynamic scene or simply curious about expanding your pleasure palette, this conversation is your invitation to a world where play, trust, and surrender can lead to an exhilarating journey of discovery with your partner.
Chastity Queen
"Chastity IS Freedom"

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Have you ever been shamed or ever felt ashamed of your kink/s or fetishes? Do you wonder why people shame others for their personal choices? And, how and when does shame start? How is the cuckold kink, perceived? Listen at 36:17, for the REAL reason why, I LOVE chastity! In this episode, I will dig into those topics, share some information from a great resource that I often turn to, called: Psychology Today and I discuss how kinks used to be considered a symptom of mental illness and how that original (and improper diagnosis) from the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) has now changed. At 35:47, I discuss tease and denial kink. I also discuss how to approach public kink/fetish play. I will share a real life story, of one of My first sissies and their desire to display their kink to someone that did not CONSENT and how I dealt with that situation. I will also share the methods and reasons behind My specific approach, with any public kink. My slave and I, discuss these things from the perspective of Me, a FemDom and him, a submissive slave-minded, chaste man.

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Dear locked subs,
Discover how chastity and feminization can redefine the boundaries of submission and personal growth in BDSM. Ever wondered why some men willingly choose chastity? Or how feminization can transition a submissive from simply obeying to embracing a profound slave mindset? In this episode, we unravel these dynamics, offering a fresh perspective on how elements like feminine attire can enhance trust and freedom within dominant-submissive relationships. By bravely stepping into taboo territories of humiliation and embarrassment, individuals can unlock new dimensions of identity, gaining enjoyment and power in areas that once seemed intolerable.
Join Me on this thought-provoking journey as We/we also explore gender exploration through chastity and feminization. Find out how these practices serve as unique forms of escapism, providing relief and alignment with one's desired gender identity. From the thrill of cross-dressing during Halloween to the accessibility of acquiring outfits through thrift shops, we dive into how embracing these experiences without fear of judgment promotes self-discovery and liberation. This episode promises to challenge conventional judgments and encourages an open-minded approach to experimenting with soft limits, offering listeners a deeper understanding of identity and desire within the BDSM spectrum.
Chastity IS freedom!
Chastity Queen

Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen

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