Why do many in BDSM enjoy ABDL/DL? + Can BDSM heal the mind?
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10/30/22 • 91 min
TRIGGER WARNING: Some discussions involving CSA
In this episode, I dive into ABDL role play and dl sensation play, what it is and how stigmas exist against those who enjoy this style of play. ABDL/dl play has become extremely popular and discussing it will remove some of the most common misconceptions, surrounding it. Bunny joins Me, as we discuss this and We/we each share personal stories that may be challenging to listen to but serve to lift everyone up, in the message of hope, healing and growth. We also talk about Star Trek's Prime Directive and how this would benefit society as a whole. Right?! We touch on dungeon safety, as we often do and the discuss the draw backs of mixing alcohol and drugs, in any D/s impact scenes.
The biggest question is: Has Chastity Queen ever tried on a diaper in an ABDL session? Listen, to find out.
* At the end of this episode we had some minor audio issues, but you can still hear the message. Bunny simply sounds like he's in a wind tunnel or Mr. Roboto from 1:25-1:30. If anything, it adds a Sci-Fi aesthetic to the audio. HA HA
Enjoy xoxo
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TRIGGER WARNING: Some discussions involving CSA
In this episode, I dive into ABDL role play and dl sensation play, what it is and how stigmas exist against those who enjoy this style of play. ABDL/dl play has become extremely popular and discussing it will remove some of the most common misconceptions, surrounding it. Bunny joins Me, as we discuss this and We/we each share personal stories that may be challenging to listen to but serve to lift everyone up, in the message of hope, healing and growth. We also talk about Star Trek's Prime Directive and how this would benefit society as a whole. Right?! We touch on dungeon safety, as we often do and the discuss the draw backs of mixing alcohol and drugs, in any D/s impact scenes.
The biggest question is: Has Chastity Queen ever tried on a diaper in an ABDL session? Listen, to find out.
* At the end of this episode we had some minor audio issues, but you can still hear the message. Bunny simply sounds like he's in a wind tunnel or Mr. Roboto from 1:25-1:30. If anything, it adds a Sci-Fi aesthetic to the audio. HA HA
Enjoy xoxo
Chastity Queen
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* using We/we (Upper/lower case when defining Myself or My slave) is a D/s mannerism/technique in writing.
* Psychopathy is a mental disorder according to both the Wakefield definition and American Psychiatric Association criteria (APA 2000)
* www.apa.org: "About 1.2% of U.S. adult men and 0.3%-0.7% of U.S. adult women are considered to have clinically significant levels of psychopathic traits. Those numbers rise exponentially in prison, where 15% to 25% of inmates show these characteristics. Psychopathy is not a diagnostic category in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V) ..replaced by Anti Social Personality Disorder (ASPD).." (for more details, go to www.apa.org)
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