You and Me Forever (Part 1) - Francis and Lisa Chan

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Marriage in Light of Eternity

Guests: Francis and Lisa Chan

From the series: You and Me Forever (Day 1 of 3)

Bob: You’ve heard the statistic that the divorce rate in the church is no different than the divorce rate outside of the church? Francis Chan says he’s not buying it.

Francis: Yes; I mean, I really believe there has never been a divorce between two Spirit-filled believers. They are using stats of everyone who goes to church / calls themselves a Christian, which—and, that’s what the Bible / that’s what Jesus says all the time: “I know you say that you are a believer. You call Me, ‘Lord,’ but why do you call Me, ‘Lord,’ when you don’t do what I say? [emphasis added]” You know, the whole book of 1 John is—it doesn’t matter that you say you know Him—because you don’t obey His commands, you are a liar.

Bob: This is FamilyLife Today for Monday, January 22nd. Our host is Dennis Rainey; I’m Bob Lepine. To make a marriage work, Francis and Lisa Chan say it takes more than two—more than you and me. We’ll talk with them about that today. Stay with us.

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Now, I’ve got to be honest with you, Dennis. I have always wanted to meet one of our guests today, because I’ve always wanted to meet the woman who could be married to Francis Chan; you know? [Laughter]

Dennis: Yes; I’ve wondered that as well! So, Lisa, welcome to the broadcast. [Laughter]

Lisa: Thank you very much.

Dennis: You’ve kind of wondered that, too, by now; haven’t you?

Lisa: Yes; what did I get myself into?—no. [Laughter]

Dennis: Well, he’s a good man, Francis.

Lisa: Yes; he is!

Dennis: Welcome back.

Francis: Thank you.

Dennis: We’ve had you on the broadcast, and we have battled—

Francis: Yes.

Dennis: —the soapbox in the middle of the table and the microphones as we talked about the Holy Spirit a number of years ago.

Francis: That’s right.

Dennis: But you guys have written a fresh book called You and Me Forever.

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It’s subtitled, Marriage in Light of Eternity. Now, you may not know this, but our Weekend to Remember marriage getaway begins talking about the glory of God / the transcendent purpose of marriage as God intended it. Couples are learning that marriage is about more than just “you and me.”

Bob: And most people think it’s about them; don’t they?

Francis: Yes; marriage is such a small part of this bigger picture in Scripture.

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