The Boundaries We Build and We Break

06/19/20 • 28 min

In this episode, Becca and Andrea engage in a new conversation for them: boundaries. These aren't boundaries with the world, but boundaries they have built up in terms of each other as a mother and daughter. The word "boundaries" tends to have a negative connotation, but there are, in fact, some things that are better kept unknown...or are they? What are some of those things from a mother's perspective? What are some of those things from a daughter's perspective? How have Becca and Andrea's boundaries changed over the course of their mother-daughter relationship? Tune in to find out and to take the opportunity to ponder the boundaries you have with your loved ones...and why!

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Career Inspiration with Julie and Ali Hartman

In this week's episode, we have our first mother-daughter duo interview! Ali (the daughter) is in graduate school to get a degree in clinical psychology with a focus on perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Julie (the mom) does "everything birth-y": a birth doula, lactation counselor, and new parent educator. From keeping placentas in the fridge to cuddling in bed and sharing live birth stories, tune in to hear how Julie influenced Ali's career path.
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These teenage years are some of the hardest times, and it seems like no one fully understands how to handle them. But, they are some of the most crucial times for a person's development. Tune in to hear Lindi and Dana's story and how we all seek independence in different ways, but often have similar emotions and questions surrounding the topic.