213: “Why isn’t my wife attracted to me anymore?” (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

07/15/22 • 47 min

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Ever had these kinds of thoughts?:

“If I didn’t initiate sex with my woman, we’d never have it.”
“My partner doesn’t want sex as much as me.”
“I sometimes feel like she only has sex with me because she feels like she has to."

If so, you’re not alone. This is a painful problem in a relationship. When you feel like your partner is constantly turning you down, that rejection button just keeps getting hit over and over. It can be excruciating.

Why is this happening and what can you do about it? Here, we break down the pattern, where it can stem from, and steps you may need to take. The truth is, if you constantly feel anxious, depressed, or stressed due to your relationship, it may not be healthy.

If you’re longing for more intimacy — not just sexual intimacy, but closeness — in your marriage or committed relationship, give this a listen.

Ever had these kinds of thoughts?:

“If I didn’t initiate sex with my woman, we’d never have it.”
“My partner doesn’t want sex as much as me.”
“I sometimes feel like she only has sex with me because she feels like she has to."

If you’re longing for more intimacy — not just sexual intimacy, but closeness — in your marriage or committed relationship, give this a listen.

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212: Have you had a disappointing love life? (ft. Dr. Thomas Jordan)

"I was raised by a mom who was dependent, controlling, and self-centered. Then I looked for women like that."

So begins this episode about what it's like to attract the wrong kind of women repeatedly ... and then do something different to get a different result.

The root of the word "familiar" is family — what we learn in the family is familiar. So what did you learn in your family system, and is it serving you now in your ability to form healthy attachments with romantic partners?

If you didn't have good role models, fear not! You can un-learn what you learned in the past. It is possible to grow, heal, and attract healthy partners. If you've ever felt like giving up on love, or you just don't understand relationships, or dating or sex or any of it -- listen to this.

“Living without love in your life” mentioned in this episode: https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/how-to-live-without-love-in-your-life/

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214: How does the father wound affect a man? (ft. Jason Lange)

"Kids have a hole in their soul in the shape of their dad," says Roland Warren, former president of the National Fatherhood Initiative. "And if a father is unwilling or unable to fill that hole, it can leave a wound that is not easily healed."

If your sex and love life hasn't worked — i.e. you often attract chaotic partners; or you can't seem to screw up the courage to approach the women you really want; or you just keep getting ghosted no matter what— then you may have a father wound.

Here we go over 3 common archetypes around the father wound and what their impact is on a man. This includes dads who either physically or emotionally absent, as well alcoholics and those who had a mental health issue like depression/anxiety.

The good news? It's more than possible to overcome the father wound and grow into the healthy masculine. We specifically lay out the concrete strategy you can use to prevail over this wound. Yes, it takes work to get there, but it's totally achievable — and worth it.

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