Why do some women want monogamy if they can’t meet all of their partners’ needs? That’s Devale’s question for Khadeen this week as the Ellises talk about where their sex life is after 10 years of marriage. How do their standards for sex match up? What do they consider intimacy? And is monogamy really worth it? Find out in this episode of Dead Ass.
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10/14/20 • 54 min
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Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis - Monogamy: Expectations vs. Reality
Transcript Summary
In this episode titled "Monogamy: Expectations vs. Reality," the speaker delves into the complexities of maintaining a healthy sex life in a long-term relationship. They discuss the challenges that arise when sex slows down after moving in together, emphasizing the importance of distance and missing each other. The speaker questions societal expectations around monogamy and highlights the selfishness of expecting one person to fulfill all sexual needs. They suggest that divorce may be necessary if sexual needs cannot be met within the marriage. The importance of genuine and enjoyable sexual connection is emphasized, and the speaker provides personal experiences and advice on spicing up a long-term sexual relationship. The episode promotes open communication, experimentation, and debunking stereotypes about sex in relationships. Whether you're struggling with intimacy or seeking to enhance your sex life, this episode offers insightful perspectives and tips to maintain a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship.
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Yo. I say this with all due respect to me or in general in general. But however, having sex should not be a chore. And if it is a chore, and you know it's a chore, you should not demand or push monogamy on your partner. Okay, that's fair. Fair? Are you looking at me like that? I'm not I'm just who am I supposed to be looking at them? It's just me and you were here. Well, I thought that my sex drive would have been renewed with the vow renewal, Bu
Monogamy: Expectations vs. Reality Top Questions Answered
Is it acceptable to watch porn in a committed relationship?
The acceptability of watching porn in a committed relationship is subjective and should be determined collectively by the individuals involved.
How can I spice up a long-term relationship?
Trying new things, open communication, and being receptive to each other's needs and desires can help spice up a long-term relationship.
How can I improve a mundane sex life within a long-term marriage?
Improving a mundane sex life within a long-term marriage can be achieved by discussing preferences openly, putting ego aside, and finding ways to evolve and satisfy each other sexually.
Is having a high sex drive in women normal?
Yes, having a high sex drive in women is normal and should not be stigmatized.
How does having children impact libido?
Having children can impact libido in various ways and may require couples to find new strategies to maintain a healthy sexual relationship.
Why do some marriages end in infidelity?
There can be several reasons why some marriages end in infidelity, including a lack of communication, unmet needs, and dissatisfaction within the relationship.
What are some tips for maintaining a healthy sexual relationship?
Prioritizing intimacy, open communication, considering therapy if needed, and being receptive to each other's desires are among the tips for maintaining a healthy sexual relationship.
Are there different love and desire languages?
Yes, there are different love and desire languages, and understanding and communicating in each other's languages can significantly benefit a relationship.
How can I navigate the challenges of differing desires and expectations in a relationship?
Navigating the challenges of differing desires and expectations in a relationship requires open communication, compromise, and a willingness to understand and meet each other's needs.
Should sex be prioritized in a marriage?
The speakers emphasize the importance of prioritizing sex in a marriage as it can contribute to emotional intimacy and overall relationship satisfaction.
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